Posted by shutupmel
Based upon what you've told us, I think your boyfriend is not over his ex and personally, that would prompt me to leave. People who are actually over their ex (especially the ones that hurt them), that have ZERO intentions of getting back with them OR hope that they can rekindle "that old thing" are NOT interested in meeting up for"closure" sessions. I think that's just an excuse to see if the relationship can possibly be rekindled in my opinion. I think they are just waiting for that ex to say the right thing that will prompt them to give them a second chance but they gotta be face to face to read body language. I think he's trying to play "hard to get back" with his ex but doesn't want to make it too obvious (so he lets you view his text) because he doesn't want to completely drive you away or else there is a chance he'll end up the loser at the end of the day.
I thought about that but I can't possibly understand why? I have more going for me than his ex, I am objectively better looking (once again, being honest), and we have been together longer. Also, why even tell me at all? We don't live together and he could have deleted the texts/convo. He called me the moment it happened...Is this just some intricate scheme?
