For those by themselves this Season: thread

Edit: this to welcome new members as well as old, for anyone that feels the ache of the Season.



Just thought I'd make a space for this.

I understand there are many different forms of Christmas,

both culturally, religiously, spiritually, secular or commercial etc

But there is no denying the impact the Holidays have on people from all walks of Life- whether it's seasonal affective disorder, coping with the "acting Festive" pressure, losing loved ones, or the many ups and downs the Year has thrown our way.

This thread is just here if anyone wants to reach out, break from isolation or chat through this time...

I may not be on here too often, but I trust my dear DeeExpuh friends to be kind and take care of anyone who enters

🙂

Posted by Impulsv
I'll be checking in too

Wanting to see assassins creed today or tomorrow along with star wars

can't wait to see Assassins myself altho I'm not a gamer, saw Star Wars it.was.AMAZE super enjoyable 😄

Posted by No
How thoughtful ?



Btw I'm doing fine, but your kindness is heart warming. Thank you 🤗

😆 🤗 glad to hear it ~*~

Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
you're never alone when you have dxp 😆

This is Truth lmao

How sweet wagtail

Thanks peeps 😎

I DO hope anyone who feels the need to share, vent or just post their thoughts does so...

It's good to have a safe space at this time of year, online in particular ~*~

Awwww Waggy! Love you to pieces! 🤗



im alone and i'm doing a-okay, so far! but if i dont i will for sure reach out to peeps that i am close to! I usually loose it on Christmas day when i see all the joy and cheer plastered all over FB. i usually get to where i just cuddle in bed under blankets and watch movies lol

Posted by justagirl
Awwww Waggy! Love you to pieces! 🤗



im alone and i'm doing a-okay, so far! but if i dont i will for sure reach out to peeps that i am close to! I usually loose it on Christmas day when i see all the joy and cheer plastered all over FB. i usually get to where i just cuddle in bed under blankets and watch movies lol

🤗

Bed, blankets and movies sounds marvellous! 😆

...or some Standup comedy (laughter is good... ^^).

Posted by tiziani
Yep I am spending Christmas alone in an empty house, but I've done it before. And the cats are here.

no, you can skype with your facebook friends! What about the fam?

Merry Christmas Tiz!

Posted by neves
...or some Standup comedy (laughter is good... ^^).

Perfect! 😆

Posted by tiziani
Yep I am spending Christmas alone in an empty house, but I've done it before. And the cats are here.

Sounds lovely, & cats are furpeople too 😄

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🤗

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Yep I am spending Christmas alone in an empty house, but I've done it before. And the cats are here.

no, you can skype with your facebook friends! What about the fam?

Merry Christmas Tiz!

Merry Christmas JAG!



I actually pretty much will be always ready to Skype with my family just after Christmas as they'll all be flying to my cousin's wedding, so hopefully they can show me that live.

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Dude, i meant you can skype with me.. but sniffle 😢 it's okay i know you got the cat to keep yoouuuu company.

But hopefully they do that for you 🙂

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Yep I am spending Christmas alone in an empty house, but I've done it before. And the cats are here.

no, you can skype with your facebook friends! What about the fam?

Merry Christmas Tiz!

Merry Christmas JAG!



I actually pretty much will be always ready to Skype with my family just after Christmas as they'll all be flying to my cousin's wedding, so hopefully they can show me that live.

Dude, i meant you can skype with me.. but sniffle 😢 it's okay i know you got the cat to keep yoouuuu company.

But hopefully they do that for you 🙂

I can call you after Christmas anytime you want for sure. Christmas itself I promised I'd spend on Skype with the Taurus.

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okay, imma hold you to that mister!

I'm another person who will be celebrating with just their cat this year, and maybe the family of deer that lives on my property if they're out and about. 🙂 And I'll definitely be on DXP.

Thanks for creating this thread Wagtail. Excellent and kind idea. 🙂

Posted by ScorpioStarGazer
Sometimes spending the holidays alone can be the best. I'm pretty much alone this year. My brothers spending Christmas in Chicago this year with the fiance. So it's just me and the cat. Of course my extended family is throwing the big Christmas Eve party tomorrow like they do every year where there is always way too much food and it's always way too loud. I'll probably go and make an appearance, but I'm really looking forward to coming home afterwards to curl up on the couch with the cat and sip hot chocolate while watching a movie. I normally don't get all festive, but this year I actually put up a Christmas tree and put a shit load of lights on the outside of my house. My neighborhood has this stupid decorating contest every year and this year I said why the hell not and entered. I don't know what has gotten into me. So tomorrow night the cat and I will probably stay up all night waiting on Santa to arrive. We will probably ring in the new year together too. Fun times! Lol

Sounds amazing! I hope it's a fabulous time for youeh 🙂

Posted by CopperDove
I'm another person who will be celebrating with just their cat this year, and maybe the family of deer that lives on my property if they're out and about. 🙂 And I'll definitely be on DXP.

Thanks for creating this thread Wagtail. Excellent and kind idea. 🙂

Sometimes animal friends are the best friendZ 😄 it sounds so lovely Copper 🤗

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I'm another person who will be celebrating with just their cat this year, and maybe the family of deer that lives on my property if they're out and about. 🙂 And I'll definitely be on DXP.

Thanks for creating this thread Wagtail. Excellent and kind idea. 🙂

Sometimes animal friends are the best friendZ 😄 it sounds so lovely Copper 🤗

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Yes, definitely. 🙂 It will be quite cozy I'm sure. 🙂

Posted by Scruffles
All by myself with my cat this Christmas too.

I'll take hugs now, please.

🤗

maybe this is a great weekend for a certain fish to kick off a certain season 2 @afternoondelights22 or a different mini game!



got me

@tiziani

@scruffles

all sitting around with their cats lol

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All by myself with my cat this Christmas too.

I'll take hugs now, please.

I'll hug you after we finish building up a lawsuit against the user named "Scuffles" because it's messing with my head.

lmao

Am I being trolled?

@Scuffles

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i wondered that when i saw the name pop up.. i had to do a double and triple take when i saw the name.. lol

@leowww

Very sweet, thank you! Merry Christmas! 🤗

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@leowww

A gif for you in return:

Posted by Sarkastikgenius_
Ohh this my 3rd year away from any friends or family. Haven't seen them either for that long.

🤗

How are you feeling, are you missing their company? 🙂

Posted by wagtail
Just thought I'd make a space for this.

I understand there are many different forms of Christmas,

both culturally, religiously, spiritually, secular or commercial etc

But there is no denying the impact the Holidays have on people from all walks of Life- whether it's seasonal affective disorder, coping with the "acting Festive" pressure, losing loved ones, or the many ups and downs the Year has thrown our way.

This thread is just here if anyone wants to reach out, break from isolation or chat through this time...

I may not be on here too often, but I trust my dear DeeExpuh friends to be kind and take care of anyone who enters

🙂

Hey girl....

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by wagtail
Just thought I'd make a space for this.

I understand there are many different forms of Christmas,

both culturally, religiously, spiritually, secular or commercial etc

But there is no denying the impact the Holidays have on people from all walks of Life- whether it's seasonal affective disorder, coping with the "acting Festive" pressure, losing loved ones, or the many ups and downs the Year has thrown our way.

This thread is just here if anyone wants to reach out, break from isolation or chat through this time...

I may not be on here too often, but I trust my dear DeeExpuh friends to be kind and take care of anyone who enters

🙂

Hey girl....

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👋 hey hey

How are you??

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
My sis will be working away on xmas. I will send her a pic of me sipping champagne and eating crayfish..........

😆

sometimes you gotta remind the peeps who aren't with us what they're missing too lol

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Posted by wagtail
Just thought I'd make a space for this.

I understand there are many different forms of Christmas,

both culturally, religiously, spiritually, secular or commercial etc

But there is no denying the impact the Holidays have on people from all walks of Life- whether it's seasonal affective disorder, coping with the "acting Festive" pressure, losing loved ones, or the many ups and downs the Year has thrown our way.

This thread is just here if anyone wants to reach out, break from isolation or chat through this time...

I may not be on here too often, but I trust my dear DeeExpuh friends to be kind and take care of anyone who enters

🙂

Hey girl....

👋 hey hey

How are you??

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I'm good I work this weekend. So have a Merry Christmas and Happy new year cause I work those days too. Haha.

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Posted by wagtail
Just thought I'd make a space for this.

I understand there are many different forms of Christmas,

both culturally, religiously, spiritually, secular or commercial etc

But there is no denying the impact the Holidays have on people from all walks of Life- whether it's seasonal affective disorder, coping with the "acting Festive" pressure, losing loved ones, or the many ups and downs the Year has thrown our way.

This thread is just here if anyone wants to reach out, break from isolation or chat through this time...

I may not be on here too often, but I trust my dear DeeExpuh friends to be kind and take care of anyone who enters

🙂

Hey girl....

👋 hey hey

How are you??

I'm good I work this weekend. So have a Merry Christmas and Happy new year cause I work those days too. Haha.

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Wow! Hi five!!! I'm working tooeh! — keep safe, have fun and enjoy the time you can dear x

Posted by AneemA
I don't celebrate Christmas...

But your gesture is so heart-warming and generous.

We all in DeeExpuh love you, Wagtail ?

🤗 much love AneemA 🙂

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Ohh this my 3rd year away from any friends or family. Haven't seen them either for that long.

🤗

How are you feeling, are you missing their company? 🙂

Of course I do! Haha. But the first year was the hardest and saddest for me.

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Totally understandable, I hope you still have a happy and safe Christmas- despite the distance between you and your loved ones ~*~

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Posted by wagtail
Just thought I'd make a space for this.

I understand there are many different forms of Christmas,

both culturally, religiously, spiritually, secular or commercial etc

But there is no denying the impact the Holidays have on people from all walks of Life- whether it's seasonal affective disorder, coping with the "acting Festive" pressure, losing loved ones, or the many ups and downs the Year has thrown our way.

This thread is just here if anyone wants to reach out, break from isolation or chat through this time...

I may not be on here too often, but I trust my dear DeeExpuh friends to be kind and take care of anyone who enters

🙂

Hey girl....

👋 hey hey

How are you??

I'm good I work this weekend. So have a Merry Christmas and Happy new year cause I work those days too. Haha.

Wow! Hi five!!! I'm working tooeh! — keep safe, have fun and enjoy the time you can dear x

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You too.

What misery!

Rather than starting another thread, I'll just wish a Merry Christmas to you all here:

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scruffles vs scuffles @_@

Scruffles vs Scuffles vs Damnata

Virgo with an Aries moon too. Scufflenata @_@

if she is romanian you can give the 3 tenors a run for their money

If she's Romanian we will have to increase our booze intake to clear the mindfuck -_-

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Scuffles will be our daughter. She has your name and your eyes and my placements because they're superior.

But really I did a double take when I first saw that poster. Was going to ask her in Romanian kindly "De ce pizda ma-tii ai pus ca esti fecioara cu luna in berbec? Te intreci cu gluma"

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scruffles vs scuffles @_@

Scruffles vs Scuffles vs Damnata

Virgo with an Aries moon too. Scufflenata @_@

if she is romanian you can give the 3 tenors a run for their money

If she's Romanian we will have to increase our booze intake to clear the mindfuck -_-

Scuffles will be our daughter. She has your name and your eyes and my placements because they're superior.

But really I did a double take when I first saw that poster. Was going to ask her in Romanian kindly "De ce pizda ma-tii ai pus ca esti fecioara cu luna in berbec? Te intreci cu gluma"

LMAOOOOO

I seriously thought she was me for a sec too. I was about to enroll in AA 😢

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AA is an awesome Ram man on these forums. Drops by from time to time. He's younger than you so you have that cougar status on lock. But by all means..enroll in him 😈 Aries Mars.

Posted by tiziani
Yep I am spending Christmas alone in an empty house, but I've done it before. And the cats are here.

You're never alone, when you have cats.... I just keep telling myself this ?

Posted by tiziani
Yep I am spending Christmas alone in an empty house, but I've done it before. And the cats are here.

Awww merry Christmas ✨its overrated

Posted by wagtail
Just thought I'd make a space for this.

I understand there are many different forms of Christmas,

both culturally, religiously, spiritually, secular or commercial etc

But there is no denying the impact the Holidays have on people from all walks of Life- whether it's seasonal affective disorder, coping with the "acting Festive" pressure, losing loved ones, or the many ups and downs the Year has thrown our way.

This thread is just here if anyone wants to reach out, break from isolation or chat through this time...

I may not be on here too often, but I trust my dear DeeExpuh friends to be kind and take care of anyone who enters

🙂

You are Adorbs ?

Posted by Scruffles
All by myself with my cat this Christmas too.

I'll take hugs now, please.

Stop you guys...

Hugs and merry Christmas ?

@wagtail you are going to win awards with this

Posted by Tirano24

Posted by wagtail
Just thought I'd make a space for this.

I understand there are many different forms of Christmas,

both culturally, religiously, spiritually, secular or commercial etc

But there is no denying the impact the Holidays have on people from all walks of Life- whether it's seasonal affective disorder, coping with the "acting Festive" pressure, losing loved ones, or the many ups and downs the Year has thrown our way.

This thread is just here if anyone wants to reach out, break from isolation or chat through this time...

I may not be on here too often, but I trust my dear DeeExpuh friends to be kind and take care of anyone who enters

🙂

This is what I cannot respect of religious people. I don't need you to feel sorry for me nor does any other atheist. Stop trying to make yourself feel good when it's not necessary.

There are people, like me, who are just fine during this time. Most of you Christians only want to exchange gifts and greed anyway. Me and my 1800 tequila take pity on you all for falling victim to capitalism's predation on these religious holidays you all celebrate. LOL. Save your pity, dear.

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I'm not Christian I'm an indigenous Australian

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Posted by wagtail
Just thought I'd make a space for this.

I understand there are many different forms of Christmas,

both culturally, religiously, spiritually, secular or commercial etc

But there is no denying the impact the Holidays have on people from all walks of Life- whether it's seasonal affective disorder, coping with the "acting Festive" pressure, losing loved ones, or the many ups and downs the Year has thrown our way.

This thread is just here if anyone wants to reach out, break from isolation or chat through this time...

I may not be on here too often, but I trust my dear DeeExpuh friends to be kind and take care of anyone who enters

🙂

This is what I cannot respect of religious people. I don't need you to feel sorry for me nor does any other atheist. Stop trying to make yourself feel good when it's not necessary.

There are people, like me, who are just fine during this time. Most of you Christians only want to exchange gifts and greed anyway. Me and my 1800 tequila take pity on you all for falling victim to capitalism's predation on these religious holidays you all celebrate. LOL. Save your pity, dear.

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So bottom line this wasn't addressed to you

__________

But something tells me you need the bigger hug

Lol

Bah hum bug

I'm alone now but needed it. I'm drained. So napping and laundry and stoner Friend's marathon. 😄 Going to sister's in a couple of hours then hitting a dive bar to meet friends for Nickmas.

I'll try to check in as much as I can. I hope everyone is ok.

Happy holidays, whatever you do or do not celebrate!

Watch out for the mistletoe, I hear it can be deadly 😉

I'm at my inlaws house, my parents are there as well, and today and prob tomorrow will be spent feeling underfoot as both my hub's mom and mine bicker over how to cook and prepare dishes. -_-

My dad and my SILs are on their phones, hubby's dad is passed out drunk already, & hub himself is in the kitchen trying to console his mother because mine made her cry... earlier I tried to tell my mother to be nicer, almost got whacked with a spatula lmao.

sooo....im just sitting in the living room. BORED.

If anyone's alone and wants some dxp-company, say heyy.

Posted by fugu2
I'm at my inlaws house, my parents are there as well, and today and prob tomorrow will be spent feeling underfoot as both my hub's mom and mine bicker over how to cook and prepare dishes. -_-

My dad and my SILs are on their phones, hubby's dad is passed out drunk already, & hub himself is in the kitchen trying to console his mother because mine made her cry... earlier I tried to tell my mother to be nicer, almost got whacked with a spatula lmao.

sooo....im just sitting in the living room. BORED.

If anyone's alone and wants some dxp-company, say heyy.

Well there's no judgement here 🤗

So, heyy 🙂

I just bought myself a lil PS4 X-mass present lol

Going to run to get it TODAY *shudder* at the store lololol at least its paid for and i just gotta go to the side counter to get it.



Meow!

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Posted by fugu2
I'm at my inlaws house, my parents are there as well, and today and prob tomorrow will be spent feeling underfoot as both my hub's mom and mine bicker over how to cook and prepare dishes. -_-

My dad and my SILs are on their phones, hubby's dad is passed out drunk already, & hub himself is in the kitchen trying to console his mother because mine made her cry... earlier I tried to tell my mother to be nicer, almost got whacked with a spatula lmao.

sooo....im just sitting in the living room. BORED.

If anyone's alone and wants some dxp-company, say heyy.

Well there's no judgement here 🤗

So, heyy 🙂

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🤗 aww thanks hun

Hope you're having a wonderfully splish-splashy summer weekend 😄