how to cure unrequited...

love? i was reminded earlier with a discussion with @sierra on a subject earlier, how alot of people fall for someone but the other person doesn't want them back equally. how does one cure this? i've seen this over the years, on this forum also
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  • UnicornSag
    🌞, ♀️, ☿ ♐🌙♈♂️♏🌄♓-🦄inside - ENTJ/ENTP
    female
    Well I guess for a Sag it might work something like - Any love is better than no love. Idk but somehow ever since I can remember I needed to feel in love. And when I wasn't I felt something is missing in my life. Feeling was even more intense when that love is unrequited I guess...not sure what is it about tho, but some Scorpionic parts in chart I suspect lol
  • saggurl88
    SunSagittarius MoonCancer MercurySagittarius VenusScorpio MarsLeo Jup
    female from anytown, Anywhere, United States
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by saggurl88
    I love the feeling of being in love, so I don't mind unrequited love. I fall in love fast and fall out just as fast, It's the middle that lingers a while.

    It's like a constant, low buzz love feeling that never really goes away, If I ever really loved you. It gets ignored and I move on and fall in love again.

    Right now I'm in the in between stage. The awful longing until something new and shiny pulls my interest again. Then it will all be background noise and a relief!


    I really relate to that. Maybe cause I'm a Sag dom.


    It's nice that you can relate and we see eye to eye! smile

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    I mean it. I'm like that. Move in and move out fast.
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    I know smile I've read what you've said on other forums. I wasn't doubting what you said. lol
  • AerialView
    12 inches of rice💨
    male from Arlong Park
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by saggurl88
    I love the feeling of being in love, so I don't mind unrequited love. I fall in love fast and fall out just as fast, It's the middle that lingers a while.

    It's like a constant, low buzz love feeling that never really goes away, If I ever really loved you. It gets ignored and I move on and fall in love again.

    Right now I'm in the in between stage. The awful longing until something new and shiny pulls my interest again. Then it will all be background noise and a relief!


    I really relate to that. Maybe cause I'm a Sag dom.


    It's nice that you can relate and we see eye to eye! smile

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    Laughing

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    click to expand


    I mean it. I'm like that. Move in and move out fast.
  • saggurl88
    SunSagittarius MoonCancer MercurySagittarius VenusScorpio MarsLeo Jup
    female from anytown, Anywhere, United States
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by saggurl88
    I love the feeling of being in love, so I don't mind unrequited love. I fall in love fast and fall out just as fast, It's the middle that lingers a while.

    It's like a constant, low buzz love feeling that never really goes away, If I ever really loved you. It gets ignored and I move on and fall in love again.

    Right now I'm in the in between stage. The awful longing until something new and shiny pulls my interest again. Then it will all be background noise and a relief!


    I really relate to that. Maybe cause I'm a Sag dom.
    click to expand


    It's nice that you can relate and we see eye to eye! smile

    User Submitted Image

    Laughing

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  • AerialView
    12 inches of rice💨
    male from Arlong Park
    Posted by saggurl88
    I love the feeling of being in love, so I don't mind unrequited love. I fall in love fast and fall out just as fast, It's the middle that lingers a while.

    It's like a constant, low buzz love feeling that never really goes away, If I ever really loved you. It gets ignored and I move on and fall in love again.

    Right now I'm in the in between stage. The awful longing until something new and shiny pulls my interest again. Then it will all be background noise and a relief!


    I really relate to that. Maybe cause I'm a Sag dom.
  • Taniwha
    male
    Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by Taniwha
    Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by Taniwha
    I'm falling for you with that profile photo.


    if you have taurus, i'm very very positive you would lol or a strong earth User Submitted Image

    my husband has virgo dominant energy and he thought wow.

    She's an Aquarius sun, and she has a strong Capricorn/Cancer axis energy.

    guess who this Aquarius sun young lady is with?

    a Taurus sun, Leo moon. lolLaughing

    Jake Etheridge from "the common linnets" band. April 25.


    lmfao so its not even you? here I was thinking your super smart, grounded and caring. Looking like that and wearing a Guns and Roses shirt...

    Who is she anyway? >.>


    XD

    Mackenzie Porter.

    my husband thought she was really beautiful/lovely, as i notice these things. lol


    this is her and her taurus boyfriend, lol (theyve been together at least since 2014? meaning she doesn't talk about her private life, until recently) that i noticed.

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    she is in travelers tv show, and that's her and her co-star.
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    Nah, that's you and your famous and just pretending its somebody else.
  • lisabethur8
    Married, middleaged parttime housewife, Aqua-sun/Cap/Pisces/Taurus,married to,S
    female
    Posted by crazysioux
    Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by crazysioux
    that doesn't sound unrequited imo, it sounds like those gals liked you. i mean they chased you and you blocked them. -_-
    soooo you weren't interested.


    You misunderstood. The Virgo blocked me. I haven't spoken to her or made eye contact with her since December 22nd. To give you a better idea, I work the meat department and she works in a sandwich shop. Between us are Produce and Deli departments. So it's a very large open area. Anyway, ever since then, I've seen her:

    - talking to a co-worker at the end of her shift as she was about to leave and -- every once in a while, they'd both look over in my direction. The conversation between them lasted about 5 minutes or so. I don't know nor care what it was about.

    - glancing in my direction as I'm working in my department.

    - approaching with her two kids while I was stocking a section of my department. I acted like I never noticed her, finished my stocking, and made my way back to my cooler. Never acknowledged each other.

    - noticed her eye-treetrunking me moments later while checking her groceries out at a self-serve scanner.

    I don't know what to make of this behavior. I'm on a "Not Speaking Unless Spoken To" status with her ...

    you are a cappy with aqua venus...eeeek...


    you need a woman with air venus.


    any other libra venus or gemini venus women around???


    I dunno.

    She's Aqua Moon, Mercury Libra, Scorpio Venus/Pluto, and Virgo Mars.

    She also has Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune in the 1st house under Capricorn.


    ah i see. lol

    her Aquarius moon fits nicely with your Aqua venus. all her outer planets with your cappy sun.

    that singularity libra merc to your venus trine. lol
    sort of how my husband has pluto libra trine my sun singularity.

    you both kind of sabotage eachother though. lol


    If we don't sabotage ourselves first. 😅
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    smh i dont understand you aquarius venus men ...

    commit!!! i suggest an air venus woman. the ones i know are with air venus and they are very good together.
  • lisabethur8
    Married, middleaged parttime housewife, Aqua-sun/Cap/Pisces/Taurus,married to,S
    female
    Posted by Taniwha
    Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by Taniwha
    I'm falling for you with that profile photo.


    if you have taurus, i'm very very positive you would lol or a strong earth User Submitted Image

    my husband has virgo dominant energy and he thought wow.

    She's an Aquarius sun, and she has a strong Capricorn/Cancer axis energy.

    guess who this Aquarius sun young lady is with?

    a Taurus sun, Leo moon. lolLaughing

    Jake Etheridge from "the common linnets" band. April 25.


    lmfao so its not even you? here I was thinking your super smart, grounded and caring. Looking like that and wearing a Guns and Roses shirt...

    Who is she anyway? >.>
    click to expand


    XD

    Mackenzie Porter.

    my husband thought she was really beautiful/lovely, as i notice these things. lol


    this is her and her taurus boyfriend, lol (theyve been together at least since 2014? meaning she doesn't talk about her private life, until recently) that i noticed.

    User Submitted Image


    she is in travelers tv show, and that's her and her co-star.
    User Submitted Image



  • Nenja
    Sun, Moon, and rising in flames
    Give into the obsession until it gets old. Fighting it makes it drag on.

    Overall, give it time. It took me several months.
  • Taniwha
    male
    Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by Taniwha
    I'm falling for you with that profile photo.


    if you have taurus, i'm very very positive you would lol or a strong earth User Submitted Image

    my husband has virgo dominant energy and he thought wow.

    She's an Aquarius sun, and she has a strong Capricorn/Cancer axis energy.

    guess who this Aquarius sun young lady is with?

    a Taurus sun, Leo moon. lolLaughing

    Jake Etheridge from "the common linnets" band. April 25.
    click to expand


    lmfao so its not even you? here I was thinking your super smart, grounded and caring. Looking like that and wearing a Guns and Roses shirt...

    Who is she anyway? >.>
  • crazysioux
    ♑ Sun ♎ Moon ♒ Venus ♉ Mars ♍ ASC ♓ DSC
    44 years old male
    Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by crazysioux
    that doesn't sound unrequited imo, it sounds like those gals liked you. i mean they chased you and you blocked them. -_-
    soooo you weren't interested.


    You misunderstood. The Virgo blocked me. I haven't spoken to her or made eye contact with her since December 22nd. To give you a better idea, I work the meat department and she works in a sandwich shop. Between us are Produce and Deli departments. So it's a very large open area. Anyway, ever since then, I've seen her:

    - talking to a co-worker at the end of her shift as she was about to leave and -- every once in a while, they'd both look over in my direction. The conversation between them lasted about 5 minutes or so. I don't know nor care what it was about.

    - glancing in my direction as I'm working in my department.

    - approaching with her two kids while I was stocking a section of my department. I acted like I never noticed her, finished my stocking, and made my way back to my cooler. Never acknowledged each other.

    - noticed her eye-treetrunking me moments later while checking her groceries out at a self-serve scanner.

    I don't know what to make of this behavior. I'm on a "Not Speaking Unless Spoken To" status with her ...

    you are a cappy with aqua venus...eeeek...


    you need a woman with air venus.


    any other libra venus or gemini venus women around???


    I dunno.

    She's Aqua Moon, Mercury Libra, Scorpio Venus/Pluto, and Virgo Mars.

    She also has Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune in the 1st house under Capricorn.


    ah i see. lol

    her Aquarius moon fits nicely with your Aqua venus. all her outer planets with your cappy sun.

    that singularity libra merc to your venus trine. lol
    sort of how my husband has pluto libra trine my sun singularity.

    you both kind of sabotage eachother though. lol
    click to expand


    If we don't sabotage ourselves first. 😅
  • lisabethur8
    Married, middleaged parttime housewife, Aqua-sun/Cap/Pisces/Taurus,married to,S
    female
    Posted by Taniwha
    I'm falling for you with that profile photo.


    if you have taurus, i'm very very positive you would lol or a strong earth User Submitted Image

    my husband has virgo dominant energy and he thought wow.

    She's an Aquarius sun, and she has a strong Capricorn/Cancer axis energy.

    guess who this Aquarius sun young lady is with?

    a Taurus sun, Leo moon. lolLaughing

    Jake Etheridge from "the common linnets" band. April 25.
  • lisabethur8
    Married, middleaged parttime housewife, Aqua-sun/Cap/Pisces/Taurus,married to,S
    female
    Posted by crazysioux
    that doesn't sound unrequited imo, it sounds like those gals liked you. i mean they chased you and you blocked them. -_-
    soooo you weren't interested.


    You misunderstood. The Virgo blocked me. I haven't spoken to her or made eye contact with her since December 22nd. To give you a better idea, I work the meat department and she works in a sandwich shop. Between us are Produce and Deli departments. So it's a very large open area. Anyway, ever since then, I've seen her:

    - talking to a co-worker at the end of her shift as she was about to leave and -- every once in a while, they'd both look over in my direction. The conversation between them lasted about 5 minutes or so. I don't know nor care what it was about.

    - glancing in my direction as I'm working in my department.

    - approaching with her two kids while I was stocking a section of my department. I acted like I never noticed her, finished my stocking, and made my way back to my cooler. Never acknowledged each other.

    - noticed her eye-treetrunking me moments later while checking her groceries out at a self-serve scanner.

    I don't know what to make of this behavior. I'm on a "Not Speaking Unless Spoken To" status with her ...

    you are a cappy with aqua venus...eeeek...


    you need a woman with air venus.


    any other libra venus or gemini venus women around???


    I dunno.

    She's Aqua Moon, Mercury Libra, Scorpio Venus/Pluto, and Virgo Mars.

    She also has Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune in the 1st house under Capricorn.
    click to expand


    ah i see. lol

    her Aquarius moon fits nicely with your Aqua venus. all her outer planets with your cappy sun.

    that singularity libra merc to your venus trine. lol
    sort of how my husband has pluto libra trine my sun singularity.

    you both kind of sabotage eachother though. lol
  • Taniwha
    male
    I'm falling for you with that profile photo.
  • AneemA04
    female
    Posted by Caramel_Princess
    https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/videos/1496088253743573/

    This shifted my mindset on unrequited love.


    I like Matthew Hussey! He's gorgeous too
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