How do you express your love? And how deep can your love get?

How do you express love? As I was contemplating about myself I realized that started to dig deeper about how I express my feelings of love. I mean, I have libra venus. Some say that libras tend to get rather shallow in showing how much they care ab

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Is that how you express your love?

Yes i recall your stories sometime ago about how you love your leo bf (are you still together btw?)

also, lol how you really capture my vibe on my post by picking that music clip. Perfect morning song indeed, it's morning too here. Haha
If you were my bf, that would certainly make my day. Sweet!

Ps: the lyrics and the ambiance of the clip don't really match, don't you think? Lol



Uh.......I forget where we left off when you bolted. It was probably before his birthday, in which case:

- he "came out" to his mother without warning
- then on his birthday he introduced me to his entire family as "me belonging to him"
- and last Friday he cut our nude cuddling short and came back a couple hours later with a packed truck full of his stuff.....moved in without warning.

And this morning I made him climax by just eating his armpit after a stiff early workout. But you feel free to ask him all about it yourself lol @sendintheclowns

How I express my love.......verbally and physically. I tell him I love him every day and he's lapping it up. And I show it anyway I can, and I don't sweat the small stuff. Last night me, him and his crazy Taurus cousin (the one who kept sending me nudes of himself) went out to dinner and we were gonna have breakfast together this morning. But his mom called him up bright & early and invited him to breakfast back at their home with the whole family. Just the family.

There's no friction between me and any of his family members, but I can understand the occasional need for just the family to come together, blood relatives only. I sent my kisses to his mom through him. There will be other mornings, other breakfasts. I show him I love him by trusting him, and by understanding and giving him the different things he needs at different times. Because the day will always end with him in my arms. That's all I want, that's all it takes to make me happy these days.

And I never understood the videoclip's setting either.


Wow things have developed further and your bond is getting stronger with the leo. Glad to hear it!

Woah i've never come close to even smell any armpits, sounds disgusting but I guess that's one of the way you show your comfort with him. But I just think it to be quite gross at the time being lol

Good that he comes clean about his sexual preference and status with you though!


Leo/Virgo cusp (August 23) which makes him a VIRGO! But he is Leo-dominant, what with that cusp and his Leo Mercury/Venus. And don't knock what you ain't tried, his armpit is sexy as treetrunk (I'll show you if you want). And I'm normally not into that. But when you have a demigod with a smooth bod that looks to be chiseled out of gold, you forget about which body parts you're not usually attracted to, and you let your tongue do the work.
His ass is the first and only ass I've ever eaten. I'd normally balk at doing that but when you see him stretched out against the shower wall, with water running down his beautiful back, and his magnificent ass primed & ready for the feast.....you forget you normally don't eat asses.



Now you, missy. You had quite the meltdown last we saw you. What triggered it? And what have you learned since we saw you last?


The way you describe him really intruigues me into checking him out. Like how sexy he is.

Yeah I was diagnosed with Schizophrenia as it turned out but I'm fully recovered now taking daily meds.

I learnt that I may have absorbed other people's residual energies all too often. Also perhaps deep disappointments may have been going under the subconscious that it just seeped out of me.. Dunno exactly why but what I do know is that it has been periodic (this is the 3rd time) for me to suffer the illness..
I believe it would be best for me to do mental cleansing often and be aware of what's working on the subconscious level.


I do have a couple pics already in my photos section, if you wanna see where my tongue has been LMAO!

Too many people view schizophrenia as a life-destroying affliction. Good you're not letting it get to you. You're in control of it, not the other way around. But is it safe being HERE with all the craziness?

As for the other bit, that's pretty much what happened to me too a few years ago. 2 decades of crap had snowballed and even my all-powerful Virgo moon couldn't save me from melting down. I was lucky though because it happened at a very crucial time in my life, because during my recovery it's when I realized I was in love again after many years. Jed's face was on my mind 24/7 and it's what kept me going, the desire to see him in the flesh again.

If it had happened before, I'd probably have felt like I couldn't be bothered going on anymore, and I'd have ended myself.

So you need to find something positive to hold onto, and keep it in your mind all the time.


Where the pics, gimme the link.

it's kay I think as the periods get more familiar, I can see the patterns and therefore the effects get less severe each time.
Yes, during the 1st phase i did think of suicide, almost did it. So yeah, we really have to acknowledge our underlying patterns before it's too late.
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In terms of suicide, I'd suggest not to bother with the lame platitudes of "think of the effect it would have on your family". For starters it's bullbutter because you're the one suffering, not them.

Instead, focus on the person you love the most and imagine what his/her life would be like if you weren't there anymore. That's what worked for me.

Last year on Jed's birthday I was ready to bash my head against the wall. I couldn't handle anymore not telling him how much I love him, and it was driving me literally insane. On his actual birthday I couldn't even bring myself to even text him "happy birthday" because I couldn't trust myself to keep my mouth shut. And I was terrified that if I spilled my heart out I would lose him forever because I believed he would not be able to deal with my feelings. It's virtually impossible to carry on a friendship when one of the two has non-platonic feelings for the other.

Hours later I texted one of his siblings and said "send my apologies, I'm not well at all". But I never expected him to step out of his own birthday party to call me and stay on the phone with me for over 10 minutes to make sure I was ok. I was silently crying like a girl while on the phone with him. A month later I still had suicidal tendencies and I still couldn't face him personally, but then I found out about his personal crisis and all that negative crap went away like a switch was flipped, and all I wanted to do was be there for him and comfort him.

And now:



this song breaks my heart every time I listen to it. It's the singer's interpretation of a letter that a friend of his would've written her fiance from beyond the grave, after she commited suicide. So whenever I listen to those lyrics, I can't help but imagine how much worse off Jed would've been if I had indeed killed myself, because I wouldn't be there to comfort him anymore, the way only I always could.

And I would've missed out on my wildest dream becoming reality.
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How deep does it get?

I get embarrasingly obsessive,

I remember his scent, the way he talks, cute quirks, facial expressions, his likes/dislikes, what makes him tick, how he likes being kissed, treetrunked, touched, his fav food/items, his life style , his whole being..
I'm affectionate and loving, I just want him near me. Pouring gifts to express my love, doing little things to make him smile or make his day because seeing him happy brings joy to my heart. I hold his value close to my heart and I lose myself in all that he is.

Being in love is like getting high for me. Constantly lost in my dreams thinking about him.
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Is that how you express your love?

Yes i recall your stories sometime ago about how you love your leo bf (are you still together btw?)

also, lol how you really capture my vibe on my post by picking that music clip. Perfect morning song indeed, it's morning too here. Haha
If you were my bf, that would certainly make my day. Sweet!

Ps: the lyrics and the ambiance of the clip don't really match, don't you think? Lol



Uh.......I forget where we left off when you bolted. It was probably before his birthday, in which case:

- he "came out" to his mother without warning
- then on his birthday he introduced me to his entire family as "me belonging to him"
- and last Friday he cut our nude cuddling short and came back a couple hours later with a packed truck full of his stuff.....moved in without warning.

And this morning I made him climax by just eating his armpit after a stiff early workout. But you feel free to ask him all about it yourself lol @sendintheclowns

How I express my love.......verbally and physically. I tell him I love him every day and he's lapping it up. And I show it anyway I can, and I don't sweat the small stuff. Last night me, him and his crazy Taurus cousin (the one who kept sending me nudes of himself) went out to dinner and we were gonna have breakfast together this morning. But his mom called him up bright & early and invited him to breakfast back at their home with the whole family. Just the family.

There's no friction between me and any of his family members, but I can understand the occasional need for just the family to come together, blood relatives only. I sent my kisses to his mom through him. There will be other mornings, other breakfasts. I show him I love him by trusting him, and by understanding and giving him the different things he needs at different times. Because the day will always end with him in my arms. That's all I want, that's all it takes to make me happy these days.

And I never understood the videoclip's setting either.


Wow things have developed further and your bond is getting stronger with the leo. Glad to hear it!

Woah i've never come close to even smell any armpits, sounds disgusting but I guess that's one of the way you show your comfort with him. But I just think it to be quite gross at the time being lol

Good that he comes clean about his sexual preference and status with you though!


Leo/Virgo cusp (August 23) which makes him a VIRGO! But he is Leo-dominant, what with that cusp and his Leo Mercury/Venus. And don't knock what you ain't tried, his armpit is sexy as treetrunk (I'll show you if you want). And I'm normally not into that. But when you have a demigod with a smooth bod that looks to be chiseled out of gold, you forget about which body parts you're not usually attracted to, and you let your tongue do the work.
His ass is the first and only ass I've ever eaten. I'd normally balk at doing that but when you see him stretched out against the shower wall, with water running down his beautiful back, and his magnificent ass primed & ready for the feast.....you forget you normally don't eat asses.



Now you, missy. You had quite the meltdown last we saw you. What triggered it? And what have you learned since we saw you last?


The way you describe him really intruigues me into checking him out. Like how sexy he is.

Yeah I was diagnosed with Schizophrenia as it turned out but I'm fully recovered now taking daily meds.

I learnt that I may have absorbed other people's residual energies all too often. Also perhaps deep disappointments may have been going under the subconscious that it just seeped out of me.. Dunno exactly why but what I do know is that it has been periodic (this is the 3rd time) for me to suffer the illness..
I believe it would be best for me to do mental cleansing often and be aware of what's working on the subconscious level.


I do have a couple pics already in my photos section, if you wanna see where my tongue has been LMAO!

Too many people view schizophrenia as a life-destroying affliction. Good you're not letting it get to you. You're in control of it, not the other way around. But is it safe being HERE with all the craziness?

As for the other bit, that's pretty much what happened to me too a few years ago. 2 decades of crap had snowballed and even my all-powerful Virgo moon couldn't save me from melting down. I was lucky though because it happened at a very crucial time in my life, because during my recovery it's when I realized I was in love again after many years. Jed's face was on my mind 24/7 and it's what kept me going, the desire to see him in the flesh again.

If it had happened before, I'd probably have felt like I couldn't be bothered going on anymore, and I'd have ended myself.

So you need to find something positive to hold onto, and keep it in your mind all the time.
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Where the pics, gimme the link.

it's kay I think as the periods get more familiar, I can see the patterns and therefore the effects get less severe each time.
Yes, during the 1st phase i did think of suicide, almost did it. So yeah, we really have to acknowledge our underlying patterns before it's too late.
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I feel like touch and the frequency of our energy can speak mountains to the ones we love. (Cap venus)
I've always been a touchy cuddly person. In all my kid days (5 years old+) photos I am holding someone, my sister, my niece. I'm just hugging and holding something or anything.
Its not that I need to feel loved or desired its that I want the object of my love or attention to feel loved and desired because I feel loved and desired by myself and God and I have enough to share.
It took alot of spiritual work on myself to get to the point where I opened up all of my heart and cleaned it out of bad energies that might possibly get shared that way the object of my affection doesn't feel it.
I notice this effect on my bf when I come to see him he always has a deep in thought frequency where I can feel him overanalyzing everyone and everything, but in the morning after he has bathed in my touch and the energy I have passed onto him, his energy is relaxed, comforted, he often seems humble, very humble and hypnotized by a feeling of calm.
He is an empath like me, I feel alot of people are empaths they just don't know it yet.
Like my mister.
I haven't brought it up yet because I know its not time to, but to be his energy filter, almost like a crystal that can filter out all of his negative, fast, over thinking thoughts is amazing.
Other people are capable of this and I do believe this is how love works.


Why weren't you empathetic to that chick that got raped? Just because you didn't like her?

You're a butter empath.



i didnt see the topic/thread about her not being kind to the woman who was abused/raped, but her hate seems deeper than her kindness/empathy/ability to be in someone's shoes.



It was ages ago. She deleted and came back.



And you keep grudges for ages...
What a wonderful gal!
Good you are so passionate about life!
What meds are you on?


Such a projection.

Why do you keep following me around, grandma?

treetrunk off geriatric.

You're too predictable.


And you repetitious because you don't have enough brains to come up with new insult even! Bwhahahaha!


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See? You ARE dumb!


Cool, I'm at the beach. Happy trolling
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Dumb people go to the beach as you see now. Or you wanted to say you aren't dumb because you are at the beach?
Lol
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I feel like touch and the frequency of our energy can speak mountains to the ones we love. (Cap venus)
I've always been a touchy cuddly person. In all my kid days (5 years old+) photos I am holding someone, my sister, my niece. I'm just hugging and holding something or anything.
Its not that I need to feel loved or desired its that I want the object of my love or attention to feel loved and desired because I feel loved and desired by myself and God and I have enough to share.
It took alot of spiritual work on myself to get to the point where I opened up all of my heart and cleaned it out of bad energies that might possibly get shared that way the object of my affection doesn't feel it.
I notice this effect on my bf when I come to see him he always has a deep in thought frequency where I can feel him overanalyzing everyone and everything, but in the morning after he has bathed in my touch and the energy I have passed onto him, his energy is relaxed, comforted, he often seems humble, very humble and hypnotized by a feeling of calm.
He is an empath like me, I feel alot of people are empaths they just don't know it yet.
Like my mister.
I haven't brought it up yet because I know its not time to, but to be his energy filter, almost like a crystal that can filter out all of his negative, fast, over thinking thoughts is amazing.
Other people are capable of this and I do believe this is how love works.


Why weren't you empathetic to that chick that got raped? Just because you didn't like her?

You're a butter empath.



i didnt see the topic/thread about her not being kind to the woman who was abused/raped, but her hate seems deeper than her kindness/empathy/ability to be in someone's shoes.



It was ages ago. She deleted and came back.



And you keep grudges for ages...
What a wonderful gal!
Good you are so passionate about life!
What meds are you on?


Such a projection.

Why do you keep following me around, grandma?

treetrunk off geriatric.

You're too predictable.


And you repetitious because you don't have enough brains to come up with new insult even! Bwhahahaha!


DITTO


See? You ARE dumb!
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Cool, I'm at the beach. Happy trolling
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I feel like touch and the frequency of our energy can speak mountains to the ones we love. (Cap venus)
I've always been a touchy cuddly person. In all my kid days (5 years old+) photos I am holding someone, my sister, my niece. I'm just hugging and holding something or anything.
Its not that I need to feel loved or desired its that I want the object of my love or attention to feel loved and desired because I feel loved and desired by myself and God and I have enough to share.
It took alot of spiritual work on myself to get to the point where I opened up all of my heart and cleaned it out of bad energies that might possibly get shared that way the object of my affection doesn't feel it.
I notice this effect on my bf when I come to see him he always has a deep in thought frequency where I can feel him overanalyzing everyone and everything, but in the morning after he has bathed in my touch and the energy I have passed onto him, his energy is relaxed, comforted, he often seems humble, very humble and hypnotized by a feeling of calm.
He is an empath like me, I feel alot of people are empaths they just don't know it yet.
Like my mister.
I haven't brought it up yet because I know its not time to, but to be his energy filter, almost like a crystal that can filter out all of his negative, fast, over thinking thoughts is amazing.
Other people are capable of this and I do believe this is how love works.


Why weren't you empathetic to that chick that got raped? Just because you didn't like her?

You're a butter empath.



i didnt see the topic/thread about her not being kind to the woman who was abused/raped, but her hate seems deeper than her kindness/empathy/ability to be in someone's shoes.



It was ages ago. She deleted and came back.



And you keep grudges for ages...
What a wonderful gal!
Good you are so passionate about life!
What meds are you on?


Such a projection.

Why do you keep following me around, grandma?

treetrunk off geriatric.

You're too predictable.


And you repetitious because you don't have enough brains to come up with new insult even! Bwhahahaha!


DITTO
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See? You ARE dumb!
23 years old female
How do I express my love? Hmmmm(;
-Cooking
-Screwing his brains out
-Try not to get mad when he leaves lumped up wet towels in the restroom

Yah know?

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Posted by Capmercury87
I feel like touch and the frequency of our energy can speak mountains to the ones we love. (Cap venus)
I've always been a touchy cuddly person. In all my kid days (5 years old+) photos I am holding someone, my sister, my niece. I'm just hugging and holding something or anything.
Its not that I need to feel loved or desired its that I want the object of my love or attention to feel loved and desired because I feel loved and desired by myself and God and I have enough to share.
It took alot of spiritual work on myself to get to the point where I opened up all of my heart and cleaned it out of bad energies that might possibly get shared that way the object of my affection doesn't feel it.
I notice this effect on my bf when I come to see him he always has a deep in thought frequency where I can feel him overanalyzing everyone and everything, but in the morning after he has bathed in my touch and the energy I have passed onto him, his energy is relaxed, comforted, he often seems humble, very humble and hypnotized by a feeling of calm.
He is an empath like me, I feel alot of people are empaths they just don't know it yet.
Like my mister.
I haven't brought it up yet because I know its not time to, but to be his energy filter, almost like a crystal that can filter out all of his negative, fast, over thinking thoughts is amazing.
Other people are capable of this and I do believe this is how love works.


Why weren't you empathetic to that chick that got raped? Just because you didn't like her?

You're a butter empath.



i didnt see the topic/thread about her not being kind to the woman who was abused/raped, but her hate seems deeper than her kindness/empathy/ability to be in someone's shoes.



It was ages ago. She deleted and came back.



And you keep grudges for ages...
What a wonderful gal!
Good you are so passionate about life!
What meds are you on?


Such a projection.

Why do you keep following me around, grandma?

treetrunk off geriatric.

You're too predictable.


And you repetitious because you don't have enough brains to come up with new insult even! Bwhahahaha!
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DITTO
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Capmercury87
I feel like touch and the frequency of our energy can speak mountains to the ones we love. (Cap venus)
I've always been a touchy cuddly person. In all my kid days (5 years old+) photos I am holding someone, my sister, my niece. I'm just hugging and holding something or anything.
Its not that I need to feel loved or desired its that I want the object of my love or attention to feel loved and desired because I feel loved and desired by myself and God and I have enough to share.
It took alot of spiritual work on myself to get to the point where I opened up all of my heart and cleaned it out of bad energies that might possibly get shared that way the object of my affection doesn't feel it.
I notice this effect on my bf when I come to see him he always has a deep in thought frequency where I can feel him overanalyzing everyone and everything, but in the morning after he has bathed in my touch and the energy I have passed onto him, his energy is relaxed, comforted, he often seems humble, very humble and hypnotized by a feeling of calm.
He is an empath like me, I feel alot of people are empaths they just don't know it yet.
Like my mister.
I haven't brought it up yet because I know its not time to, but to be his energy filter, almost like a crystal that can filter out all of his negative, fast, over thinking thoughts is amazing.
Other people are capable of this and I do believe this is how love works.


Why weren't you empathetic to that chick that got raped? Just because you didn't like her?

You're a butter empath.



i didnt see the topic/thread about her not being kind to the woman who was abused/raped, but her hate seems deeper than her kindness/empathy/ability to be in someone's shoes.



It was ages ago. She deleted and came back.



And you keep grudges for ages...
What a wonderful gal!
Good you are so passionate about life!
What meds are you on?


Such a projection.

Why do you keep following me around, grandma?

treetrunk off geriatric.

You're too predictable.
click to expand


And you repetitious because you don't have enough brains to come up with new insult even! Bwhahahaha!
female
bukowski is right
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Capmercury87
I feel like touch and the frequency of our energy can speak mountains to the ones we love. (Cap venus)
I've always been a touchy cuddly person. In all my kid days (5 years old+) photos I am holding someone, my sister, my niece. I'm just hugging and holding something or anything.
Its not that I need to feel loved or desired its that I want the object of my love or attention to feel loved and desired because I feel loved and desired by myself and God and I have enough to share.
It took alot of spiritual work on myself to get to the point where I opened up all of my heart and cleaned it out of bad energies that might possibly get shared that way the object of my affection doesn't feel it.
I notice this effect on my bf when I come to see him he always has a deep in thought frequency where I can feel him overanalyzing everyone and everything, but in the morning after he has bathed in my touch and the energy I have passed onto him, his energy is relaxed, comforted, he often seems humble, very humble and hypnotized by a feeling of calm.
He is an empath like me, I feel alot of people are empaths they just don't know it yet.
Like my mister.
I haven't brought it up yet because I know its not time to, but to be his energy filter, almost like a crystal that can filter out all of his negative, fast, over thinking thoughts is amazing.
Other people are capable of this and I do believe this is how love works.


Why weren't you empathetic to that chick that got raped? Just because you didn't like her?

You're a butter empath.



i didnt see the topic/thread about her not being kind to the woman who was abused/raped, but her hate seems deeper than her kindness/empathy/ability to be in someone's shoes.



It was ages ago. She deleted and came back.



And you keep grudges for ages...
What a wonderful gal!
Good you are so passionate about life!
What meds are you on?
click to expand


Such a projection.

Why do you keep following me around, grandma?

treetrunk off geriatric.

You're too predictable.
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Capmercury87
I feel like touch and the frequency of our energy can speak mountains to the ones we love. (Cap venus)
I've always been a touchy cuddly person. In all my kid days (5 years old+) photos I am holding someone, my sister, my niece. I'm just hugging and holding something or anything.
Its not that I need to feel loved or desired its that I want the object of my love or attention to feel loved and desired because I feel loved and desired by myself and God and I have enough to share.
It took alot of spiritual work on myself to get to the point where I opened up all of my heart and cleaned it out of bad energies that might possibly get shared that way the object of my affection doesn't feel it.
I notice this effect on my bf when I come to see him he always has a deep in thought frequency where I can feel him overanalyzing everyone and everything, but in the morning after he has bathed in my touch and the energy I have passed onto him, his energy is relaxed, comforted, he often seems humble, very humble and hypnotized by a feeling of calm.
He is an empath like me, I feel alot of people are empaths they just don't know it yet.
Like my mister.
I haven't brought it up yet because I know its not time to, but to be his energy filter, almost like a crystal that can filter out all of his negative, fast, over thinking thoughts is amazing.
Other people are capable of this and I do believe this is how love works.


Why weren't you empathetic to that chick that got raped? Just because you didn't like her?

You're a butter empath.



i didnt see the topic/thread about her not being kind to the woman who was abused/raped, but her hate seems deeper than her kindness/empathy/ability to be in someone's shoes.



It was ages ago. She deleted and came back.

click to expand


And you keep grudges for ages...
What a wonderful gal!
Good you are so passionate about life!
What meds are you on?
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How do you express love?

As I was contemplating about myself I realized that started to dig deeper about how I express my feelings of love.

I mean, I have libra venus. Some say that libras tend to get rather shallow in showing how much they care about people (really, some astro articles say so) but I don't like it as I find myself tend to show my presence on daily basis as a way to express it. And I consider it anything but shallow. Because, how can one not show how much they care about the other person if he/she isn't present in his/her life?
Dunno if this analogy relates to this, but would you watch tv series if you don't like it?

Sure, by being present it can split into two category, right? Being fully present as in you focus to the person at the time or being there but all the while our mind or actions don't align with what the other person's needs. Now for the latter part, we can say yeah it's shallow. But if we truly is present with him/her, then there should be nothing mediocre about it.

I think of this because recently my dream triggered this contemplation process. How I had been not really paying attention to what's exactly another person needs but instead providing what we think to be their needs.. Therefore it rests to another question, how much we know other person to show the best of love they need?

Little cascading here but I hope this discussion can help acknowledge some part of myself better. I have 8th house moon so I need to make sure to check every nook and cranny about my own emotions (including love emotions) and gain full awareness of it.

Hope you guys will contribute to this topic.

Thanks


have you read too of lindaland's forum on libra venus? they usually talk about the men with this venus,though.
i have no idea about myself, after years, it's my own husband who tells me. what have your ex's have told you about yourself?
i read that libra venus is dignified and likes everyone to get along. i think that's a good trait. they are very fair. and also thinks about the other. It's not as desired in astrology forums though i dont know why. or maybe cause i dont see many posts on it or people asking about libra venus dudes or chicks.


Oh I see, okay so how does your husband express his love for you?
Well my exs.. Hm the last one thanked me for making him happy.. And he gave me gifts, kept his promises and helped me sort things out, adviced me strongly (even though it would risk him got into arguments)

yes, libra venus typically dislike arguments and yes I consider myself to be fair. I would try to understand reasons other people do stuff and weigh in giving treatments that's fair for them under the circumstances.

i guess sacrifice would be my theme, overall. that's what he mentioned.lol i'm earth dominant though, with cap and taurus in the running, so unlike typical capricorn energies, i dont ask for their career or what they make, i didnt do that with my man or my ex's. they were POOR, also my earth energies attract wealthy men in the past. i think it's the earth? it's not important to me, but i thrive with a strable,very committed man. and i enjoy to be pampered and loved and i also enjoy pampering my man.

that sounds really nice about your ex. you had a good ex's it sounds. you were very lucky. (i wasn't so lucky. i got a couple of abusive ex's)

edit - the reason i say that about earth energies is because i've observed and seen my mother and grandmother and even my mother in law...they are impressed with men who have strong career, and wealth and power. and they were/are always asking about the man's credentials.


I read from a relationship articles that healthy love should not require any sacrifices. I perceive it more to be it won't be a sacrifice if we love giving our love or doing things for the other person's happiness, right?

I like earth vibes because they can ground me. I guess since I lack earth element in my chart that's why I'm attracted to them. I kind of need earth vibe for their durability and stability.
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ehhhh every relationship article is different cause people of those articles have their own love style , what' love style fits for you isn't right for others you see?


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