is this pisces man interested in me or not?

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I'm an aries with pisces rising. This pisces guy i know sends me mixed signals. He stares at me a lot in class and when we make eye contact he just holds it even when i look way and look back again (i'm a bit shy). He was also looking when i was talking to the guy sitting next to me. He has also been nice towards me so he calmed me down, asked if i felt better and answered a question for me (didn't answer it for other members of group). So i throught i would return the favor and i texted him first two times and reminded him of due dates (he said he was forgetful) i messaged him first for the third time to tell him i have the textbook he wants and we ended up having a long conversation ( he replied in long paragraphs) and i asked him whenever he is free i will give him the textbook and if he wants we can hang out a bit afterwards. He said he will message tuesday but tuesday came and he texted and said that he had pulled an all nighter for his exam and he would grab the book off me on thursday. I said he should rest and i cant on thursday cause got other plans. He didn't open the message and its been a week i havent heard of him. Whenever i message he always replies within max of 4 mins. So i dont understand what happened.

We have teased each other and i noticed that he laughs or at least smiles whenever i make silly jokes. When i compliment him he will just turn quiet and smile to himself.

I wonder why he hasnt messaged yet so we can hang out :/
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Because he's not into you.

Pisces guys love to do all sorts of shit purely for reactions.

I'm also an Aries with Pisces rising and I'm telling you, Pisces isn't a good match for us. You're obviously crushing on this guy because you're doing the typical that people with crushes do- look for anything that gives away that the other person is into you.

Stop chasing after a guy who isn't into you. You won't get anywhere. Especially with ones like this- they'll jerk you around and play with you because it gets their ego off. They have no intention of doing anything with you, just validate that they have some sort of worth because they're desirable.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Because he's not into you.

Pisces guys love to do all sorts of shit purely for reactions.

I'm also an Aries with Pisces rising and I'm telling you, Pisces isn't a good match for us. You're obviously crushing on this guy because you're doing the typical that people with crushes do- look for anything that gives away that the other person is into you.

Stop chasing after a guy who isn't into you. You won't get anywhere. Especially with ones like this- they'll jerk you around and play with you because it gets their ego off. They have no intention of doing anything with you, just validate that they have some sort of worth because they're desirable.
you are absolutely right. I don't know why i even asked him to hangout lol i feel so stupid. when we were texting he seemed really into me but i should have known better :/ thank you though
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Because he's not into you.

Pisces guys love to do all sorts of shit purely for reactions.

I'm also an Aries with Pisces rising and I'm telling you, Pisces isn't a good match for us. You're obviously crushing on this guy because you're doing the typical that people with crushes do- look for anything that gives away that the other person is into you.

Stop chasing after a guy who isn't into you. You won't get anywhere. Especially with ones like this- they'll jerk you around and play with you because it gets their ego off. They have no intention of doing anything with you, just validate that they have some sort of worth because they're desirable.

Agreed
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I can pull down my menu and read messages without actually opening them. Just saying he could have seen it. Maybe he felt rejection about Thursday and didn't reply? Maybe you're both too shy to assert your stance. I'd keep up whatever you're doing in class and warm up to each other on a friendly level and whatever happens happens. I'm not a pisces though so I can't speak for them. Just giving my two cents moreso on the message.
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Posted by Jayceon
Wouldn't call it mixed signals more like checking your temperature ( feeling your energy). As a Pisces man I do this with everyone I come across. They dub it as I'm quiet but in reality I'm observing how they are. Back to the topic he's feeling your energy to see whether or not he likes or not.


hmm ok fair enough. what do you think the appropriate thing to do would be? i will see him soon in class so was just thinking if i ever get the chance to speak to him i'll ask how he is (should i bring the topic of the book up?) and how his easter break was if not, i'll just give him a friendly smile from afar just like i do normally with everyone.
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Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
I can pull down my menu and read messages without actually opening them. Just saying he could have seen it. Maybe he felt rejection about Thursday and didn't reply? Maybe you're both too shy to assert your stance. I'd keep up whatever you're doing in class and warm up to each other on a friendly level and whatever happens happens. I'm not a pisces though so I can't speak for them. Just giving my two cents moreso on the message.
i doubt he would feel rejected cause i'm pretty sure he saw the birthday messages posted on my facebook wall on thursday. my response was "i have class from 1-4 on thursday and a 21st to attend (was talking about my own but didnt wanna state it specifically)"

that's true i will just try and speak with him in class and just be friendly and normal. after all, my intention of asking him to hang out was to get to know him as a friend 🙂

and your advice is greatly appreciated. thank you 🙂
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Despite what any textbook says Pisces men like to lead.

Wait for him to ask you out, they don't like women making all the plans. They really are manly men especially the March Pisces. They also get jealous very easily with the woman they like. When you stated you had "other plans" you probably made him feel unimportant.

I've been knowing a Pisces a few months, dating a month and they are really great men once they like you. Very considerate, playful, gentleman, possessive (good way), funny, talkative and supportive. Pisces man and Aries woman terrific match.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Because he's not into you.

Pisces guys love to do all sorts of shit purely for reactions.

I'm also an Aries with Pisces rising and I'm telling you, Pisces isn't a good match for us. You're obviously crushing on this guy because you're doing the typical that people with crushes do- look for anything that gives away that the other person is into you.

Stop chasing after a guy who isn't into you. You won't get anywhere. Especially with ones like this- they'll jerk you around and play with you because it gets their ego off. They have no intention of doing anything with you, just validate that they have some sort of worth because they're desirable.
you are absolutely right. I don't know why i even asked him to hangout lol i feel so stupid. when we were texting he seemed really into me but i should have known better :/ thank you though
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He likes you but you have to let him take the lead. Pisces men like a little challenge. They want to feel like a man. You calling all the shots is not making him feel like a man. Trust me

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Because he's not into you.

Pisces guys love to do all sorts of shit purely for reactions.

I'm also an Aries with Pisces rising and I'm telling you, Pisces isn't a good match for us. You're obviously crushing on this guy because you're doing the typical that people with crushes do- look for anything that gives away that the other person is into you.

Stop chasing after a guy who isn't into you. You won't get anywhere. Especially with ones like this- they'll jerk you around and play with you because it gets their ego off. They have no intention of doing anything with you, just validate that they have some sort of worth because they're desirable.
you are absolutely right. I don't know why i even asked him to hangout lol i feel so stupid. when we were texting he seemed really into me but i should have known better :/ thank you though
He likes you but you have to let him take the lead. Pisces men like a little challenge. They want to feel like a man. You calling all the shots is not making him feel like a man. Trust me

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😢 i mean i told him to message me whenever he is free so he could have made the plan. and its not like i planned a date or anything. i was trying to be very casual

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Posted by Aries03
Despite what any textbook says Pisces men like to lead.

Wait for him to ask you out, they don't like women making all the plans. They really are manly men especially the March Pisces. They also get jealous very easily with the woman they like. When you stated you had "other plans" you probably made him feel unimportant.

I've been knowing a Pisces a few months, dating a month and they are really great men once they like you. Very considerate, playful, gentleman, possessive (good way), funny, talkative and supportive. Pisces man and Aries woman terrific match.
ah but i told him i'm free everyday except thursday, he might have misunderstood me or something. and thursday was my birthday (even thought i didnt tell him it was, just told him i have a class then a bday to go to) so i was gonna be out all day. and im pretty sure he saw all the birthday messages on my facebook wall on thursday
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Because he's not into you.

Pisces guys love to do all sorts of shit purely for reactions.

I'm also an Aries with Pisces rising and I'm telling you, Pisces isn't a good match for us. You're obviously crushing on this guy because you're doing the typical that people with crushes do- look for anything that gives away that the other person is into you.

Stop chasing after a guy who isn't into you. You won't get anywhere. Especially with ones like this- they'll jerk you around and play with you because it gets their ego off. They have no intention of doing anything with you, just validate that they have some sort of worth because they're desirable.
you are absolutely right. I don't know why i even asked him to hangout lol i feel so stupid. when we were texting he seemed really into me but i should have known better :/ thank you though
He likes you but you have to let him take the lead. Pisces men like a little challenge. They want to feel like a man. You calling all the shots is not making him feel like a man. Trust me





😢 i mean i told him to message me whenever he is free so he could have made the plan. and its not like i planned a date or anything. i was trying to be very casual

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Yes you are making all the decisions. He has your number he will message you when he wants to hang out. Trust me

They observe first, get to know your personality. Your personality is the most important thing to them then your looks. Be his friend, have conversations, laugh and talk when you around each other.

But I warn you, when a Pisces man wants you they go from 0-100 in a day. They will want to talk and see you everyday.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Because he's not into you.

Pisces guys love to do all sorts of shit purely for reactions.

I'm also an Aries with Pisces rising and I'm telling you, Pisces isn't a good match for us. You're obviously crushing on this guy because you're doing the typical that people with crushes do- look for anything that gives away that the other person is into you.

Stop chasing after a guy who isn't into you. You won't get anywhere. Especially with ones like this- they'll jerk you around and play with you because it gets their ego off. They have no intention of doing anything with you, just validate that they have some sort of worth because they're desirable.


you are absolutely right. I don't know why i even asked him to hangout lol i feel so stupid. when we were texting he seemed really into me but i should have known better :/ thank you though
He likes you but you have to let him take the lead. Pisces men like a little challenge. They want to feel like a man. You calling all the shots is not making him feel like a man. Trust me





😢 i mean i told him to message me whenever he is free so he could have made the plan. and its not like i planned a date or anything. i was trying to be very casual



Yes you are making all the decisions. He has your number he will message you when he wants to hang out. Trust me

They observe first, get to know your personality. Your personality is the most important thing to them then your looks. Be his friend, have conversations, laugh and talk when you around each other.

But I warn you, when a Pisces man wants you they go from 0-100 in a day. They will want to talk and see you everyday.

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ah see thats the thing, we rarely get to talk during class, and i do not see him anywhere esle besides class thats why i took the initiative. when he showed he cared i got very genuinely interested to get to know him so i was eager to talk to him about something else besides college and studying. should i try and talk to him in class now? or would that be too much again?
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Because he's not into you.

Pisces guys love to do all sorts of shit purely for reactions.

I'm also an Aries with Pisces rising and I'm telling you, Pisces isn't a good match for us. You're obviously crushing on this guy because you're doing the typical that people with crushes do- look for anything that gives away that the other person is into you.

Stop chasing after a guy who isn't into you. You won't get anywhere. Especially with ones like this- they'll jerk you around and play with you because it gets their ego off. They have no intention of doing anything with you, just validate that they have some sort of worth because they're desirable.


you are absolutely right. I don't know why i even asked him to hangout lol i feel so stupid. when we were texting he seemed really into me but i should have known better :/ thank you though
He likes you but you have to let him take the lead. Pisces men like a little challenge. They want to feel like a man. You calling all the shots is not making him feel like a man. Trust me





😢 i mean i told him to message me whenever he is free so he could have made the plan. and its not like i planned a date or anything. i was trying to be very casual



Yes you are making all the decisions. He has your number he will message you when he wants to hang out. Trust me

They observe first, get to know your personality. Your personality is the most important thing to them then your looks. Be his friend, have conversations, laugh and talk when you around each other.

But I warn you, when a Pisces man wants you they go from 0-100 in a day. They will want to talk and see you everyday.


ah see thats the thing, we rarely get to talk during class, and i do not see him anywhere esle besides class thats why i took the initiative. when he showed he cared i got very genuinely interested to get to know him so i was eager to talk to him about something else besides college and studying. should i try and talk to him in class now? or would that be too much again?

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Just be his friend for a little bit. They also like helping women and being supportive. If you want him to ask you out, talk about something you like to do. Don't ask him out just bring up your hobby.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Because he's not into you.

Pisces guys love to do all sorts of shit purely for reactions.

I'm also an Aries with Pisces rising and I'm telling you, Pisces isn't a good match for us. You're obviously crushing on this guy because you're doing the typical that people with crushes do- look for anything that gives away that the other person is into you.

Stop chasing after a guy who isn't into you. You won't get anywhere. Especially with ones like this- they'll jerk you around and play with you because it gets their ego off. They have no intention of doing anything with you, just validate that they have some sort of worth because they're desirable.


you are absolutely right. I don't know why i even asked him to hangout lol i feel so stupid. when we were texting he seemed really into me but i should have known better :/ thank you though
He likes you but you have to let him take the lead. Pisces men like a little challenge. They want to feel like a man. You calling all the shots is not making him feel like a man. Trust me





😢 i mean i told him to message me whenever he is free so he could have made the plan. and its not like i planned a date or anything. i was trying to be very casual



Yes you are making all the decisions. He has your number he will message you when he wants to hang out. Trust me

They observe first, get to know your personality. Your personality is the most important thing to them then your looks. Be his friend, have conversations, laugh and talk when you around each other.

But I warn you, when a Pisces man wants you they go from 0-100 in a day. They will want to talk and see you everyday.


ah see thats the thing, we rarely get to talk during class, and i do not see him anywhere esle besides class thats why i took the initiative. when he showed he cared i got very genuinely interested to get to know him so i was eager to talk to him about something else besides college and studying. should i try and talk to him in class now? or would that be too much again?


Just be his friend for a little bit. They also like helping women and being supportive. If you want him to ask you out, talk about something you like to do. Don't ask him out just bring up your hobby.

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will do. thanks a lot for your advice 🙂