Sick of my brother belittering me and telling me I’m going no be a nobody

So I have made a post of this before. The post was about a really bad arugement i had with my brother. In my post I made a rant how my brother told me I’m a nobody and how my family doesn’t even care about me. He told me I’m lazy, yet I go to school full
queenaries_
female
ESTJ
So I have made a post of this before. The post was about a really bad arugement i had with my brother. In my post I made a rant how my brother told me I’m a nobody and how my family doesn’t even care about me. He told me I’m lazy, yet I go to school full time and work 15-30 hours a week (would work more but can’t with school schedule)Anyways my brother and I have not been fighting, but he has been throwing a lot of shades or petty comments. Whenever I’m not at school or work, I’m at home just relaxing and watching tv. He will make comments about it. He tells me I’m going to stay on that couch forever, how he’s going to make an empire and I’m going to be a nobody. How I’m never going to make it in life. Etc all this butter. He says it like he’s joking, but he’s not. I don’t even react angrily. I just literally laugh in his face. He always talks down on me when I tell him that I want to move to Florida. How I’m never going to do it and how I’m basically a loser. I don’t understand how watching tv (when someone has free time) can make someone a loser. The thing that bugs me is my whole family is kind of like. They are ALOT more passive though. They pretend to be nice, but they are not. The saddest thing is that non family never talks to me like my family does. My co workers, professors and friends motivate me.
Little does my family know is that I have been offered jobs (if I’m at work or doing an event for school)
Of course I won’t tell them this because if I do tell them anything good they’re not happy. They’re happy with good news from other family members though.
I’m holding on strong and I feel like I react good for the most part with my family. Sometimes I just avoid them at all costs.
The thing that makes me so angry is how much I changed my life for the better. How much I have calmed down and became less reckless. It has taken years to do that. I was very reckless in high school. I didn’t care about school, drank all the time and did whatever I wanted when I wanted with who I wanted. Why? Because ever since I was little i always felt hated by my family. Like the odd one out. Never did I fit in. My biggest mistake was letting that get to me and almost ruining my life. I have changed though and I’m still always criticized about everything. Looked down upon like some fuc**ing peasant. It’s like they want me to feel the way they do. They don’t want me doing well. They don’t even ask me about how am doing, but they will for everyone else
Sorry to rant, but it’s one of those days. Just can’t wait to move away. (About a six months to a year away)
The only person who isn’t negative with me is my cousin. He tells me all the time to move away and follow my dreams.
queenaries_
female
ESTJ
Posted by Ikyfl
How old are you


25
EtherealTraveler
male
If light cannot escape me, what hope have you?
Lul Aries ego getting butthurt
xyinsaturn
Saturn's daughter
Have they kicked you out

Told you to move out
Andalusia
Phat Lisa Loeb
How does he know how much you're on the couch? Unless... he's there as well.
Cancan26
female
in the name of the moon cookiemonster this is a stick up...
So first off sorry about everything your going thru families can be weird and dysfunctional

I think the real problem is your family is still seeing you as that reckless teenager and not the mature adult women you are ...sometimes it doesn't hurt to do a run down of your credentials when you are being criticized ...

Next time someone criticizes you unfairly ...hit with the facts
I work....
I go to school
Ive accomplished this or that ...

I bet your brother and family loves you but he just sees you as the little reckless sister...

Anywho I hope things get better for you
Don’t let anyone get in ur head Aries

Family has a way of really making us feel like butter. Because we love them and we want/expect/need them to love/support us.

Don’t let their seemingly disappointment get to you. Just love them and set your sights on your goals. Then when u achieve those goals u can love them from a distance.
queenaries_
female
ESTJ
Posted by Harrison_Ford
Is he a Gemini?


Nope aqua with Aries Moon (I thought he was pisces moon at first)
queenaries_
female
ESTJ
Posted by Andalusia
How does he know how much you're on the couch? Unless... he's there as well.


Maybe he has cameras on me
tiziani
We #DXPIL Responsibly
Family was a tough gig for me. Parents will believe it when they see it. Your brother sounds like he's dick measuring while turning up to the wrong contest.
queenaries_
female
ESTJ
Posted by Harrison_Ford
Posted by queenaries_
Posted by Harrison_Ford
Is he a Gemini?


Nope aqua with Aries Moon (I thought he was pisces moon at first)


The reason I asked if he was Gem is because I had Gem friend who used to give his little sister the worst time. Maybe it's an air sign thing. Maybe Aries moon.
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He’s my younger brother
So idk why he talks so much butter
queenaries_
female
ESTJ
Posted by Ikyfl
By the way, you’re my exact opposite. I’m an infp. I would imagine an estj is rare online


Really? How so...
Didn’t read much about it
Posted by queenaries_
Posted by Harrison_Ford
Is he a Gemini?


Nope aqua with Aries Moon (I thought he was pisces moon at first)
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Sounds like mine (Aqua/Leo) and he became the nobody of nobodies. Condescending pos that he is.

The sooner you leave the better. I sense the hourglass is almost empty.

Andalusia
Phat Lisa Loeb
Posted by queenaries_
Posted by Andalusia
How does he know how much you're on the couch? Unless... he's there as well.


Maybe he has cameras on me
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Or maybe he's the lazy one.
queenaries_
female
ESTJ
Posted by Harrison_Ford
Posted by queenaries_
Posted by Harrison_Ford
Posted by queenaries_
Posted by Harrison_Ford
Is he a Gemini?


Nope aqua with Aries Moon (I thought he was pisces moon at first)


The reason I asked if he was Gem is because I had Gem friend who used to give his little sister the worst time. Maybe it's an air sign thing. Maybe Aries moon.


He’s my younger brother
So idk why he talks so much butter


Oh ok. Just smack him around at bit. lol

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No I just laugh out loud to him
He then stops talking
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