@RooSagicorn
well. I don't mind being Friends or friendly, but if there is a sexual connection you want to see if it can be more, but if the sex is ehhhh, we can stay friends... Its hard to explain. It's not like you want pornstar status. you just want a satisfying sex life. We meet so many people and then you get curious...about how the sex is, especially if at home its ehhhh.
I'm 33. do you know how many of my friends complain about their wives/long-term girlfriends... they say "oh, I thought she would eventually do xyz... and she never does it. or she stopped doing x, or we barely have sex anymore"... screw that!