Posted by Infinite8Posted by lovevibePosted by Infinite8Posted by lovevibe
I've been in communication with a beautiful Capricorn woman for almost a year now. We connected online and have never met in person.
Her vibe is beautiful. She's intelligent, spiritual, and gorgeous.
For the past year we have only exchanged messages. I've always been open about my interest in her. Sometimes she says things that make me think she's into me as well. Other times she's distant and causes confusion in me. At times I feel like we're getting close and then things change. I hate that feeling of thinking I may have an opportunity with her. Then suddenly I feel like I'm back at square one.
Recently I decided to leave her alone and I stopped messaging her for about a week and a half. Before then we would exchange messages almost every day. Or every other day. At times we're there for more than an hour. Anyway. I distanced myself for a bit from her. Then out of nowhere she sends me her phone number. Which I get super happy about. Thinking there has to be something there otherwise why would she give me her number.
After I saved her number. We texted for a bit and she mentioned how happy she was to be communicating with me outside of the net. Then I asked her what would be a good day and time to call her. She then tells me to not force anything. To just let things flow. That it will flow in the right time and to trust that process. Well it's been a week now since I have her number and our communication is still kind of like it was through our online communication.
I'm a straight forward person and I tell her what I think and feel about her. She always tells me that she loves the kind of person that I am. That she loves and admires some of my virtues. I'm a patient guy. Especially for someone like her that I genuinely feel for in my heart. But it's hard to know where I stand with this woman.
It's only been a week, you actually sound impatient.
Have you two ever met in person? I think that would be necessary for her to actually see you two as something serious.
Caps are active, whether social or work or both. If you don't like her pace, then you aren't a good fit with her.
That is her bottom line message. If you could handle this and just go with the flow without overthink and without letting your emotions and paranoia get the best of you... then you two have hope.
Just chill out. Don't take you and her too seriously, YET. Just do your own thing and try to find a way to meet up physically more often.
I liked your comment. Thanks.
You're absolutely right. I need to just go about my life and not focus too much on it. It's hard for me to read her and since I'm attracted to her. I want to show her affection and love. But at the same time I don't want to scare her away seeming desperate.
If things work out cool. If not, there's probably something better and less complicated for each one of us.
I'll stop trying. Thanks again for the words.
Much love to everyone.
Yeah, I understand. You get caught up in the excitement of your emotions. You just need to allow her to get excited about you.
Allow her to feel what you feel for her. She just needs to trust the situation before she starts taking you seriously.
Honestly, it is best to see her physically!click to expand