FYI - It's not easy dating

Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by AquaNextDoor

Posted by hellosaggy
@pinkbird03

I wouldn't consider myself a fuck boy. I am upfront (I just edited my OP)... I just want fun. I like the company of women. the complexities, the sexuality, I just don't want a serious relationship. They always start the honey, babe, good morning, good night shit, and I end it for that reason.

I think the problem is I do sweet shit... send you lunch, buy you medication, open doors, pay for outings, etc. I think they aren't used to men being attentive. I'm just noticing and acting accordingly, I won't stop being a good guy just bc we are only having sex.

@Aquanextdoor

sooooo... I should sit at home alone for a year? I've never dated more than 4 girls at once... Right now its actually only one... an aqua(we haven't had sex yet, but she SAID she's cool with being FWB)... so to keep myself from focusing on one, and throwing a mixed signal. I have to date a few more. I'm meeting an aries for coffee Sunday, the girl I went out with tonight (shes a gemini) she's ok...I might keep playing the Cap by ear.. but no more dinners for her! I can save that money for another one.

I was confused because you keep using the word "date" to me that's when you get to know & take out someone in order to maybe become more serious. You actually see & meet ladies 😎 You don't date since you aren't looking for a relationship

yah. I use date to mean I'm trying to get into her... literally lol... its a non platonic situation.

I'll say I'm courting if I'm trying to be in a relationship *I'm classy*

hanging out or see/meet I just think it means friends.

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Duh!!! Its almost christmas!! I bet some of them expect a gift 😂😂 man you keep yourself busy!