I’ve used Tinder and met a couple guys. Only one seemed sooo unlike his pics. I seriously had a feeling of dread when I was with him. And I stupidly agreed to pick him up from work and drive him home. So I felt obligated even though every sense in my body was telling me to get away.
I brought him home, had a panic attack and refused a drink, even water, I just felt scared and uncomfortable. And shortly after I called my son from the bathroom to call me with an emergency so I could leave. He knew. Omg he freaked me out. He walked me out and was like, you don’t really have to go do you. And I said no, but I want to sorry. He texted me so many times while I drove home, saying he was a great catch and I treetrunked up, then telling me he’s blocking me, then just let him know i got home safe then he’d block me after. He seemed really.. idk. Off.
And he wasn’t big or anything. He was actually my height and I’m short. He just seemed really high and sketchy. Like something was off and I couldn’t deal with it. He made so many comments like “oh you’re smitten with me now wait til you see this” then he called his Mom and said I love you. And he’s like “I’m a good son, i’m a Momma’s boy” Like I’m supposed to be impressed with that. it was the most bizarre night I ever had.
I left and had to pull over to cry. He actually scared me. So weird. So really the only thing he lied about was his height. And he looked different in pictures but it was him I guess before he starting doing drugs and weighed 95 lbs and seemed like a crackhead.
I gave up on tinder months ago. I met some ok guys there, but he was something else.