Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by hellosaggyPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by hellosaggyPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by hellosaggyPosted by UnicornSag
I didn't say they're not great friends. In general it's more down to fun part than anything else that's all. While Sag women are there for all. The good and the bad both. I don't like to drag words out of people either, if they want to talk they will if not I won't force them. But it's a common decency to me when someone say they're not feeling well to ask simply: "What happened? Do you want to talk about it? Is there anything I can do to help?"
That much is a normal thing to do for me at least If they don't want any of that then it's ok, no one forces anyone to anything, but asking about it shows you care about the person.
I often got that too from Cap guy for certain things, he said you didn't ask me about this or that and I said what i think exactly, I don't want to stick my nose too much into it but I am interested, I feel if you want to tell me you will. Think that's reasonable way of thinking. But when it comes to parts when that person is feeling bad or frustrated it's perfectly fine to talk to them about it and see if they need to open up or just some time in peace
Yeah... her statement was "just to let you know, I'm in a bad mood, just warning you because you are a sweet guy"
So I just cut it right there, because it sounds like its going to ruin our date. it came across like she was going to be pissy and I just needed to deal with it.
I'm not walking on egg shells for something I didn't do to you, so you stay home or whatever you are doing and figure your shit out.
If she had just said "Hey, I had a bad day today so far." that's another story. we are on the same page though @unicornsag
hhmm there's very lil differrence in those two statements except in one she's kind of playing a victim and seeing if you're down to save her lol
That's my point... I don't go LOOKING to save, unless you provide some benefit to me. She at this time doesn't provide a benefit to me to pull anything out of her... until I put something in her
all jokes aside... I read right through it which is why I was just like... well ok. hope you get over it soon.
If you saw it why ignore it? You don’t want to be there for her unless you have sex? Serious power games... kind of unhealthy don’t you think?
Nope... no power games... its actually the other way around. she's controlling everything we do and the pace we do it. I get no say. More putting my foot down.
Well I think you said a lot by actively not choosing to be there for her. Honestly it’s just you don’t really understand her emotions. You might understand what she’s doing but you don’t vibe with it. Like a Pisces guy would probably be more sensitive to those emotional needs and might have been able to deepen the bond than take a step back. I mean sometimes both approaches are necessary and I’m not here to say which one is correct. I just know if I was her I’d probably like a softer approach.click to expand