How do you express your love? And how deep can your love get?

How do you express love? As I was contemplating about myself I realized that started to dig deeper about how I express my feelings of love. I mean, I have libra venus. Some say that libras tend to get rather shallow in showing how much they care ab
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  • AneemA04
    female
    How do you express love?

    As I was contemplating about myself I realized that started to dig deeper about how I express my feelings of love.

    I mean, I have libra venus. Some say that libras tend to get rather shallow in showing how much they care about people (really, some astro articles say so) but I don't like it as I find myself tend to show my presence on daily basis as a way to express it. And I consider it anything but shallow. Because, how can one not show how much they care about the other person if he/she isn't present in his/her life?
    Dunno if this analogy relates to this, but would you watch tv series if you don't like it?

    Sure, by being present it can split into two category, right? Being fully present as in you focus to the person at the time or being there but all the while our mind or actions don't align with what the other person's needs. Now for the latter part, we can say yeah it's shallow. But if we truly is present with him/her, then there should be nothing mediocre about it.

    I think of this because recently my dream triggered this contemplation process. How I had been not really paying attention to what's exactly another person needs but instead providing what we think to be their needs.. Therefore it rests to another question, how much we know other person to show the best of love they need?

    Little cascading here but I hope this discussion can help acknowledge some part of myself better. I have 8th house moon so I need to make sure to check every nook and cranny about my own emotions (including love emotions) and gain full awareness of it.

    Hope you guys will contribute to this topic.

    Thanks
  • HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Finding what you have sometimes means finding it alone.
  • AneemA04
    female
    Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow


    Is that how you express your love?

    Yes i recall your stories sometime ago about how you love your leo bf (are you still together btw?)

    also, lol how you really capture my vibe on my post by picking that music clip. Perfect morning song indeed, it's morning too here. Haha
    If you were my bf, that would certainly make my day. Sweet!

    Ps: the lyrics and the ambiance of the clip don't really match, don't you think? Lol

  • AneemA04
    female
    Posted by Koniuchaa
    Hey lady!


    Hey Koni, I've finally recovered and show myself back here!

    how are your daughter, horses and yourself?
    Hope all is fine smile
  • AneemA04
    female
    Posted by LifeOnMars
    I don't


    Why? How??
  • tiziani
    Venusian Gigolo
    I told her my needs (there were three max), she accepted them and meets them.

    And vice versa.
  • I show it on ocassion when the moment and time is right. If there isn't an actual reason to show it I feel like it's just fake, which represents the integrity of the relationship. I do understand there are people who want to show love 99% of the time which is fine, but for me I will only show it when I truly feel it.
  • HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Finding what you have sometimes means finding it alone.
    Posted by AneemA04
    Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow


    Is that how you express your love?

    Yes i recall your stories sometime ago about how you love your leo bf (are you still together btw?)

    also, lol how you really capture my vibe on my post by picking that music clip. Perfect morning song indeed, it's morning too here. Haha
    If you were my bf, that would certainly make my day. Sweet!

    Ps: the lyrics and the ambiance of the clip don't really match, don't you think? Lol

    click to expand


    Uh.......I forget where we left off when you bolted. It was probably before his birthday, in which case:

    - he "came out" to his mother without warning
    - then on his birthday he introduced me to his entire family as "me belonging to him"
    - and last Friday he cut our nude cuddling short and came back a couple hours later with a packed truck full of his stuff.....moved in without warning.

    And this morning I made him climax by just eating his armpit after a stiff early workout. But you feel free to ask him all about it yourself lol @sendintheclowns

    How I express my love.......verbally and physically. I tell him I love him every day and he's lapping it up. And I show it anyway I can, and I don't sweat the small stuff. Last night me, him and his crazy Taurus cousin (the one who kept sending me nudes of himself) went out to dinner and we were gonna have breakfast together this morning. But his mom called him up bright & early and invited him to breakfast back at their home with the whole family. Just the family.

    There's no friction between me and any of his family members, but I can understand the occasional need for just the family to come together, blood relatives only. I sent my kisses to his mom through him. There will be other mornings, other breakfasts. I show him I love him by trusting him, and by understanding and giving him the different things he needs at different times. Because the day will always end with him in my arms. That's all I want, that's all it takes to make me happy these days.

    And I never understood the videoclip's setting either.
  • AneemA04
    female
    Posted by tiziani
    I told her my needs (there were three max), she accepted them and meets them.

    And vice versa.


    That's fair. It also indicate good and open communication between the two of you.

    And yeah I never really thought of expressing what I need and ask about theirs too before so your way inspires me to do the same in the future. Thanks!
  • AneemA04
    female
    Posted by Capmercury87
    I feel like touch and the frequency of our energy can speak mountains to the ones we love. (Cap venus)
    I've always been a touchy cuddly person. In all my kid days (5 years old+) photos I am holding someone, my sister, my niece. I'm just hugging and holding something or anything.
    Its not that I need to feel loved or desired its that I want the object of my love or attention to feel loved and desired because I feel loved and desired by myself and God and I have enough to share.
    It took alot of spiritual work on myself to get to the point where I opened up all of my heart and cleaned it out of bad energies that might possibly get shared that way the object of my affection doesn't feel it.
    I notice this effect on my bf when I come to see him he always has a deep in thought frequency where I can feel him overanalyzing everyone and everything, but in the morning after he has bathed in my touch and the energy I have passed onto him, his energy is relaxed, comforted, he often seems humble, very humble and hypnotized by a feeling of calm.
    He is an empath like me, I feel alot of people are empaths they just don't know it yet.
    Like my mister.
    I haven't brought it up yet because I know its not time to, but to be his energy filter, almost like a crystal that can filter out all of his negative, fast, over thinking thoughts is amazing.
    Other people are capable of this and I do believe this is how love works.


    Oh yes, nurturing through touch too. I am the same like you. Research says that kiss can do something good to our body chemistry so that proves it to be one of the best way. I love cuddling and hugs too so I can resonate with you on that part.

    I still need to work on my spiritual self, so I also take note on making residual energies from other people to not passing onto someone else, I tend to absorb other people's energies so spiritual cleansing is what I need to do as frequent as I can.

    Yeah, simply by hugging and cuddling with someone can really impact our comfort level. We can become calmer and safer that way.

    Thanks for your input.
  • AneemA04
    female
    Posted by Rindaroo
    I stay & work through the hard things. Let you in & see who I really am and trust that you’ll accept me as I am. I accept you as you are.

    I do things for you, anything that helps you. Support and understanding.



    Yes, that's what I mean by being present fully. But I guess it takes deeper bond to truly stay and care for other person for much more time. I need balance and once I feel the connection is too strong thus leaving me focusing way too much to the other person, that's when i start to error and do something bad like over analyzing everything and smothering, even becoming beligerent over jealousy which is way far from showing love. So I have to keep myself on the middle ground to really show love in a proper way. One thing about boundaries I still need to work on too.
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    I had to sort out what type of love I use to express my love it as well as to receive love so I could communicate that to a partner.

    5 love languages helped with sorting that out. Maybe someone has a link to that, I had a thread but meh too lazy to find it.


    For me, I find being there physically/emotionally/spiritually is the way I show my care and love to another. Which if the other person feels loved by words of endearment, that may cause tension as I suck at verbally expressing my emotions unless I truly love and TRUST the person, then it's not issue, but I would rather show you I care. Also spending quality time with my partner is a big one as well.

    It's on us to communicate to our partner what it is we need/want and vs versa, which goes back to even knowing to start.
  • AneemA04
    female
    Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
    Posted by AneemA04
    Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow


    Is that how you express your love?

    Yes i recall your stories sometime ago about how you love your leo bf (are you still together btw?)

    also, lol how you really capture my vibe on my post by picking that music clip. Perfect morning song indeed, it's morning too here. Haha
    If you were my bf, that would certainly make my day. Sweet!

    Ps: the lyrics and the ambiance of the clip don't really match, don't you think? Lol



    Uh.......I forget where we left off when you bolted. It was probably before his birthday, in which case:

    - he "came out" to his mother without warning
    - then on his birthday he introduced me to his entire family as "me belonging to him"
    - and last Friday he cut our nude cuddling short and came back a couple hours later with a packed truck full of his stuff.....moved in without warning.

    And this morning I made him climax by just eating his armpit after a stiff early workout. But you feel free to ask him all about it yourself lol @sendintheclowns

    How I express my love.......verbally and physically. I tell him I love him every day and he's lapping it up. And I show it anyway I can, and I don't sweat the small stuff. Last night me, him and his crazy Taurus cousin (the one who kept sending me nudes of himself) went out to dinner and we were gonna have breakfast together this morning. But his mom called him up bright & early and invited him to breakfast back at their home with the whole family. Just the family.

    There's no friction between me and any of his family members, but I can understand the occasional need for just the family to come together, blood relatives only. I sent my kisses to his mom through him. There will be other mornings, other breakfasts. I show him I love him by trusting him, and by understanding and giving him the different things he needs at different times. Because the day will always end with him in my arms. That's all I want, that's all it takes to make me happy these days.

    And I never understood the videoclip's setting either.
    click to expand


    Wow things have developed further and your bond is getting stronger with the leo. Glad to hear it!

    Woah i've never come close to even smell any armpits, sounds disgusting but I guess that's one of the way you show your comfort with him. But I just think it to be quite gross at the time being lol

    Good that he comes clean about his sexual preference and status with you though!
  • AneemA04
    female
    Posted by Soul
    I show it on ocassion when the moment and time is right. If there isn't an actual reason to show it I feel like it's just fake, which represents the integrity of the relationship. I do understand there are people who want to show love 99% of the time which is fine, but for me I will only show it when I truly feel it.


    Yeah it"s important to keep things real rather than just giving it for the sake of showing. You need to feel it while expressing it.
    Even though I tend to check up on someone I love very often as a way to express my love, when I don't feel it then I won't as well.
  • AneemA04
    female
    Posted by Sodapop
    I’m very expressive through words and touch I think, if you’re around I want to cuddle you and kiss you all over, I want to tell you how you make me feel, thank you for your support or the small things you do for me that you think will go unnoticed, and tell you I understand and forgive the little and the big things.

    I am so shy though, so I’d need to be so comfortable with you first. When my ex asked me to hold my hand for the first time I turned bright red and looked the other way and didn’t say a word for like 2 minutes. Then I gave him my hand.. (Scorpio Sun and Venus, Pisces Moon)




    I don't think many people blush by being asked to hold hands, so i imagine it's quite sweet and cute to witness for the other person. It must take a long time for you to open up yaa

    And yeah, cuddles, kisses and hugs are some of my way to express my love for them too.
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