FYI - It's not easy dating

Posted by RedemptionSong

Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by RedemptionSong

Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Be more selective who you date and why you date them. So most of the above problems will solve themselves. You can't be seriously interested in more than a few girls at a time.

So what do you really want? A serious relationship with mrs right? Then become more selective, become more choosey with your time, money and energy. You sending out the wrong vibes while chasing glitter!

You don't have to date mire than a few times to see if you want to continue the persue or not - you guys know from date 1 if she is a game changer or not. Don't entertain time wasters

I know before the first date if I want to have Sex with her from a purely physical standpoint.... during and after date 1 it confirms it.

I'm not looking for a game changer. I'm looking for a semi-regular friend.

I assume you're meeting these women through online dating. Are you specific on your profile that you are looking only for casual? If not then you are setting yourself up for failure.

All these hoes out here and you can't find one on the same page as you? Then you're doing it wrong.

yeah, most of them, I just scroll through my messages.... well....in my profile I say NSA/FWB... but I tend to only reply to the ones I'm interested in, I don't reach out first, so they should have read mine, I only go up there when I get about 10 notifications. I don't really care what they say in their profile, bc they should read mine.

This where you fail. I get it, you're going primarily by physical. But you're not doing it smart. You let the women do the choosing. Already a mistake you should be browsing profiles and picking the ones you like. You are missing out in even better choices because most women don't message first. Then you don't read the profile to screen what it is they are actually looking for. Any woman who states relationship should be immediately eliminated.

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Yeah... I probably should put more effort into it. I put in my headline *please read profile before messaging me* ... so I figure they read it and decide they are willing to be what I want. I go through and like profiles of women I find attractive, I don't read I just scroll through pictures so I know who I liked when I get a message.