INCUBUS -- how to get rid of them?

Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get rid of an obsessed spirit lover? I have an incubus that's been with me
41 years old female from Magrathea
"Mistress of MuMu and Maximus; highly complex Gemini; semi-jaded romantic; purv
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get rid of an obsessed spirit lover?

I have an incubus that's been with me since I was 9 years old and he thinks he's my husband. I just found out about him three years ago and have done releasing, banishing -- well, lots of things short of exorcism to shake him off. He left for a bit but comes back every now and then especially when I am stressed, anxious or sad probably because he feels it is his duty to keep me company and comfort me.

Now, unlike other incubi, this one has not ravaged me yet and I'm thankful for that. He's kind of old school and wants my unconditional acceptance of him before he consummates our relationship. I want him gone because he is the biggest obstacle to my having a committed relationship as he wants me all to himself and works to distance those who like me and those I like on the spiritual plane. (yeah, it sucks)

He turns up in my aura pictures too so that is kind of creepy but at least there's proof that he exists and it's not just made up mumbo jumbo of those psychically gifted/clairvoyants that have alerted me to his presence.

Anyone with experience in this?
from Full Fathom Five
"Pisces Sun/Scorp Rising Moon/Mars/Mercury in Aquarius Venus in Aries ""
Have you had an aura cleansing? You would probably have to have several, with an experienced practitioner actually "amputating" the cord that ties him to you repeatedly.

These spirits are, unfortunately, much more difficult to get rid of as they are attached to a person, rather than a house or location, but it can be done. It doesn't surprise me that he comes around when you are stressed or upset. It's when he can find an "in" as you are more vulnerable. Visualization techniques during these times (i.e. surrounding yourself with white light, or encased in mirrors facing outward) could offer you some extra protection and prevent him from getting in.
41 years old female from Magrathea
"Mistress of MuMu and Maximus; highly complex Gemini; semi-jaded romantic; purv
Posted by Sea Siren
Have you had an aura cleansing? You would probably have to have several, with an experienced practitioner actually "amputating" the cord that ties him to you repeatedly.

These spirits are, unfortunately, much more difficult to get rid of as they are attached to a person, rather than a house or location, but it can be done. It doesn't surprise me that he comes around when you are stressed or upset. It's when he can find an "in" as you are more vulnerable. Visualization techniques during these times (i.e. surrounding yourself with white light, or encased in mirrors facing outward) could offer you some extra protection and prevent him from getting in.


Aura cleansing? No, I haven't tried that yet but will research and explore. I have done heavy duty cleansing where I spent an hour immersed in the ocean (yes, the open seas) every day for a week and in deep prayer, contemplation. I did nothing but that for the entire week and ended up knowing everyone on the island I was on, lol.

He was gone for a long time after that BUT he still sent his minions to watch over me until such time he felt it was safe to approach and hang around me himself. That's when things generally come to a standstill in my life and that's when I notice.

Tell me more about the mirrors though, please. I should be encased inside mirrors? Like I'm in a cage and there are mirrors?

I'm familiar about God's white light and I do it every time I do maintenance cleansing -- bath infused with salt. I'm told I have to do this weekly for the rest of my life. Ugh.

So I do this -- the mirrors and the light -- every time I feel sad, anxious, etc?

BTW - I've heard of some ppl choosing an incubus over human partners because there are certain benefits that they get aside probably from the awesome otherworldly sex. Would you happen to know what these would be?
from Full Fathom Five
"Pisces Sun/Scorp Rising Moon/Mars/Mercury in Aquarius Venus in Aries ""
Yes, you imagine yourself surrounded by the backsides of large mirrors facing outward. The idea is that negative entities or beings will avoid you because they do not wish to see themselves (this technique works on humans, too, FYI). Some people have also recommended visualizing that your psyche has a garage door, and when you feel an intruder, slam it shut.

The sex may be incredible, but the risk is too great. You will then NEVER be free. He may not seem threatening now, but that is because you have not "completely" let him in, and toying with these thoughts may be what is encouraging him to stay around.

Just about all metaphysical type shops offer aura cleansings, or they will know where you can get one. Good luck!
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Posted by Joanie675
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get rid of an obsessed spirit lover?

I have an incubus that's been with me since I was 9 years old and he thinks he's my husband. I just found out about him three years ago and have done releasing, banishing -- well, lots of things short of exorcism to shake him off. He left for a bit but comes back every now and then especially when I am stressed, anxious or sad probably because he feels it is his duty to keep me company and comfort me.

Now, unlike other incubi, this one has not ravaged me yet and I'm thankful for that. He's kind of old school and wants my unconditional acceptance of him before he consummates our relationship. I want him gone because he is the biggest obstacle to my having a committed relationship as he wants me all to himself and works to distance those who like me and those I like on the spiritual plane. (yeah, it sucks)

He turns up in my aura pictures too so that is kind of creepy but at least there's proof that he exists and it's not just made up mumbo jumbo of those psychically gifted/clairvoyants that have alerted me to his presence.

Anyone with experience in this?
I believe you and I have the same thing. I just found out about mines 8 months ago. My ex told me about him. My ex was born into voodoo and has capabilities some would only dream of. He told me a member of my mothers family put on me out of jealousy for my mom. When I was a baby not even 6 months, I got real sick to where I turned ghost white, developed pus like boils all over my body and my skin was pealing off. The doctors couldn't do anything to stop me from dying, she had to take me to the mountains and had a voodoo priest heal me. I was actually dead for like almost 30 min and I came back. My parents had to baptized me for two years straight on a regular basis to keep me alive by gods grace. This incubus org demon couldn't be destroyed because as I was told its and old demon like one of the first types to be created or whatever. It too think its my husband. My ex took me to the sea and did a ritual and I had to say a prayer and sleep with the salt from the water on me till the next day at sunrise. I had to sit under the first rising sun of that morning in order for it to work. Since I couldn't get rid of it, I could bind it and have it dancing around in circles while it tried to catch me or do stuff to m
36 years old
I know exactly what that is like I also have a spirit who is obsessed with me, but I just found out about him about a week ago. I've had two serious relationships and I realize they both left and did not understand why but could not bring them selves to come back. I get a excitement that comes over me that my other ex-boyfriends could not get from me and I learned it was the spirit I guess having sex with me when I'm alone? It sounds horribly weird I know but I was told to go to the beach and there is where I can cleanse myself but it is a long process. I'm happy to know I am not the only one going through this but how can I get rid of this thing for good. I would rather a real man and husband not a spirit.
41 years old female from Magrathea
"Mistress of MuMu and Maximus; highly complex Gemini; semi-jaded romantic; purv
Alerolife -- so what were you told to do at the beach?

Since my last post, I have done lots of things to keep the incubus at a distance. We had the whole house cleansed of spirits and placed lots of protection in my room to keep unwanted spirits away. I also renewed my beach a couple of months ago. Last I checked with my psychic friend (the one who alerted me to his presence), she said that he doesn't hang around me anymore.

What she did say is that I would heave to periodically cleanse myself from time to time to ward him off. Also, I have to work at being positive because whenever I am sad or feel negative about stuff, that draws him close because he gets worried about me.

OTOH, another person who is in touch with spirits sensed the incubus also but he said that if the right guy comes along, he will step back and it is the love of that person who will shield me from this incubus interfering with my love life. He also told me to ask the incubus to leave me or leave my lovelife be so that I can be happy.

Just sharing. =)
41 years old female from Magrathea
"Mistress of MuMu and Maximus; highly complex Gemini; semi-jaded romantic; purv
Posted by everevolvingepithet
That sounds like a phantasm/fantasy really.
Although I've had a few succubi in my time given that context.
So how does one rid themselves of succubi too please ?


Oh, I suppose it would be the same as getting rid of an incubus. I wouldn't know if a succubus is as jealous and possessive as an incubus that she would effectively paralyze your love life. What's your experience on this so far?
23 years old male from AMERICA!
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hmm this is interdasting..ive never heard of real incubus..so im guessing that the downside to having awesome sex with these things is that they "devour" you? and what exactly does "devour" mean? are we talking 'jennifers body' here? this stuff sounds pretty hot, not gonna lie
36 years old
Joanie I go to see someone on a weekly basis who never actually told me what to do when I go to the beach but I did go this weekend and I stood in the water and prayed. I also stop drinking because I read in an article that's a weakness that the incubus feeds off of. So drinking and sex including masturbation is something that I have stopped to see if things will get better. I know this will take time it's just supportive knowing that there is hope that I can actually find true love and keep them lol. I was also told to get an altar for my house.
36 years old
It is best to stop masturbating or having sexual intercourse with others if it is not your husband or wife because that will make the incubus pull from you.
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i am known to be able to get the incubus out of girls, come to nyc, message me, and we will be having procedures twice a week, after that you wont have the spirit in you anymore, first week is complementary, for the second week and if needed third there is a small fee of showing how trained your hands are
One of my friends has this problem, she can feel when its around it even followed her to school today. It didn't make its self known until we were talking about what was bugging her. She has been having rough sex dreams and hs bruises on her legs. In her dreams she feels as if a inknown force is making her lay down on a bed in a feild, and its pitch black. She says she can see a man whos she guesses who is around 6ft tall. She says the entire time the sex os going on she is staring at his face, but it is blurry so she can not really see his face. She says its been happening to her since she was about 10, and she is 15 now. Her mother had a weji board when she was 10 but just for display. She and a friend of herd at the time were moving the peice around randomly and freakced out when it started moving on its own, but she did not understand what was happening and her mother wont help her, she thinks that her daughter is imaginating it. Anyway she said it stoped after a while but ever time she moved or somthing it would come back as if it was mad she moved. I have no idea if she has moved recently or not. But today at school she finaly came and told me and 2 other friends what was going on. S (I'm only putting the first initials if their names) said judging from what she told us it was an Incubus. We were talking about it in our class when she just started looking around, she said she could feel him watching her, so S. went to stand behing her because thats where she felt him and S. said that entire area behind J. (the girl with the incubus following her) was really hot. so I went and stood behind her but it felt really cold to me. then I told J. to move away so she went across the room and i could feel cold breaths on my neck. My friend S. moved in my spot and she could feel it to. my frienk K. was there as well and we are all looking for anwsers to get rid of the incubus because its affecting her health she is getting really sick very fast. We're scared for her she was almost crying today when she told us. S. and K. and I are wiccas but we are not very expericed yet. well maybe S. shes the one who knowns the most. Please help us save our friend shes inly 15 and a sophmore in high school she doesn not deserve this harrassment
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