Gemini Moon cheating reputation?

I kept reading that apparently people with a Gemini Moon are more than likely to cheat? What do you guys think?
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Virgogent and that Tiz guy strike me as very mature guys who are able to talk about their emotions. Aren't they both Gem moons? Of course, maybe it's an illusion!


Nah if I talk about how I feel, no one in my life listens. They just react by arguing, or asking me to justify and explain why I feel the way I do. So i find it is simpler not to talk. People I care about just use it as an opportunity to talk about themselves either way. You may as well stay quiet and let them have their attention with less aggravation.


Actually, that's learned helplessness right? My bad.


I think that I can understand why you wouldn't want to share that if that's the response you get. What do you think would work best for you -- what kind of response would make you feel like your feelings are okay to share? For example, I've noticed that some people just want to be heard and respected for their feelings, without much comment from the listener, and others don't mind hearing a response that shows that the person listening might understand them based on things they've experienced themselves, that they share at the time. Those are the two things that pop into my mind, but I'm sure that there are many others.



Yeah with me it's that, as far as people I've known and met personally goes, everyone I care about has a reply waiting. Or a question. Anything other than listening.

And to answer your other post, I'm been trying to figure it out before. Because if it's something happening with "everyone else" then it's really me who has to change. But I haven't figured out what I'm meant to do differently. I've asked, and I've spoken about it and pointed it out.

Even if someone tells me how they feel and I don't understand or see it the same way, I'll say ok I accept that's how you feel and leave it at that.

I don't mind if people cannot accept how I feel. Or if I don't have to talk about it.

But being told I should open up more and talk about what's going on with me, then doing that and being met with no acceptance from the very same people asking, that's an annoying combination. I'm not even trying to analyse it, just describing it here but it's not something I care to deal with right now with anyone in my life. It's held me back enough as it is. Sometimes you just have to stop talking or answering to people and move with your priorities and that's me right now.

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I hear you.

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Virgogent and that Tiz guy strike me as very mature guys who are able to talk about their emotions. Aren't they both Gem moons? Of course, maybe it's an illusion!


Nah if I talk about how I feel, no one in my life listens. They just react by arguing, or asking me to justify and explain why I feel the way I do. So i find it is simpler not to talk. People I care about just use it as an opportunity to talk about themselves either way. You may as well stay quiet and let them have their attention with less aggravation.


Actually, that's learned helplessness right? My bad.


I think that I can understand why you wouldn't want to share that if that's the response you get. What do you think would work best for you -- what kind of response would make you feel like your feelings are okay to share? For example, I've noticed that some people just want to be heard and respected for their feelings, without much comment from the listener, and others don't mind hearing a response that shows that the person listening might understand them based on things they've experienced themselves, that they share at the time. Those are the two things that pop into my mind, but I'm sure that there are many others.

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Yeah with me it's that, as far as people I've known and met personally goes, everyone I care about has a reply waiting. Or a question. Anything other than listening.

And to answer your other post, I'm been trying to figure it out before. Because if it's something happening with "everyone else" then it's really me who has to change. But I haven't figured out what I'm meant to do differently. I've asked, and I've spoken about it and pointed it out.

Even if someone tells me how they feel and I don't understand or see it the same way, I'll say ok I accept that's how you feel and leave it at that.

I don't mind if people cannot accept how I feel. Or if I don't have to talk about it.

But being told I should open up more and talk about what's going on with me, then doing that and being met with no acceptance from the very same people asking, that's an annoying combination. I'm not even trying to analyse it, just describing it here but it's not something I care to deal with right now with anyone in my life. It's held me back enough as it is. Sometimes you just have to stop talking or answering to people and move with your priorities and that's me right now.

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Not gonna lie. yes, I do have that capability of cheating simply because I tend to like more than one person. But my sun, venus, and mars block my capability to do so. since they're all fixed.

Gemini just wants to have a little fun.

This is why I try to remain free of obligations or relationships...so it won't be called 'cheating'.


I like your answer ? Lol


Really? why is that?


Geminis not the only one who can have a lil fun lol Scorpios need lovin too ?. Jp there's always time for a serious relationship when you're ready and there's also time playing the field if you're not there's nothing wrong with it.


Very true. I need to find that someone who will be worth my time and love. Don't find many to be quite honest.


Maybe they are thinking the same thing. Lol


Maybe. I mean don't get me wrong I do get a lot of guys after me. But it's just like, if I don't feel an attraction towards you...chances are i'm not gonna waste my time. Don't see the point lol


I know logically speaking but life is a mystery at Times. People i wasn't initally attracted showed me another side way way down the road that changed my view on them. Depends on the circumstances lol.


Ugh, but I'm soo picky without me wanting to! I heard it's because my venus is square my mars.


I can relate haha. gemini moon in the 12th with venus opposite mars smdh... i find reasons why every single person i date is not right for me.

I have to say that I did a lot of uncharacteristic things while i was grieving and heavily on drugs.... including cheating which i will regret the rest of my life. So glad to have myself back and never have to be in those situations again. I had surrounded myself with people and a life style that was appalling bc, well, i didnt want to live... i dont find other gemini moons superficial cheaters tho. mine was a decision made out of confusion and I've learned all too well the consequences of my actions...


Yeah, I don't think I would consider myself a cheater. I'm faithful to a fault but my Gemini moon sometimes gets all worked up when seeing a good looking guy. Can't help but flirt sometimes. But those are really RARE instances. Most guys don't float my boat.
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i have been called a flirt bc I'm overly nice lol I've tried to reign this back some bc you just cant be too nice to some guys or they get the wrong message lol
i was very "the grass is always greener " in my younger years so I dated a lot but never slept with more than one man out of those. and when i felt like i wanted that from another person, i told that person up front and ended it. no use dragging someone through useless emotional drama by hiding something.
now that my libido has died down some lol and im older and wiser, i can find myself attracted to a personality a lot quicker than anything looks wise. either way, it takes a lot to wow me... my self control and rationale is much stronger as an adult so I've found myself to enjoy more the monogamous life for the right special person or alone. either is acceptable.
Venusian Scorp
Posted by tiziani
Posted by PootyButt
Virgogent and that Tiz guy strike me as very mature guys who are able to talk about their emotions. Aren't they both Gem moons? Of course, maybe it's an illusion!


Nah if I talk about how I feel, no one in my life listens. They just react by arguing, or asking me to justify and explain why I feel the way I do. So i find it is simpler not to talk. People I care about just use it as an opportunity to talk about themselves either way. You may as well stay quiet and let them have their attention with less aggravation.


Actually, that's learned helplessness right? My bad.
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I think that I can understand why you wouldn't want to share that if that's the response you get. What do you think would work best for you -- what kind of response would make you feel like your feelings are okay to share? For example, I've noticed that some people just want to be heard and respected for their feelings, without much comment from the listener, and others don't mind hearing a response that shows that the person listening might understand them based on things they've experienced themselves, that they share at the time. Those are the two things that pop into my mind, but I'm sure that there are many others.

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My ex had a gemini moon, I am a gemini but we had a very toxic relationship and i'm 90% sure he cheated.
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Virgogent and that Tiz guy strike me as very mature guys who are able to talk about their emotions. Aren't they both Gem moons? Of course, maybe it's an illusion!


Nah if I talk about how I feel, no one in my life listens. They just react by arguing, or asking me to justify and explain why I feel the way I do. So i find it is simpler not to talk. People I care about just use it as an opportunity to talk about themselves either way. You may as well stay quiet and let them have their attention with less aggravation.


Actually, that's learned helplessness right? My bad.


Lol!! Do you tend towards being a nihilist by any chance Tiz?



Lol not at all. I certainly hope not. Is that how I come across?

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Sometimes yeah. I can't pinpoint what made me feel so but I found that interesting tbh ?
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Posted by PootyButt
Virgogent and that Tiz guy strike me as very mature guys who are able to talk about their emotions. Aren't they both Gem moons? Of course, maybe it's an illusion!


Nah if I talk about how I feel, no one in my life listens. They just react by arguing, or asking me to justify and explain why I feel the way I do. So i find it is simpler not to talk. People I care about just use it as an opportunity to talk about themselves either way. You may as well stay quiet and let them have their attention with less aggravation.


Actually, that's learned helplessness right? My bad.


Lol!! Do you tend towards being a nihilist by any chance Tiz?
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Lol not at all. I certainly hope not. Is that how I come across?

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# Responsible Indulgence
Posted by tiziani
Posted by PootyButt
Virgogent and that Tiz guy strike me as very mature guys who are able to talk about their emotions. Aren't they both Gem moons? Of course, maybe it's an illusion!


Nah if I talk about how I feel, no one in my life listens. They just react by arguing, or asking me to justify and explain why I feel the way I do. So i find it is simpler not to talk. People I care about just use it as an opportunity to talk about themselves either way. You may as well stay quiet and let them have their attention with less aggravation.


Actually, that's learned helplessness right? My bad.
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Lol!! Do you tend towards being a nihilist by any chance Tiz?
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Posted by PootyButt
Virgogent and that Tiz guy strike me as very mature guys who are able to talk about their emotions. Aren't they both Gem moons? Of course, maybe it's an illusion!


Nah if I talk about how I feel, no one in my life listens. They just react by arguing, or asking me to justify and explain why I feel the way I do. So i find it is simpler not to talk. People I care about just use it as an opportunity to talk about themselves either way. You may as well stay quiet and let them have their attention with less aggravation.


Actually, that's learned helplessness right? My bad.
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the gemini moon is the worst. oh god we find everyone interesting and worth of talking. we like people. we like their ideas even if their's are so different than ours.so it's not about sex. it can be, but mostly not. we like tha TALK


Wait, all this time you're a Gemini Moon? Damn.
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@tiziani you made this whatever disapearee. if you want to get coffy any time call me. sorry


I what?
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Not gonna lie. yes, I do have that capability of cheating simply because I tend to like more than one person. But my sun, venus, and mars block my capability to do so. since they're all fixed.

Gemini just wants to have a little fun.

This is why I try to remain free of obligations or relationships...so it won't be called 'cheating'.


I like your answer ? Lol


Really? why is that?


Geminis not the only one who can have a lil fun lol Scorpios need lovin too ?. Jp there's always time for a serious relationship when you're ready and there's also time playing the field if you're not there's nothing wrong with it.


Very true. I need to find that someone who will be worth my time and love. Don't find many to be quite honest.


Maybe they are thinking the same thing. Lol


Maybe. I mean don't get me wrong I do get a lot of guys after me. But it's just like, if I don't feel an attraction towards you...chances are i'm not gonna waste my time. Don't see the point lol


I know logically speaking but life is a mystery at Times. People i wasn't initally attracted showed me another side way way down the road that changed my view on them. Depends on the circumstances lol.


Ugh, but I'm soo picky without me wanting to! I heard it's because my venus is square my mars.


I can relate haha. gemini moon in the 12th with venus opposite mars smdh... i find reasons why every single person i date is not right for me.

I have to say that I did a lot of uncharacteristic things while i was grieving and heavily on drugs.... including cheating which i will regret the rest of my life. So glad to have myself back and never have to be in those situations again. I had surrounded myself with people and a life style that was appalling bc, well, i didnt want to live... i dont find other gemini moons superficial cheaters tho. mine was a decision made out of confusion and I've learned all too well the consequences of my actions...


You guys are too damn picky lol


picky or stupid, you decide ... i cant ?
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Honey, i'm dealing with someone like this. I understand lol. You guys need to chill ?!
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Not gonna lie. yes, I do have that capability of cheating simply because I tend to like more than one person. But my sun, venus, and mars block my capability to do so. since they're all fixed.

Gemini just wants to have a little fun.

This is why I try to remain free of obligations or relationships...so it won't be called 'cheating'.


I like your answer ? Lol


Really? why is that?


Geminis not the only one who can have a lil fun lol Scorpios need lovin too ?. Jp there's always time for a serious relationship when you're ready and there's also time playing the field if you're not there's nothing wrong with it.


Very true. I need to find that someone who will be worth my time and love. Don't find many to be quite honest.


Maybe they are thinking the same thing. Lol


Maybe. I mean don't get me wrong I do get a lot of guys after me. But it's just like, if I don't feel an attraction towards you...chances are i'm not gonna waste my time. Don't see the point lol


I know logically speaking but life is a mystery at Times. People i wasn't initally attracted showed me another side way way down the road that changed my view on them. Depends on the circumstances lol.


Ugh, but I'm soo picky without me wanting to! I heard it's because my venus is square my mars.


I can relate haha. gemini moon in the 12th with venus opposite mars smdh... i find reasons why every single person i date is not right for me.

I have to say that I did a lot of uncharacteristic things while i was grieving and heavily on drugs.... including cheating which i will regret the rest of my life. So glad to have myself back and never have to be in those situations again. I had surrounded myself with people and a life style that was appalling bc, well, i didnt want to live... i dont find other gemini moons superficial cheaters tho. mine was a decision made out of confusion and I've learned all too well the consequences of my actions...


You guys are too damn picky lol
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picky or stupid, you decide ... i cant ?
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Not gonna lie. yes, I do have that capability of cheating simply because I tend to like more than one person. But my sun, venus, and mars block my capability to do so. since they're all fixed.

Gemini just wants to have a little fun.

This is why I try to remain free of obligations or relationships...so it won't be called 'cheating'.


I like your answer ? Lol


Really? why is that?


Geminis not the only one who can have a lil fun lol Scorpios need lovin too ?. Jp there's always time for a serious relationship when you're ready and there's also time playing the field if you're not there's nothing wrong with it.


Very true. I need to find that someone who will be worth my time and love. Don't find many to be quite honest.


Maybe they are thinking the same thing. Lol


Maybe. I mean don't get me wrong I do get a lot of guys after me. But it's just like, if I don't feel an attraction towards you...chances are i'm not gonna waste my time. Don't see the point lol


I know logically speaking but life is a mystery at Times. People i wasn't initally attracted showed me another side way way down the road that changed my view on them. Depends on the circumstances lol.


Ugh, but I'm soo picky without me wanting to! I heard it's because my venus is square my mars.


I can relate haha. gemini moon in the 12th with venus opposite mars smdh... i find reasons why every single person i date is not right for me.

I have to say that I did a lot of uncharacteristic things while i was grieving and heavily on drugs.... including cheating which i will regret the rest of my life. So glad to have myself back and never have to be in those situations again. I had surrounded myself with people and a life style that was appalling bc, well, i didnt want to live... i dont find other gemini moons superficial cheaters tho. mine was a decision made out of confusion and I've learned all too well the consequences of my actions...
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You guys are too damn picky lol
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