Posted by Leobaby89Posted by LoudLeo
When I was much younger (20s), I always helped others in whatever it was they needed. Rides, help moving, help with homework, or whatever. Then it got to the point where I was too busy helping others succeed and not helping myself. So yeah, over the last 10 or so years I've switched that up, and I'm a little more selfish these days.
I need to work on being more selfish with me. I was just telling someone that I feel like a trashcan. Where people dump their insecurities, self hate and drama into my life and I take on their issues on personallu and care way more than they do. I hold on to people all the time because I want to help and care. After writing this post last night someone called me and asked for a listening ear and a favor without asking anything about me and I am actually going through so much right now. This is our conversation all the time. He (no romantic interest at all) will call tell me about his situation and then off the phone we go. It's never "hey how are you" and this is just an example of many. I guess I have to start some place so I am putting my foot down. wish me luck, lol. @moonshineleoclick to expand