HE TEXT MESSAGED ME!!!

P-Angel

I know you were a bit frustrated with me last week about my Pisces delema as I was with you but I thought you might find it either interesting or funny which ever that he text me....

He put....(its been almost 3 weeks with no contact)

After much time n thought, i would like to apologize for being so cold with you. I have such a short fuse following my last relationship n its not good for me. Hope that makes sense.

That was on Monday still havent heard from him and I am ok with that....I thought hearing from him would only hurt me more but its actually made me stronger. Thanks for all your thoughts last week....

Thought you might like to know the conclusion to the story...still sad but I understand that life doesnt always end up the way you would like it to. I miss him to death but understand that if we got back together we would still be incompatible and that I probably wouldnt get what i wanted from him and vis versa.

thanks again...

Lv24, No problem .. I hold no ill-will .. you're just not used to me yet. If I have something to say .. I shoot straight to the gut .. no sugar for me.

I'm sorry, too .. if I offended you, though, I know it didn't.

However, to hold true to myself, I feel compelled to respond to your update, for I find this quite curious:


He put....(its been almost 3 weeks with no contact) ..
..That was on Monday still havent heard from him and I am ok with that....I thought hearing from him would only hurt me more but its actually made me stronger ..
.. I miss him to death but understand that if we got back together we would still be incompatible and that I probably wouldnt get what i wanted from him and vis versa.


Those were excerpts .. however, the whole text suggests to say that he contacted you on Monday saying it's been 3 weeks with no contact .. then you say you haven't heard from him since .. uuuummmmmm, lv24, you were suppose to respond .. you say you STILL haven't heard from him and you're ok with it ... he contacted YOU, YOU were suppose to make next contact, NOT him.

It would be "nice", if you told HIM that the two of you aren't going to make it, instead of me, instead of ignoring him.

Anyway, be that as it may .. you are you, and I am me .. how you handle yourself is not up to me. I hope that this man, nor me, has turned you away from Pisces .. there are some good ones out there. 🙂

No let me clarify...

sorry..

I was just simply telling you that its been 3 weeks with no contact, that wasnt actually in his text.

I did respond, I just wasnt going to go into detail I was just simply telling you that he made contact....

Guy: After much time n thought, i would like to apologize for being so cold with you. I have such a short fuse following my last relationship n its not good for me. Hope that makes sense.

Me: Thank you for the apology.

I wanted to write more but I confided in my girlfriend and she said to just say thank you....he wasnt trying to talk about things it seemed like he wanted to apologize for the situation and that be the end. I did respond though i just made it short and sweet...lol! I figured if it was a conversation he was looking for then he would have take my short and sweet message and continued the conversation with a response but he didnt so i left it alone...since my response i havent heard from him and now I am fine with it. It has been three weeks so I basically adjusted and know what its like to be without. Its like breaking a habit, give it 30days with no contact of the habit and you are so close to recovery...🙂I know it would have been easier to continue the text message conversation if i would have wrote more but i was scared and plus my girlfriend insisted that i not do that....

plus in the original argument he insisted that i never phone him or make any contact with him again so i have to respect that even with his apology. his apology wasnt an invitaion to reunite it was simple what it was an apology...at least that how i see it.

he's a pisces and when we send messages to people, especially people that we were involved with, we will try to read you through your response. now its hard to read anyones tone through a text message but a pisces will try just the same. Im a pisces and have done it loads of times.

Now, he probably isnt going to say anything else because your message would imply that you're done with him. it probably hurt his feelings. if you feel that he isnt the guy for you, then by all means, you did the right thing. but if you want him back, you should say something a tad more than that.

or... i could pay attention to who you wrote this message to and mind my own business lol sorry, just felt like butting in i guess.

I'm a firm believer that there is no such thing as a failed relationship, IF what you take away with you are the memories of what was shared with joy, with happiness.

More often than not, people (including myself) lose thier way in remembering that when the end comes .. the only thing you really have left are your memories .. snapshots in your mind of what was .. I want to be smiling when I think back to my life and my legacy .. don't you?

Perhaps, this didn't work out .. that's ok, because it was an experience to be remembered, to grow from. We're spirits, souls .. having a physical experience.

Not everybody is perfect for everybody .. but, everybody is perfect for somebody.
I hope you find your somebody, lv24 🙂

well said P... well said indeed. my philosophy is : beginnings are scary, endings are usually sad but it's the middle that counts. You need to remember that when you find yourself at the beginning again, or remembering the end.

Love is in the air!!!!!!! Oh gosh, im grossing myself out.

"he's a pisces and when we send messages to people, especially people that we were involved with, we will try to read you through your response. now its hard to read anyones tone through a text message but a pisces will try just the same. Im a pisces and have done it loads of times.

Now, he probably isnt going to say anything else because your message would imply that you're done with him. it probably hurt his feelings. if you feel that he isnt the guy for you, then by all means, you did the right thing. but if you want him back, you should say something a tad more than that."

I TOTALLY AGREE BUT MY PISCES GIRLFRIEND SAID NOT TO SAY MORE THAN THAT!!!! I DONT EVER WIN!!! LOL! I am not done with him at heart but I just dont think he wants the same things that I do therefore I have chosen to let him swim away 😢 I cant force someone to love me and at this point I have fallen in love with him and I dont think he feels the same way. I know it would come in due time but I just dont think he would allow himself. He is obviously still tramatized from his last relationship, he said so in his text at least that what i got from it....he needs healing time as i did when i came out of my 5 year relationship...the pressure of my love for him would be too strong and force him to run and hide...i dont want to deal with that rejection from someone i love...dealt with it for 5 years cant do it anymore....sounds selfish but thats ok my 5 year relationship was all about my significant other and now this is my time. I gave my 5 year relationship all i had and it ended with me finding him in bed with another...if my pisces cant see that i love him and that i am not out to hurt then there is nothing more i can do. i put a lot of effort in showing my love for him its his turn.

on another note: HAPPY FRIDAY LADIES!!!!!!!!!!

OFF THE SUBJECT BUT I FIND THIS FUNNY! I AM TURNING 26 NEXT WEEK AND I WOKE UP THIS MORNING AND FOUND A GRAY HAIR! LOL! ITS HAPPENING! IM GETTING OLD!! LOL!

as long as you dont find one "in that area" you're never truly old. it's got plenty of use in it yet lol im nasty i know i know.

your pisces friend probably told you that so you wouldnt seem desperate. we always give our friends the advice that we, ourselves wouldnt even take. but hey, que ser? ser? kid. you'll see.

Happy 26th, and dont forget, no grey hair in the area that counts means plenty of party time left.

p-angel,

aside from our last encounter, which was the night of his birthday party all i remember was good memories....

the best i ever had actually...my 5 year doesnt even compare....my 5 year gave me nothing but heartache and thats why i think i fell for him so hard because he showed me that i was able to love again...good memories. he taught me how to horse back ride and play foosball...lol! we bacame foosball champions of the group! lol! He taught me so much more than that in a short time which i am sure you dont care to hear about...the point is that we had good times. he showed me that there was so much more than just partying and drinking which is all my ex did. Anyhow maybe i dont love him who knows...i dont know anymore, i just know i enjoyed the time spent together..

"Happy 26th, and dont forget, no grey hair in the area that counts means plenty of party time left."

LMAO!!!!!!!!! THANKS!!!

She probably did tell me that so that I dont look desperate...damn her!!!! lol! She knows how much i care for him and i am sure she is just looking out for me. Oh well! I am sure i will see him around. He is a close friend to my girlfriends brother and i am like family to her so i am sure in due time i will see him.

"Oh gosh, im grossing myself out."

lol, all that mushy stuff?


That's nothing lv24 .. wait til the day you find a gray pubie, or, like me .. my eyebrows are gray .. sucks !!!!!!!

I mean I can shave my twat .. so, what? Walk around with no brows?

Gotta have eyebrows .. pluck, pluck, pluck away .. then I'm left with like 3 dark hairs on each side .. look like a retarded jack o'lantern on my forehead.

OMG!!!! THAT IS HILLARIOUS! Ok i will deal with my one gray hair and enjoy the fact that its only one.

wow... grey eyebrows... im so not looking forward to that. oh gosh thats so scary. sorry P... sorry... nothing against you and your eyebrows or anything. it's just i'd look incredibly stupid with grey eyebrows. but im sure yours look fantastic. im sorry, im really not trying to offend you.