Posted by tiziani
I don't know, I was thinking about it this morning actually. The most unforgettable chemistry so far has been with a Pisces woman. As I said before these are two signs that don't know how to say no. It wasn't about the physical sex in the end, it was the unusual level of openness and willingness from both sides to please one another with no taboo. And the fact I could establish that kind of connection with a woman was quite literally mind-altering. It changes my view of what is possible and not possible in the world.
BUT the sum total of that connection is that it ended. It's over.
So it's clearly not everything. And as I've mentioned before there is such a thing as being selfishly selfless. When you spend so much time pleasing a partner that they don't really know what you want or where you stand. I think there are merits to the opposite - a selflessly selfish lover that thinks of themselves first, that really go under-appreciated at times.
Openness frankly is just one side of the coin to intimacy in my experience.
Take the good with the good and the bad with the bad. Happy New Year.