lou.m...like loveydove said, I only rejected him because I'm already in a relationship now and because even if I wasn't...we're not really compatible IMO. He's rigid and it's his way or no way. I can't operate in the confines of that structure. He once told me that he advises the men who he supervises that's it's none of their spouse's business how much money the man makes if he's the only one bringing money into the household. My mouth dropped open. Lol ha ha ha
He's doing very well for himself and now his life is about working, his school work, but feeling kind of empty. Funny...I attract men like that in SPADES. It just so happens that he expressed himself a tad too late. I would NEVER have someone open up to me on ANY level without aiding in them getting closure if I didn't want them as a mate. That's one of the cruelest things you can do...engage with someone on an affectionate level and leave them with a bunch of unanswered questions or wondering why you either don't find them attractive or don't want a serious relationship with them. That's just BS!