Posted by CocoKatPosted by MontgomeryPosted by CocoKatPosted by Montgomery
Yeesh... normally I'm an advocate of telling-- esp when the
the one being cheated on is financially supporting the cheater.
I'm still not convinced you shouldn't tell her.
Yes, she may see you as the enemy and he may feed her a line
of bullbutter that she will choose to believe... but I would be in knots
keeping it a secret.
Ugh... and she's your friend.
Can you just frame it like: You're my friend, and I know you would
do the same for me-- maybe you two have an arrangement, idk.
bleh, I hate situations like this.
His fault for going in public with it.
Montgomery get out of my brain! these are exactly my thoughts...it is his fault, God I wish I didn't see this!!!
Hmm... what if you don't mention the other woman at all?
What if you just tell her that you missed her the other night up at Le butterty Bar?
When she gives you the WTF Look... just say something like
Yeah, we saw ______ (her pos bf) up there last Saturday, and we were hoping to
see you too -- I'll call you next time we're going
Her imagination will take care of the rest.
She can ask questions if she wants... if she doesn't, you're off the hook.
This is really good.click to expand