Sabotaging all relationships ๐Ÿ’‹๐ŸŒทโค๏ธ๐Ÿน

Why would a person sabotage all successful romantic relationships.๐ŸŒทโค๏ธ๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿน
i have sabotaged all my relationships successfully
i never give relationships any chances at the beginning and then i get treetrunking entangled in them and i want out and be free and when i am out and free i realize i was happier in, but its too late and i live all this in my mind and it will happen eventually

a self-fulfilling prophecy
Posted by Sagiluv27
Why would a person sabotage all successful romantic relationships.๐ŸŒทโค๏ธ๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿน


fear of being abandoned which paradoxically can turn one into an abusive partner, who will repeat the same patterns of abuse in every relationship. when love/ romance becomes distorted by feelings of insecurity and fear of abandonment, one can become emotionally abusive (i love this word). and since things will only deteriorate from that moment on, better break up while still lingering feelings rather than watch it turn to butter in front of your eyes

all things must pass



female
Posted by heliumfiasco
I do it every time. No clue why. Currently working on that.


only you know why...
female
Posted by Sagiluv27
Why would a person sabotage all successful romantic relationships.๐ŸŒทโค๏ธ๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿน


They don't want anything serious or to be married?
male from King Of December
"Most people strive to achieve balance within themselves. In terms of positive
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Define successful?



Peaceful
Loving
Respectful
Loyal
Long lasting


Because they self sabotage.


& why's that?


Easy. They're running from something and most likely they're running from who they are.

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Let me clarify.

From what Iโ€™ve seen and Iโ€™ve been close to several people who do this. Usually they get involved with others as a form of escapism. Usually itโ€™s from pain...of having to deal with it or the potential of it happening. The former usually points to a long series of traumatic experiences stemming from a series of events going back as far as their childhood. In every person Iโ€™ve known, there were issues with either one or more parents. Dad was a cheating abuser who hit mom...or name your situation. They never learned how to actually heal the trauma. Usually they get involved with people who are basically the same. They instinctively know it wonโ€™t work, but theyโ€™re so use to being in that comfort zone that they repeat the same pattern. But moreso, their inner child is also trying to attempt to fix the original problem by getting involved in toxic situations in order to prove that theyโ€™re worthy of love but the same pain ends up reoccurring because it is the same type of person that caused the original trauma. Then they meet the person that is good to them and gives them the opportunity to actually learn from the original trauma...but because they are so full of fear and have locked their inner child up so tight...they sabotage it and run.

32 years old female
Sun Libra 12th. Moon Gemini 8th. Mercury Libra 12th. Venus/Mars Virgo 11th.
also, Its actually the last thing I want to do. I just do it.
32 years old female
Sun Libra 12th. Moon Gemini 8th. Mercury Libra 12th. Venus/Mars Virgo 11th.
I do it every time. No clue why. Currently working on that.
male from King Of December
"Most people strive to achieve balance within themselves. In terms of positive
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by nikkistar
Define successful?



Peaceful
Loving
Respectful
Loyal
Long lasting


Because they self sabotage.


& why's that?
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Easy. They're running from something and most likely they're running from who they are.

Aphrodite the Scorpionic Libran Women Hater
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by nikkistar
Define successful?



Peaceful
Loving
Respectful
Loyal
Long lasting


Because they self sabotage.


& why's that?
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Because people are neurotic.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by nikkistar
Define successful?


No restraining orders.
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That's off the chart
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by nikkistar
Define successful?



Peaceful
Loving
Respectful
Loyal
Long lasting


Because they self sabotage.
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& why's that?
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Posted by nikkistar
Define successful?


No restraining orders.
Aphrodite the Scorpionic Libran Women Hater
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by nikkistar
Define successful?



Peaceful
Loving
Respectful
Loyal
Long lasting
click to expand


Because they self sabotage.
Posted by nikkistar
Define successful?



Peaceful
Loving
Respectful
Loyal
Long lasting
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