Posted by Freetobe007Posted by VenusStarPosted by Freetobe007
Accept the fact that this was a seasonal connection and his presence was never meant to be long term. You don't need to be tough with yourself, you need to be firm with yourself.
For whatever reason, this guy clearly has no respect for you and he doesn't have the self-discipline to master his (what honestly seems unnecessary) hate for you. So say you guys did give things another try...it would become a toxic relationship. Sounds like he's got some issues that would downgrade his quality as a potential mate. At this point, you're just wasting your time alive caring for someone who doesn't deserve it.
Youre right . i needed to hear that. He resents me for rejecting in college. I didnt know i did and i didnt know that he even liked me because he was so scared of me then. I guess i saw potential but that means nothing if he hates me to the point of disrespect.
That's not a reason to hate somebody and that says a lot about what's probably an inability to emotionally function in a normal, healthy way. You do not deserve to be hated and publicly degraded on FB for rejecting someone in college. Why is he not mature enough to understand that if the timing is off, he may not get what he wants from a woman at that time? Especially if he was never straightforward about communicating how he felt towards you. What other silly, petty, unnecessary bullbutter would you have to deal with from him in the future because he got in his feelings and failed to communicate openly? Say by chance, you gave it another try, you'd probably have to worry about him lashing out and not using his words like a grown adult and instead butterting on your self-esteem whenever he gets upset.
You need to have a standard for men and his behavior simply isn't cutting it. It doesn't even sound like this guy has evolved enough to bring anything fruitful to the table.click to expand