Sitting on a guys lap?

female from UK
"well what can i say i am an 18 year old female and i find the whole concept of
Is sitting on a guys lap considered an intimate thing to do? or just something to be taken lightly? girls have you ever done platonic lap sitting? or there is no such thing? and guys why do you like it when a girl sits on your lap and can it just be platonic? thanks
27 years old male
Answer this, would you let a random chick or your boyfriend female friend sit on his lap?
female from UK
"well what can i say i am an 18 year old female and i find the whole concept of
no i guess not, would want to smack that girl haha, but assuming that both you and the guy were single
57 years old female
single/taken .... no difference.

The principal here isn't contingient on status. If you think it wrong for a chick to sit on your mans lap .. then the principal here is that you think its a wrong thing for a woman to do .. whether or not this man is taken isn't a part of the equation.
57 years old female
Probably, what this boils down to is this ...

.. you sat on a mans lap and caught grief for it .. now, you want to find justifiable reason for sitting somewhere you shouldn't have, so you won't have to feel any guilt.

Sorry ... principal applies, regardless ......
female from California, US

It depends how you look at.

I, personally, only sit on my significant others lap.

My reason is that lighthearted a gesture as it may seem... well have you ever had someone sit on
your lap? You can feel their ass and even their butt crack! Tell me that won't put a dirty thought
in your friends head?! LoL
female from California, US

Ok to put it short, I don't think it's platonic. It's flirty.

I sure as hell would not appreciate another females ass on my
bf's lap!

a Libra friend did that. it was flirty and sexy.
if its your man then you're the one who should be doing it.
female from the abyss of confusion
If you caught grief over it, it was well deserved. Sorry, not unless you've got a thing for the guy and he's not taken - you're still walking on thin ice if he doesn't appreciate it though, not to mention how it looks to others!
Popcorn is best for these kinds of occasions. Carry on folks =)
Personally, I consider sitting on someone's lap moreso an intimate thing. Here's why...of all the chairs & things to sit on in the world, why chose that person's lap? Sitting on someone's lap represents comfort & closeness. It's also another way to flirt or be territorial. The reason alot of women sit on their boyfriends laps is b/c it represents a small form of intimacy & closeness b/w the 2 of them. And when you see a woman sitting on a male friend's lap, it represents the same thing, regardless of whether or not the title is there. Depending on the circumstances & depending on what the person sitting on their lap means to them, can decide if the whole "lap" thing should be taken lightly. If I walked up & saw a friend or some stranger sitting on my man's lap, I'd be offended b/c of what sitting on his lap could and probably DOES mean. It'd be a direct implication of disrespect, 1. b/c the woman is sitting on his "manhood" & possibly activating the part in him sexually that only I, as HIS woman should have access to. But it all depends on the person, the relationship/friendship & the circumstances. The whole "lap" thing is no different than giving men hickeys. To some, it represents being territorial over the person you already have OR want. To others, it's just a harmless sign that fun has or WILL take place.
57 years old female
"The whole "lap" thing is no different than giving men hickeys."

Sitting on laps is the same as sucking on someone's neck?

57 years old female
I guess then ... looking deep into their eyes is the same as sucking his dick.
34 years old female from seattle, USA
"Ascendant: Aquarius Sun: Leo Moon: Virgo Mercury: virgo Venus: Le
depends. i have male friends, some with girlfriends/boyfriends, whose lap i've sat upon in a purely platonic way. some of them are more naturally flirty than others. the girlfriends/boyfriends already know of it so it's not a big deal. would i be ok with some girl sitting on my guy's lap? depends on the girl and the relationship. some random chick in a bar would make me uncomfortable. however, i know that he isn't the type to allow that to happen anyway. he's not a PDA phobe but he's not really into it either.
27 years old male
^Would it still be platonic is two guys were sitting on each others laps?
More pages:

Recent Topics

Do you have one currently? In the past?
Prideful and stubborn, but loyal and loving LEO woman here, and I swear I only attract Capricorn men. My first love was a Cap, and now this one... So many things have transpired since we began dealing with each other 6 years ago. In short, we had a goo
Will a Taurus man want to have 3somes with his woman on multiple occasions? Will a Taurus man want to watch his woman have sex with another woman while she is wearing a strap-on? Will a Taurus man want his woman to participate in these 3somes with
I was inspired to make a best post of the day thread by one of rabbit???s comments. Actually no, that sounds misleading
LEOS damn man.... they're like sunshine on a rainy day.
Please share any knowledge you've read or experienced about Cancer ascendant. :) My rising sign is Cancer and it's interesting because the older I get, the more I see a water sign influence in my lifestyle. I am obsessed with meticulously creating a c
Have you done it? Did you feel lonely? Where did you go? I'm thinking about doing this but I don't know if I would end up feeling lonely especially sitting eating by myself in a restaurant.
Let's get the ball a rolling with a few of my choice selections:
I think I'm more like a Capricorn tbh.
Post quotes, book ideas, videos with interviews, stories from their life, everything you want and is fit for this topic.
Well, I've decided to watch this season. I didn't watch 4 or 5. But, I like season 6 so far. Last night's episode was a pleasant twist. Don't get me wrong, this doesn't touch season 2 and 3, which were awesome. But it is better than 5 and way bette