Scorpio Woman/Libra Male=HELP!

Helloooo! New to the board. Came here in search of some answer's to the mystery that is a Libra man. As a Scorpio, I find that libra's and I are very attracted to one another. But gosh is it hard to actually have a relationship together! My last boyfriend was a libra. I swore them off after we broke up. And then didnt another Libra saunter into my life again, only to confuse me again, sigh. So here are my questions.

1.) Scorpio females and a Libra male. Can it work? What are the plusses? What are the minuses?

2.) Libra men make me feel bad about being an emotional Scorpio. Yes, I have emotional outbursts sometimes. Libra men hate them, and I think it scares them away. But for crying out loud, cant you accept someone for who they are as I try and be a better person?

3.) Why so attentive and charming in the beginning. And then when I do start to show that I like you, you back off. What does it take to get and keep a Libra man interested?

I really do like Libra's. They are fun. They seem so adaptable, but I know better. They are the iron hand in the soft velvet glove. It drives me nuts. Any help would be appreciated, thanks!