Posted by SheeverPosted by hellosaggy
I personally don’t like dating multiple people at once anymore. That’s where difficulties are coming in for me. I like her as a person. Just not normally my style and speed.... but at the same time I’m still talking to others that are. Me liking a person doesn’t change no matter who I talk to, but conscience wise I try not to do anything that will hurt any of their feelings if they found out about each other at some point.
It’s funny bc a lot of people are saying... oh she wants to know if you are going to waste her time and if you are serious. That’s really exactly the same thing I’m doing.
She and I have good chemistry and I like her from what I know of her. I already consider her someone that could be a friend. I don’t get close to people quickly.
Why should good chemistry and liking someone stop you from good chemistry and liking someone else?
Well, they don't like that when they spend their time on you,while you share yours with others too.they more serious. She might not say anything but you not earn bonus points like that. Anyway, I think your question is pointless all together. No difference than trying to get on with anyone else, if you want her, you make efforts. And consider her personality and what she represents. So simple.
Talking from experience, I am with a capclick to expand