Lurking. Judging. ...I really should finish my reports.
26 years old male from Big City
In the initial stages, a little. I prioritize dates with the person if I'm interested. Easier to see if I'm really interested in them or if they'll be waste of time. Want to see them at a consistent rate to weed out the base personality beyond the front they're putting on as a date.
Once I think it's solid and it's getting serious, the person then has to adjust to the idea that I have a life and friends that will usually take precedence.