Would you be pissed?
Doing personal training classes with a female I trained with back in 2010.
Started up sessions. First sesh I was struggling with sit ups, she ‘playfully’ slaps my leg and says ‘my God blah blah, when was the last time you did sit ups blah blah’.
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By Coochiecoochiecoo — January 10, 2019 8:34pm — 106 replies
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Doing personal training classes with a female I trained with back in 2010.
Started up sessions. First sesh I was struggling with sit ups, she ‘playfully’ slaps my leg and says ‘my God blah blah, when was the last time you did sit ups blah blah’.
Verdict on this playful slapping and butter? When you barely know the person. Violation of your personal space?
It's called MOTIVATION! Later on she will see (and you) the results and you WON'T look back!
DUH NO PAIN NO GAIN! (or constructive criticism; same diff)
cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
No the constructive criticism isn’t a problem.
It is the slapping my leg in jest. The physical act.click to expand
He/she is a TRAINER
(nagging DXP Member: I went to a cooking class and the chef came by and tasted my soup!)...I treetrunkING GIVE UP cyber hugs!
Love,
EvaPosted by EvatheDiva52
Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo
Doing personal training classes with a female I trained with back in 2010.
Started up sessions. First sesh I was struggling with sit ups, she ‘playfully’ slaps my leg and says ‘my God blah blah, when was the last time you did sit ups blah blah’.
Verdict on this playful slapping and butter? When you barely know the person. Violation of your personal space?
It's called MOTIVATION! Later on she will see (and you) the results and you WON'T look back!
DUH NO PAIN NO GAIN! (or constructive criticism; same diff) cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
No the constructive criticism isn’t a problem.
It is the slapping my leg in jest. The physical act.Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo
Doing personal training classes with a female I trained with back in 2010.
Started up sessions. First sesh I was struggling with sit ups, she ‘playfully’ slaps my leg and says ‘my God blah blah, when was the last time you did sit ups blah blah’.
Verdict on this playful slapping and butter? When you barely know the person. Violation of your personal space?
It's called MOTIVATION! Later on she will see (and you) the results and you WON'T look back!
DUH NO PAIN NO GAIN! (or constructive criticism; same diff) cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva- I think you are overreacting. I don’t like being touched by people I’m not close too, but this situation is understandable
Say something if it bothers you that much, but it might make the situation awkward going forward - Hmm?
Honestly, personal trainers are meant to piss you off. Posted by tiziani
Everyone has different boundaries, but it's physical training and I'd expect physical contact.
I would like to clarify this for the millionth time to everyone. I do NOT mind being touched. Having my leg moved or arm moved. Having them help me stretch. That sort of physical contact is absolutely fine.
I don’t like being slapped on the leg though as it felt as though they were trying to be too familiar and crossing the bounds of professionalism.Posted by MademoiselleFisk
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Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo
Doing personal training classes with a female I trained with back in 2010.
Started up sessions. First sesh I was struggling with sit ups, she ‘playfully’ slaps my leg and says ‘my God blah blah, when was the last time you did sit ups blah blah’.
Verdict on this playful slapping and butter? When you barely know the person. Violation of your personal space?
How will a female spot you?
Females is it possible to spot a male? Say he lifts 200 squats 400
lmao. OP is a dude? I didn't know...click to expand
My lack of phallus would beg to differ.- doubt i would, that's the usual - physical touch is kinda normalized, but if you have issues be free to tell her. not everyone is comfortable with it and that's ok. i worked with men, and they didn't slap me lol, but if i did something wrong they would grab my leg, back or whatever and put me in a right position, it's easier than explaining it. but if i recall good, first they would ask me if that's ok.
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Plus would it be awkward if a female injected turinabol in your ass in the locker room?
Not if she does it in a playful way.- PTs are touching people every day so they're less prudish towards others as its normalised.
Is it the playful slap or is it because your legs are a little jiggly? Just curious.
When I had a bit of a belly I'd get annoyed when PTs would slap it. - Well I don’t want her to become too familiar. I want her to stay with in her boundaries and stay professional with me.
Also to reiterate to you all it wasn’t a tap, it was a slap on the leg. Not a touch but with a little force behind it. - next time, bring a rape whistle and maybe a tazer.
Don't tazer your ass while squatting, although it could have good effects for the training - Wouldn't bother me. Just need to understand people have different personalities and humour. Can't be so sensitive to things from people before you get to know them well enough to understand them. If you pick away at every tiny thing someone does that you don't like, you'll end up very lonely with no friends. We all have flaws and quirks. No one is perfect or behaves exactly the way you want. Think of it this way, if it's not intentional hurt because the person is malicious or spiteful, then you gotta let it go and be more tolerant or you'll miss out on getting to know what could be really awesome people.
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I'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
I’m tasting a metallic taste of sarcasm in my mouth at the moment.
Tell the truth of your feelings.
Tie me to a chairclick to expand
Kinky.
