Lurking. Judging. Gimme that Wendy Williams-grade trash drama
26 years old male from Big City
I'm trying to figure out if this Gemini is interested in me. I've had many Gemini I believed interested in me, until I found out that they're just curious about me. Would rather not waste my time on the date I set up with her, if it's just her being curious.
She's Scorpio Ascendant, Gemini Sun and Virgo Moon.
She works at the restaurant connected to my hotel. I've noticed that she's constantly sharing at me. It was confirmed by other colleagues. She'll never stare at me when I'm looking at her, but one of my valets (without knowing the situation) noticed her staring at me when i turmed my back to her when we were at our annual summer chickentail. His exact words were "Dude, she's devouring you with her eyes rn". My close friend and colleague (a beautiful Taurus woman) from HSK, noticed her staring at me from inside the restaurant when we went out for a smoke. When the Taurus and I were talking at the chickentail, the Gemini kept finding ways to sidle in and make convo. It got to the point that the Taurus made up convo to repeat to the Gem 3x that she was married and we were friends.
I called the Gem out about the staring in our convo over Facebook and she claimed it was just curiosity and that sometimes she's barely even thinking about anything when she's staring. She then informed me about how she thought I was really nice and comfortable to be around.
Apart from the Taurus, she won't talk to me much in front of others by will then message me on fb. Best example was when I invited her out to drinks with colleagues one night. I bought a round of shots for everyone. She left before the shots came and said bye to everyone except me. Then She promptly messaged me saying we need to catch up and explaining she had to leave to catch her last train to her area.
Typing this, it seems stupid to ask as it seems pretty obvious, but I've often experienced Gems seeming interested and then not being into me at all.
i am dying at you confronting her about what your friend said about the staring
i feel like you unintentionally put her on the spot and i imagine her to be embarrassed and that makes me giggle lolz but it's definitely not how you should have asked if she was interested! most people would definitely be like 'umgs, no, i was just staring into space' or make up some random excuse to get out of the #cringe of it all tbqh
just try talking to her and feel her out, i can't read her body language because obvs i don't know her but from what i've read here she does sound interested you just lowkey embarrassed her lmfao x