Who else is shy here?

How's life being shy? Sucks right? :p Mine too
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  • Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    I’ve learned you just have to push through it & put yourself in situations you wouldn’t normally. The hardest part is showing up but I take a deep breath & walk through the door.

    My dad used to make my brother take me to other campsites to meet other kids while camping. I refused to.. but when bro broke the ice it was all good 🤷‍♀️

    As an adult, I needed to make new friends after my divorce & we lived somewhere I didn’t really have my own. Started showing up too meetup groups.. actually met people and talked to them! Lol it turned out alright. I would’ve NEVER done that in a million years before.


    Oh my, showing up part is horrible for me!! 😤
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    I feel ya!!
  • Aliensusedourbogroll
    No silicon heaven? Preposterous! Where would all the calculators go?
    Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
    Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
    Yes, very much so. I even get shy in the presence of family members if I don’t see them a lot. 😖😖😖


    Me too! 😤
    Lol, You're my age, so we are goodies 😂😂.
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    *shyly high fives you*
  • Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
    Yes, very much so. I even get shy in the presence of family members if I don’t see them a lot. 😖😖😖


    Me too! 😤
    Lol, You're my age, so we are goodies 😂😂.
  • Posted by RooSagicorn
    I’ve learned you just have to push through it & put yourself in situations you wouldn’t normally. The hardest part is showing up but I take a deep breath & walk through the door.

    My dad used to make my brother take me to other campsites to meet other kids while camping. I refused to.. but when bro broke the ice it was all good 🤷‍♀️

    As an adult, I needed to make new friends after my divorce & we lived somewhere I didn’t really have my own. Started showing up too meetup groups.. actually met people and talked to them! Lol it turned out alright. I would’ve NEVER done that in a million years before.


    Oh my, showing up part is horrible for me!! 😤
  • Lol yes.
    Becomes better with age, and all of that, "You're the quietest/shiest person I've ever seen," doesn't get on my nerves anymore.

    Lol being into someone even shiest? I Can't even imagine that! Then, good luck with staring at each other.
  • lisabethur8
    Married, middleaged parttime housewife, Aqua-sun/Cap/Pisces/Taurus,married to,S
    female
    Posted by MiZLeo
    My shyness has gotten worse in recent years. I thought I was getting better but I had a relapse.


    lol i think mine too.
    it's gotten worse.
  • Redbull
    Oh you got a phd, playa hatin degree
    male
    Depends on a lot of things I guess even the interpretation of shy, but generally on the flip side it can save you. It can literally make all the difference and save someone from all kinds of stuff people get involved in. And Im talking things that...lets just say that shyness blessed you. Now of course it can be said there is being "too shy" and whatnot so who knows.
  • I’ve learned you just have to push through it & put yourself in situations you wouldn’t normally. The hardest part is showing up but I take a deep breath & walk through the door.

    My dad used to make my brother take me to other campsites to meet other kids while camping. I refused to.. but when bro broke the ice it was all good 🤷‍♀️

    As an adult, I needed to make new friends after my divorce & we lived somewhere I didn’t really have my own. Started showing up too meetup groups.. actually met people and talked to them! Lol it turned out alright. I would’ve NEVER done that in a million years before.
  • Aliensusedourbogroll
    No silicon heaven? Preposterous! Where would all the calculators go?
    Yes, very much so. I even get shy in the presence of family members if I don’t see them a lot. 😖😖😖
  • ValleysofNeptune
    Pisces sun, Virgo moon, Leo ascendant
    25 years old male
    I too used to be shy and awkward growing up, but I've gotten a bit less shy as I've grown up. I've learned to embrace my Leo ascendant lol
  • STILL
    female
    I joined dxp to help me come out of my shell. I've never had any social media before joining dxp 😱

    Baby steps
  • I’m shy AF
  • MiZLeo
    ♌☀️/❤/Merc/Jup♓🌜♋Mars♐Rising ♍Sat
    female
    Posted by Mujer_latina
    Posted by MiZLeo
    My shyness has gotten worse in recent years. I thought I was getting better but I had a relapse.


    what caused it?
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    A Pisces I dated. He brought me up, made me feel really good about myself, but then I found out about a bunch of lies ...which made me start to wonder if everything he told me was a lie, including the things that brought me up.
    Then some medical things started to get worse, making me feel very self conscience. Stuff I was able to hide before or thought I was hiding, but after some self reflecting I saw that I wasn't.
    I started taking TKD last year and it has ended up being way harder then I thought it would be, I've had a lot of injuries with that and set backs. It's a daily struggle to keep going every week.
    My self esteem is very low right now. I'm aware of that so that makes me shy away from people even more.
  • Posted by MiZLeo
    My shyness has gotten worse in recent years. I thought I was getting better but I had a relapse.


    what caused it?
  • MiZLeo
    ♌☀️/❤/Merc/Jup♓🌜♋Mars♐Rising ♍Sat
    female
    My shyness has gotten worse in recent years. I thought I was getting better but I had a relapse.
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