Meeting someone for the first time

How do you guys handle those anxiety? What did you do when you suddenly panic, the moment you're about to meet that person? I am creating this thread because most of my Gemini gfs, will called me up the moment they are about to face their dates. It
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How do you guys handle those anxiety?

What did you do when you suddenly panic, the moment you're about to meet that person?

I am creating this thread because most of my Gemini gfs, will called me up the moment they are about to face their dates. It's funny because I used to do that too.

This is why I hate to do blind dates. It just makes me go crazy!

The other day, when I had to meet my Sag, I have no one to call, so I act like I was pissed because of the long flight. It works amazingly.
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Posted by norelationshipgoals
I clean my apartment and make sure I have condoms


I see.

Which brand? I bet you use Durex? Ok no, Trojan?
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I haz sag mars and I only get nervous after several dates. As in- once I'm starting to see a future and invested. Other than that no sweat
2017 years old male
Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
First I never go on blind dates. Second I think to myself, "Is this person worth dating?" I treat dates as a way to silently qualify/disqualify a person for another date. When you feel like the interviewer and not the interviewee, you feel less nervous and more confident. This confidence (not arrogance) will show in your actions during the date which will make the date easier.

I also put time into my dates to make them as fun as possible. So if I'm going to go on a second date, I want to be sure it's worth my while.
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Posted by wagtail
I haz sag mars and I only get nervous after several dates. As in- once I'm starting to see a future and invested. Other than that no sweat


Damn! That's awesome.

I am always nervous over the first meet up and this is why I seldom do those blind dates.

With Sag, all of my ex sags even, they were the easiest because they makes me feel comfortable after saying hi.

I am no longer nervous once I'm starting to see a future tho'. In fact, I like once we've reached that part.

Lol, it is so opposite for you and me.
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Posted by Chuckcem
First I never go on blind dates. Second I think to myself, "Is this person worth dating?" I treat dates as a way to silently qualify/disqualify a person for another date. When you feel like the interviewer and not the interviewee, you feel less nervous and more confident. This confidence (not arrogance) will show in your actions during the date which will make the date easier.

I also put time into my dates to make them as fun as possible. So if I'm going to go on a second date, I want to be sure it's worth my while.


Awww, that's nice.

So what did you normally do, to make it all fun? Share some with me.
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Posted by norelationshipgoals
Posted by Senorita_LL
Posted by norelationshipgoals
I clean my apartment and make sure I have condoms


I see.

Which brand? I bet you use Durex? Ok no, Trojan?


I had this brand named bliss but I just bought them out of novelty

They had numbers for every pack of 4... 1234 on each one

I didn't go by order coz it was dark so I have condoms number 2 and 3 now 😐
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I guess the number 4 that you've used, the sex must be awful!
2017 years old male
Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
Posted by Senorita_LL
Posted by Chuckcem
First I never go on blind dates. Second I think to myself, "Is this person worth dating?" I treat dates as a way to silently qualify/disqualify a person for another date. When you feel like the interviewer and not the interviewee, you feel less nervous and more confident. This confidence (not arrogance) will show in your actions during the date which will make the date easier.

I also put time into my dates to make them as fun as possible. So if I'm going to go on a second date, I want to be sure it's worth my while.


Awww, that's nice.

So what did you normally do, to make it all fun? Share some with me.
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I can't give away all of the secrets, but I always do multi-stage dates. I generally incorporate at least 3 steps/locations on the date (food, drinks, sightseeing, physical activity, etc). The first date is generic, with each consecutive becomes more personalized based on what I learn about the person.

The "generic" date is never too classy, but not too casual either. Meaning if the lady dresses up, she won't feel out of place, but she can dress comfortably as well. In that way I create the vibe that I'm both spontaneous and considerate. From there based on her personality, I gauge what activities might make the most sense throughout the night. I never do movies, concerts, clubs, or any other location that's hard to hear on a first date either.
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I love to smile. I'm a happy little treetrunker
Posted by Chuckcem
Posted by Senorita_LL
Posted by Chuckcem
First I never go on blind dates. Second I think to myself, "Is this person worth dating?" I treat dates as a way to silently qualify/disqualify a person for another date. When you feel like the interviewer and not the interviewee, you feel less nervous and more confident. This confidence (not arrogance) will show in your actions during the date which will make the date easier.

I also put time into my dates to make them as fun as possible. So if I'm going to go on a second date, I want to be sure it's worth my while.


Awww, that's nice.

So what did you normally do, to make it all fun? Share some with me.


I can't give away all of the secrets, but I always do multi-stage dates. I generally incorporate at least 3 steps/locations on the date (food, drinks, sightseeing, physical activity, etc). The first date is generic, with each consecutive becomes more personalized based on what I learn about the person.

The "generic" date is never too classy, but not too casual either. Meaning if the lady dresses up, she won't feel out of place, but she can dress comfortably as well. In that way I create the vibe that I'm both spontaneous and considerate. From there based on her personality, I gauge what activities might make the most sense throughout the night. I never do movies, concerts, clubs, or any other location that's hard to hear on a first date either.
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Honestly, I like that.

My first date with Sag, we spend our time at his apartment, drinking hot cocoa and talks about how butterty that he has to stay thousand of miles away from me.
Posted by norelationshipgoals
I clean my apartment and make sure I have condoms


You invite them over to your apartment for the first date?
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Posted by Rindaroo
Well you know how to put the pressure on - 6 months talking & flying to another country lol. That would be nerve wracking!

I really don't like the interviewer/interviewee type of dates. I just like to go do something fun together lol. You can tell a lot about a person that way. πŸ˜‰ But then that makes it less pressure too!!

My Cap gets that in big ways 🀣 He loves to travel and just enjoy ( I think he's part Sag lol). We got back together and 2 days later he says. Let's plan another trip!!! a big one is planned in Feb & last week we went camping & Crabbing at the coast for 3 days! It was a new experience for both of us! He loves adventures 😍😍 It's all about the fun! 🀣🀣


Well, I am crazy when it comes to love. I am not the type that falls easily, but once I do, I am crazy like that.

I agree with you tho'. I'd prefer the fun adventure types of dates. Just fly high together!

Grrr!
Im going on another date tomm πŸ˜‚ idk his sign and so nervous too

idk what to do to calm my nerves. idk if i can even show up 😧😧😧
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Posted by nightowl
Im going on another date tomm πŸ˜‚ idk his sign and so nervous too

idk what to do to calm my nerves. idk if i can even show up 😧😧😧


Haha! Pop a xanax?

Oi! You better show up! Don't do that thing. That's not nice.
Posted by wagtail
I haz sag mars and I only get nervous after several dates. As in- once I'm starting to see a future and invested. Other than that no sweat


Same!
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I love to smile. I'm a happy little treetrunker
Posted by jane84
Posted by wagtail
I haz sag mars and I only get nervous after several dates. As in- once I'm starting to see a future and invested. Other than that no sweat


Same!
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