What to do to make them listen to you?

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Lately im in a lot of stress seriously my hair is falling out i already have thin hair,dealing with this organization that they made me the president which i accepted,they saw how i get along with the teenager,im a joker i make everyone laugh but right now we have this program that need to take place,i notice that whenever i called for a meeting my two officer which is my treasurer and my secretary would start the conversation planning this planning that and i feel like im invincible,they dont listen even if i speak they continue to talk to themselves,one time i've had enough i raise my voice i have a pretty deep voice that sometimes people thought im angry but im not, the room went silent and i was like "im telling you both a couple of minutes ago but you didnt listen" after that whenever i raise my voice they listen,i dont like it to be honest that is my past personality but do i have to continue raising my voice just so they will listen?or should i talk to the 2 of them privately to tell them about this issue?
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Posted by LovingSeraphina
Oh I am so very sorry to hear you are stressed. Some people can be bad listeners some times.

I guess just try and get along with people as best you can and see what makes them feel comfortable.

I hope it gets better. Don't take on the stress of it 🙂

i cant im an overthinker it gives me insomnia,right now im palpitating just thinking about it?,its not that they are bad listeners i feel like they dont respect me,cant i be a joker and fun to be with but be taken seriously?