@brianafay @DMV

you are both right. we always are there for friends at a moments notice.

A lot of times we weather storms alone because we don't want to impose on others. unless we need help processing information and need to bounce them off of someone. and we only do that in an emergency.

But because we are great communicators and reliable friends, people take advantage of our good nature and misery loves company, so we take an ear to their issues, but its draining on us.

we care. We always care, and we will always sacrifice. a mature sag starts to think about themselves because we have our own problems and taking on someone else's has a time and place.