Posted by MsTeeq1974 Since you dropped her, I don't understand why you care about how she feels. You said that you're not going to talk to her anymore. She vented on how she felt about your statement...end of story.
Lol....so you criticize and drop someone, but you want them to love you for it. Where they do that AT??
You twisted the situation. Had she been ok with the criticism instead of whining everything would be fine, but no. Yes she should be thankful someone tells her something that was obviously never told to her.
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Huh??? This is..weird at best. You can't determine, nor control another person's response. Not ever. You do you, but I think it's best to understand that and do what you did, accept that she might freak out, or handle it another way if you want a different results. If you want a person to...as you say, "Be ok with it", well then communicate with them in such a way that you're facilitating that they're going to "be ok". If your prime motivation is getting something off of your chest and then being done with the situation...then the other person's response doesn't matter.