Do Virgo men get jealous if they like you?

So heres the deal, I started seeing this virgo. We agreed to keep it light and see what happens. I ended up becoming pr
So heres the deal,
I started seeing this virgo. We agreed to keep it light and see what happens. I ended up becoming pretty cool with his friend. I'm just a guys girl (in a good way). But one of his other friends hit on me and it made me uncomfortable...and I told him that. He told me not to worry about it. Then his other friend (the one I am cool with) invites me to a party...but he said my virgo wouldnt be there. I told him I didn't know If I would come (mostly because I would feel weird going without my virgo being there)....

So heres where it gets kinda strange:
I text my virgo and asked him why he wasn't going to the party and he gave me some lame excuses. He kept saying...You should go..you should go you will have fun. Almost as though he kept pushing it to see what I'd do. I told him I didn't want to go if he wasn't going to be there. And that I didn't want any of his friends hitting on me. Then he kind of flips out and says ...Well you're single right!? so why can't they hit on u?. I was pissed he even said that and told him I would obviously not appreciate advances from his friends just like I hope he would rebuff any advances from mine (god forbit the situation ever arose) and I told him it was because I have respect for him at least. I think he kind of felt stupid after that but he was acting really jealous and said, why would you even be around my friends? why do you even talk to them???? and its odd to me considering HE was the one pushing me to go to the party. He was acting strange...

So finally. I just said to him that "I'm going to the party I dont know why you are acting strange toward me but you can trust me and you need to relax"
and I left him alone.


SO what the HELL?? can someone help me?

*** Sorry I mean't to type I am NOT going to the party ****
female from Hollywood, FL, U.S.A.
Doesn't come across to me as if she was intentionally trying to make him jealous. Sounds like he knew his friends were flirting with her and he took offense to it and was taking his anger out on her about the whole situation. Maybe, he's the one that's insecure and immature.
female from Hollywood, FL, U.S.A.
And if you guys can't sit down and talk about it like adults (the situation, how he felt about it and if he feels something for you) than leave him be and move on. He is not the only Virgo in the world that you will come across and might appeal to you.
56 years old male from The Deep South
" .......... DyarStra?e / dyrstr8z .......... Middle-aged V

Sounds like a bunch of high school horsebutter to me...

Virgo Men aren't naturally jealous - we have to be made that way through goading... Too much of it, and we'll be gone.

I'm just a guys girl (in a good way).

Well, IMHO, you're not a Virgo Guy's Girl. We don't play that way.

Are you a GEM or a SAG??
35 years old female
I'm not a Virgo sun, but I've got a Virgo rising. I have to admit I've done this kind of goading before...its only because I wanted to get to an answer...to test what that person would do. I don't think this is sneaky, I think it just brings to the surface what was there all along. Also it allows me to form a better picture of who that person is...his character, values, etc..quicker. Otherwise I would never know and never be sure of who he is...

Its not insecurity, its just a method I use to understand others...if you evade the question or are indirect in your answer, it would make me more curious and ultimately suspicious about why you are not comfortable being tested...
No, I didn't mean to make him jealous because he never struck me as the type to get jealous. I was hoping he would say something to his friend in my defense along the lines of "that makes her uncomfortable" or "even if your joking, just chill with that type of stuff" .....I don't know. I'm not really into making guys jealous because it backfires on you anyway. Besides I care for him and think that would be an immature way to handle things.

And when I say I'm a guys girl, even though I am feminine, I am tomboy too and very easy going. I have a lot of PLATONIC male friends.

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