Sun:01?? 46' in Taurus Moon:10?? 31' in Gemini Mercury:14?? 21' in Taurus
female from New York City Baby!
It's typical for some Virgos to just go with the flow and pretend they're OK with a situation, being patient, analyzing the situation, and seeing if there is potential for longevity.
However, the mystery stops here. He IS in a relationship. There is nothing to psychoanalyze. I mentioned this in a previous thread, there are three types of Bulls, the Bullbutterters, the Proscatinors, and the Bullfighters.
I think you have encountered a Bullbutterter. A hedonistic cheater who wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Bulls are receptive to 'firmness' and 'consistency.' Don't go with the flow. Call him out on his bullbutter, tell him that you know that he is in a relationship. Tell him that he needs to respect the work boundaries. ...And then stop entertaining him.
This can go two ways. 1. He will respect your wishes, and leave you alone, respect you in the process, and you may have a loyal friend, and a reliable co-worker.
2. If he is really interested, he will end the relationship, then approach you a little more cautiously.
Never create gray areas for a Bull, especially the unevolved cheaters.