My Capricorn is extremely excited about our upcoming wedding [as well as My Capricorn's closest friends and family] yet my Capricorn seems to be getting rather nervous about our upcoming wedding, influencing My Capricorn to behave/think/emote rather nervously.
For example, she has recently stated regarding our upcoming wedding in December:
"And I must say it's a huge change and the more I tell people about the more people get excited and what not which is good but now am thinking am I doing this cause am ready or am I doing it cause everyone is happy for me"
But then follows up by saying "Don't get it twisted am happy with you. Nothing has changed really"
Yet when I reason to My Capricorn that if it is Truly/Actually the case that "Nothing has changed really," then My Capricorn will 'not think/emote/behave [do] but just Remain at Peace, My Capricorn becomes mum.
In short, my Capricorn's Worring [Irrationality] seems to be driving her Crazy.
I always utilize Rationality [Sound Reasoning] to inform her of this. But My Capricorn does not receive Rationality well when My Capricorn is in an Irrational [Emotional] State.
Is there another method of helping My Capricorn view her reasoning objectively other than coundeling My Capricorn to be at Peace [at all times]?