why do people cheat?

I just want to hear from those who think's it's ok to do so, or who has.

Maybe there is a sense of responsibility but lack of fulfilment within the relationship.

Posted by MiZLeo
Boredom. Grass is greener on the other side. Temptation. Narcissistic personality...sex addiction....lack of being satisfied from current partner sexually. Trapped in a loveless marriage. There are.many different reasons.

I understand the narcissist, but don't you believe there's no excuse?

That's what I'm asking... Where's the logic behind those reasons? That's why I want to hear from people who thinks its ok. Just curious

The devil tells them to cheat

Greed.

Thats my opinion, anyway.

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Posted by ariesheart

Posted by MiZLeo
Boredom. Grass is greener on the other side. Temptation. Narcissistic personality...sex addiction....lack of being satisfied from current partner sexually. Trapped in a loveless marriage. There are.many different reasons.

I understand the narcissist, but don't you believe there's no excuse?

No one is saying that those are excuses.. just reasons it may happen. I personally don't think there is ever an excuse for such an act. Leave the relationship if you are unhappy or find your eyes wandering.. It's simple.

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YAAS
slay

Posted by Montgomery
Greed.

Thats my opinion, anyway.

YAAAAAS
slay
more

Posted by MiZLeo

Posted by blackphase

Posted by ariesheart

Posted by MiZLeo
Boredom. Grass is greener on the other side. Temptation. Narcissistic personality...sex addiction....lack of being satisfied from current partner sexually. Trapped in a loveless marriage. There are.many different reasons.

I understand the narcissist, but don't you believe there's no excuse?

No one is saying that those are excuses.. just reasons it may happen. I personally don't think there is ever an excuse for such an act. Leave the relationship if you are unhappy or find your eyes wandering.. It's simple.

Right, wasn't saying those are excuses just reasons. Just leaving is not always black and white tho. Especially if you're married.

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Mmm.
Not so much slaying.

Psychology, sex addiction , drugs, alcohol, childhood, teenage, are mainly the culprits for doing this type of action.

Oh and that physical attraction that is going to tempt you into temptation watch out. Physical attraction is a killer just hope that you trust yourself and others and everything will be a okay.

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Posted by MiZLeo

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Posted by ariesheart

Posted by MiZLeo
Boredom. Grass is greener on the other side. Temptation. Narcissistic personality...sex addiction....lack of being satisfied from current partner sexually. Trapped in a loveless marriage. There are.many different reasons.

I understand the narcissist, but don't you believe there's no excuse?

No one is saying that those are excuses.. just reasons it may happen. I personally don't think there is ever an excuse for such an act. Leave the relationship if you are unhappy or find your eyes wandering.. It's simple.

Right, wasn't saying those are excuses just reasons. Just leaving is not always black and white tho. Especially if you're married.

You know.. I never really got that one. You can divorce or even just separate can't you? There has to be some common ground somewhere.. I really don't know though. I just don't find cheating in a marriage to be acceptable at all.

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I agree. I think that's when you should definitely not put up with it

There's a difference between people who are cheaters and people who have cheated, which is why that saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is complete bullshit.
People ask, "Why didn't you just break up instead of cheating?" Oh I'm sorry, I forgot we live in a perfect world where everything works out exactly as it should.
There are numerous elements that can lead to infidelity, and I'm not even going to attempt trying to list every possible scenario. Just know that just because someone has cheated doesn't mean they're the scum of the earth.

Ok, listen up...

Someone cheats because they wasn't happy with the one their with and the excuse is....say....because they have kids.

Dont you think you're hurting the family any way?
Why dont you work on the relationship instead I making it worst?
Why the other woman/man?

That's what I'm asking

Posted by Keres
There's a difference between people who are cheaters and people who have cheated, which is why that saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is complete bullshit.
People ask, "Why didn't you just break up instead of cheating?" Oh I'm sorry, I forgot we live in a perfect world where everything works out exactly as it should.
There are numerous elements that can lead to infidelity, and I'm not even going to attempt trying to list every possible scenario. Just know that just because someone has cheated doesn't mean they're the scum of the earth.

But they really are, aren't they.

Posted by LuckyLibra979
Some ppl just don't give a fucc.....about anything or anybody. Ain't no excuse for cheating in my eyes. If its that bad where u gotta bring in extra ppl hen just end it. It'd a large number of abusive co dependents out there just gotta be careful and pay attention to the signs

Slay and three quarters.

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Posted by ariesheart
Ok, listen up...

Someone cheats because they wasn't happy with the one their with and the excuse is....say....because they have kids.

Dont you think you're hurting the family any way?
Why dont you work on the relationship instead I making it worst?
Why the other woman/man?

That's what I'm asking

People don't think like that. They put their happiness before anyone else's. They don't think their kids will suffer.

They are tired with the one they are with...several different reasons. They can't stand them and would die before they stay with. But they aren't happy. That's why they don't stay.

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That's not true. I know one person who thinks like that. She's staying for the kids and we talk about it all the time.

Posted by AriesLady8
I had this conversation with many of my male friends who are serial cheaters. They have absolutely no reason often times. And most often it has nothing to do with how they feel about their girlfriend. It's there so they do it and then go home.

Wow, that's sad

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by ariesheart
Ok, listen up...

Someone cheats because they wasn't happy with the one their with and the excuse is....say....because they have kids.

Dont you think you're hurting the family any way?
Why dont you work on the relationship instead I making it worst?
Why the other woman/man?

That's what I'm asking

People don't think like that. They put their happiness before anyone else's. They don't think their kids will suffer.

They are tired with the one they are with...several different reasons. They can't stand them and would die before they stay with. But they aren't happy. That's why they don't stay.

That's not true. I know one person who thinks like that. She's staying for the kids and we talk about it all the time.

I already stated that...some people stay because of the kids.

Others don't stay because of kids...they put their happiness first.

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And that's my point. Why cheat in the first place when you were gonna leave anyway?

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Posted by Keres
There's a difference between people who are cheaters and people who have cheated, which is why that saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is complete bullshit.
People ask, "Why didn't you just break up instead of cheating?" Oh I'm sorry, I forgot we live in a perfect world where everything works out exactly as it should.
There are numerous elements that can lead to infidelity, and I'm not even going to attempt trying to list every possible scenario. Just know that just because someone has cheated doesn't mean they're the scum of the earth.

But they really are, aren't they.

No they arent...people mature. You can't say because a person cheated at 25. They will cheat at 35.

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Very rare cases. And it also depends, if it is with in the same relationship then more than likely if the other person stays the person will cheat again. Maybe 10 years down the line they have learnt the error of their ways but most people that do it, don't understand the severity or really give a fuck.

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Posted by Keres
There's a difference between people who are cheaters and people who have cheated, which is why that saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is complete bullshit.
People ask, "Why didn't you just break up instead of cheating?" Oh I'm sorry, I forgot we live in a perfect world where everything works out exactly as it should.
There are numerous elements that can lead to infidelity, and I'm not even going to attempt trying to list every possible scenario. Just know that just because someone has cheated doesn't mean they're the scum of the earth.

But they really are, aren't they.

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No, they aren't. You can't see everything as black or white, because there is always a grey area.
Sometimes people just make mistakes. We're human, therefore we're flawed. We mess up, and sometimes we learn from our mistakes, while other times we don't. That's just the way it is.

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Posted by LibWman

Posted by Keres
There's a difference between people who are cheaters and people who have cheated, which is why that saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is complete bullshit.
People ask, "Why didn't you just break up instead of cheating?" Oh I'm sorry, I forgot we live in a perfect world where everything works out exactly as it should.
There are numerous elements that can lead to infidelity, and I'm not even going to attempt trying to list every possible scenario. Just know that just because someone has cheated doesn't mean they're the scum of the earth.

But they really are, aren't they.

No, they aren't. You can't see everything as black or white, because there is always a grey area.
Sometimes people just make mistakes. We're human, therefore we're flawed. We mess up, and sometimes we learn from our mistakes, while other times we don't. That's just the way it is.

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There are levels to making a mistake. We are indeed flawed and a lot of us may have even secretly wished we could do a lot of harm to someone we weren't particularly fond of but SANE individuals restrain themselves and think of the consequences. If being unfaithful in a relationship was a criminal act, do you think people wouldn't think twice or thrice before going ahead with it? would they consider the consequences more? would they show more restraint? of course they would. It's mind over matter and about will power. You may consider infidelity a minor thing, where as most people would consider it a major immoral act. It is so destructive, I have seen people who have been cheated on once and it sets them up for shitty relationships for the rest of their lives because they can't get over the betrayal. They may get over the feelings for that person in that relationship and not care for the relationship anymore but they carry that fucked up shit around, questioning themselves and future relationships because it hurt so much that one time they can't go through it again.

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Posted by Keres

Posted by LibWman

Posted by Keres
There's a difference between people who are cheaters and people who have cheated, which is why that saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is complete bullshit.
People ask, "Why didn't you just break up instead of cheating?" Oh I'm sorry, I forgot we live in a perfect world where everything works out exactly as it should.
There are numerous elements that can lead to infidelity, and I'm not even going to attempt trying to list every possible scenario. Just know that just because someone has cheated doesn't mean they're the scum of the earth.

But they really are, aren't they.

No, they aren't. You can't see everything as black or white, because there is always a grey area.
Sometimes people just make mistakes. We're human, therefore we're flawed. We mess up, and sometimes we learn from our mistakes, while other times we don't. That's just the way it is.

I'm not saying people can't grow from making terrible decisions, but lets be clear, cheating is NOT a "mistake".

It is a conscious decision one chooses to make. Calling it a "mistake" is a cop out.

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thank you very much.

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Posted by Keres

Posted by LibWman

Posted by Keres
There's a difference between people who are cheaters and people who have cheated, which is why that saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is complete bullshit.
People ask, "Why didn't you just break up instead of cheating?" Oh I'm sorry, I forgot we live in a perfect world where everything works out exactly as it should.
There are numerous elements that can lead to infidelity, and I'm not even going to attempt trying to list every possible scenario. Just know that just because someone has cheated doesn't mean they're the scum of the earth.

But they really are, aren't they.

No, they aren't. You can't see everything as black or white, because there is always a grey area.
Sometimes people just make mistakes. We're human, therefore we're flawed. We mess up, and sometimes we learn from our mistakes, while other times we don't. That's just the way it is.

There are levels to making a mistake. We are indeed flawed and a lot of us may have even secretly wished we could do a lot of harm to someone we weren't particularly fond of but SANE individuals restrain themselves and think of the consequences. If being unfaithful in a relationship was a criminal act, do you think people wouldn't think twice or thrice before going ahead with it? would they consider the consequences more? would they show more restraint? of course they would. It's mind over matter and about will power. You may consider infidelity a minor thing, where as most people would consider it a major immoral act. It is so destructive, I have seen people who have been cheated on once and it sets them up for shitty relationships for the rest of their lives because they can't get over the betrayal. They may get over the feelings for that person in that relationship and not care for the relationship anymore but they carry that fucked up shit around, questioning themselves and future relationships because it hurt so much that one time they can't go through it again.

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Yasssss!!!!!

You're confusing mistakes with accidents. Accidents are unintentional. Mistakes are neither strictly unintentional nor a "cop out." A mistake is a decision you made and regret. It could be something that happened in the heat of the moment, or it could be something you gave great thought to.
Am I saying cheating is okay? Not at all. I'm saying there's a difference between someone who has cheated, regretted it, and never repeated the mistake, and someone who cheats in every relationship. The person who messed up once but learned from that decision should not be put in the same category as the person who has never been faithful to anyone.

Posted by DonJohnson
Sex is also love making even if you are with multiple partners that don't know each other.

it's a positive experience if you accept the experience for what it is.

the dark side of sexuality is what ruins the act. but in the act itself, it's the most amazing high on planet earth.


so to rid of the dark side, you simply keep the secret between each other. no jealousy. no possessiveness. just pure sensation and pleasure. i have hurt someone before yes. but i've also made many many people happy.

Thank you for your honesty

Posted by ariesheart
Ok, listen up...

Someone cheats because they wasn't happy with the one their with and the excuse is....say....because they have kids.

Dont you think you're hurting the family any way?
Why dont you work on the relationship instead I making it worst?
Why the other woman/man?

That's what I'm asking

Maybe because sometimes the other person won't work on the relationship. It takes two. Sometimes someone is also financially dependent on their spouse and/or have been isolated in an emotionally abusive relationship and the only way they find their way out is through someone who makes them realize they deserve better.

Posted by GuardianAnu

Posted by ariesheart
Ok, listen up...

Someone cheats because they wasn't happy with the one their with and the excuse is....say....because they have kids.

Dont you think you're hurting the family any way?
Why dont you work on the relationship instead I making it worst?
Why the other woman/man?

That's what I'm asking

Maybe because sometimes the other person won't work on the relationship. It takes two. Sometimes someone is also financially dependent on their spouse and/or have been isolated in an emotionally abusive relationship and the only way they find their way out is through someone who makes them realize they deserve better.

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Aaah, good one.

Posted by DonJohnson
synastry does matter though. i've never been faithful up until the current gf.


maybe im just more focused on career etc. i have had opportunities but i have found that i sabotoged those opportunities on purpose as of late. i'll purposely say really rude things just to turn the girl off so we don't proceed any further.

Do you go into the relationship wanting to make it work or do you already know that you wont be faithful, its just for the time being?

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Posted by DonJohnson
synastry does matter though. i've never been faithful up until the current gf.


maybe im just more focused on career etc. i have had opportunities but i have found that i sabotoged those opportunities on purpose as of late. i'll purposely say really rude things just to turn the girl off so we don't proceed any further.

Do you go into the relationship wanting to make it work or do you already know that you wont be faithful, its just for the time being?

regrets is why i cheat.


i remember being faithful to my first gf in college. ld relationship. missed the freshman year of poontang. i just keep having flashbacks of these willing girls wanting to do the deed. after we broke up. i realized how stupid that was. for a while, i would scream in the shower as all the coulda been women's faces flashed through my mind. it was like Bruce Wayne having flashbacks of his parents being killed by thugs. until the tipping point.... then wrecked havoc on them thugs. I went ham on poons.

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That sounds quite depressing and exhausting

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Posted by ariesheart
Ok, listen up...

Someone cheats because they wasn't happy with the one their with and the excuse is....say....because they have kids.

Dont you think you're hurting the family any way?
Why dont you work on the relationship instead I making it worst?
Why the other woman/man?

That's what I'm asking

Maybe because sometimes the other person won't work on the relationship. It takes two. Sometimes someone is also financially dependent on their spouse and/or have been isolated in an emotionally abusive relationship and the only way they find their way out is through someone who makes them realize they deserve better.

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I've known of a few cases where that was what was going on.

I won't defend cheating, but along with the very painful side of infidelity when the relationship formed via cheating is a disaster in many ways (the harm it inflicts on multiple people) there are also relationships that form that way and last and are happy. Some very famous pairings too, that people admire, particularly during times when there was much more of a stigma against divorce.

What if you are married and have no physical relationship but stayed out of obligation? Maybe you didn't want your kids to grow up in a broken home or knew your spouse couldn't afford to live without you. Maybe your spouse was very ill and needed emotional and financial support.

Things are not always black and white.

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Posted by Stefanie87
What if you are married and have no physical relationship but stayed out of obligation? Maybe you didn't want your kids to grow up in a broken home or knew your spouse couldn't afford to live without you. Maybe your spouse was very ill and needed emotional and financial support.

Things are not always black and white.

This was covered pages ago.....

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I only read page one and then commented.
My laziness is showing

People cheat because they want to.




Is there any excuse? Sure. You can read them all in the thread above me.

Doesn't make it more moral. Nor does it make it right.


"But let he, who is without sin throw the first stone."


Which is worse? Murder or cheating!?!? "Murder of course...!" But what if the dude cheated on his pregnant wife whom he was happy with and the murder comitted fell victim to a man who was a rapist? "Suely, if he is a rapist he deserves it" Wait... But if it were an animal murdered... Does that matter?



Ethics are funny that way. Everyone has their own reason to justify whatever. And situations differ.


So why do people do what they do?

Because they want to.

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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX

Posted by Stefanie87
What if you are married and have no physical relationship but stayed out of obligation? Maybe you didn't want your kids to grow up in a broken home or knew your spouse couldn't afford to live without you. Maybe your spouse was very ill and needed emotional and financial support.

Things are not always black and white.

This was covered pages ago.....

I only read page one and then commented.
My laziness is showing

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I did the same thing haha

Posted by starwars
dxp is so dark

LOL

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Posted by GuardianAnu

Posted by ariesheart
Ok, listen up...

Someone cheats because they wasn't happy with the one their with and the excuse is....say....because they have kids.

Dont you think you're hurting the family any way?
Why dont you work on the relationship instead I making it worst?
Why the other woman/man?

That's what I'm asking

Maybe because sometimes the other person won't work on the relationship. It takes two. Sometimes someone is also financially dependent on their spouse and/or have been isolated in an emotionally abusive relationship and the only way they find their way out is through someone who makes them realize they deserve better.

I've known of a few cases where that was what was going on.

I won't defend cheating, but along with the very painful side of infidelity when the relationship formed via cheating is a disaster in many ways (the harm it inflicts on multiple people) there are also relationships that form that way and last and are happy. Some very famous pairings too, that people admire, particularly during times when there was much more of a stigma against divorce.

Indeed, everyone gives Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward a free pass lol

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haha, yes, that's one of the examples I was thinking of!

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Posted by starwars
dxp is so dark

LOL

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Aaaahaha

Why do people "cheat?" It's simple, lack of integrity.

in·teg·ri·ty
inˈteɡrədē/
noun
1.
the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; moral uprightness.
"he is known to be a man of integrity"
synonyms: honesty, probity, rectitude, honor, good character, principle(s), ethics, morals, righteousness, morality, virtue, decency, fairness, scrupulousness, sincerity, truthfulness, trustworthiness
"I never doubted his integrity"
2.
the state of being whole and undivided.
"upholding territorial integrity and national sovereignty"
synonyms: unity, unification, coherence, cohesion, togetherness, solidarity
"the integrity of the federation"

I'll leave this for others to ponder

I really hate this questions because people ask it like there's not suppose to be answer. The answer is they want to have their cake and eat it too. Selfish. I've never cheated or been cheated on (that I know of!) but it's so obvious why people cheat. They don't care about the people the are with more than temptation. Everyone is tempted in a relationship and whether or not you act on it defines your personality. They don't want to break up with consistency just to have an hour of fidelity. Is it wrong, yes but the reason behind it is completely evident.

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Posted by Arielle83
Some people's genitals are grazers.

They can't wait for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

They need snacks in between.

I have a theory that ppl who like to try exotic and different foods are more likely to cheat than a picky eater.

that is a very good theory.



people that like travelling too.

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Hmmm I like that

Everybody cheats someone out of something at some point in their life ..... I have a feeling that you have a specific meaning to the word, "cheat", and the proceeded to ask a broad and very vague question with expectations of having a clear answer.


lol



thinking really isn't your forte, is it?

In second thought, since I realize that you don't really think about what you're saying ..... I will give you some direction that you can use


I know a woman who believes her husband is cheating on her if he watches television .... because there are women on TV, and he is looking at them, if he is watching the television ..... and he is not allowed to watch to television, unless he plans on getting in trouble for cheating.



Now, let's see if you are capable of reasoning that out, as it relates to your question.



I'm not doing anything ... you can take a lot of time if you need it.

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In second thought, since I realize that you don't really think about what you're saying ..... I will give you some direction that you can use


I know a woman who believes her husband is cheating on her if he watches television .... because there are women on TV, and he is looking at them, if he is watching the television ..... and he is not allowed to watch to television, unless he plans on getting in trouble for cheating.



Now, let's see if you are capable of reasoning that out, as it relates to your question.



I'm not doing anything ... you can take a lot of time if you need it.

Go back and read idiot. I explained myself and already received some great answers from people who understood. Got to sleep

People just cheat to get away with it and there are so many documentaries about people going crazy and in prison about cheating on others while in a relationship. So I'd be careful you never know who is going to fucking snap. Chose your temptation wisely it may be a killer one.

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Posted by DonJohnson
it's funny to me because you admitted to making the comparison yourself subconsciously while writing walls of texts to deny it.


it's like you're demented.



that's why it's so funny. =)

That's all you got huh? Disappointing....people here made it sound like you were a worthy opponent. I see now that you were just being blown way out of proportion.


Another typical mediocre troll. *sigh*

so pointing out fact is trolling?

these are your own words


""the question(why do people cheat) is like asking why do people murder" -xxxaliciaxxx


"I didn't compare cheating to murder. i said the two acts are similar..." - xxxaliciaxxx






you are going back and forth with walls of texts to deny the very comparison you made on top of admission.


how deep does your dementia go? i'm just curious.

K.


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you are literally life.

Posted by Nevermore

Posted by P-Angel

Everybody cheats someone out of something at some point in their life ..... I have a feeling that you have a specific meaning to the word, "cheat", and the proceeded to ask a broad and very vague question with expectations of having a clear answer.


lol



thinking really isn't your forte, is it?

I see what you're saying.

It's like, cheating on the test, cheating on games and cheating to cook, cheating of loosing weight, etc. Instead of that kind of "relationship" cheating.

So many ways and terms in what kind of cheating it means, yet cheating is a choice of their own path to make of what kind of reasons they cheat. Like I read one of the good answers to this kind of general cheating "To get away with it."

In what way to get away with it? Knowledgeable? Hardworking? Proud parents? Happiness? Eagerness to have sociability and having fun? Getting money? Gained something you wanted? Like I read a good suitable answers I read here.. Greed. Also I like to add things to it too: Sloth, lust and Gluttony. Those kind of motives.

So many ways in what reason they have cheated, in what their motives behind it. Either they know they cheat or unawareness of cheating because they couldn't see themselves or whatever!

The word "cheat" is a very wide meaning, yet to me a best answer to this is: To get away with it in whatever motives/reason they behind it.

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No, that's not my point.


It looks like the OP wasn't able to think on it ... I figured as much, since I stated it.


In your scenario, Nevermore, you've made the assumption that the other person knows your mind, and then purposely sets out to fuck you over. That's pretty irrational.

The average person doesn't walk around thinking about what they can do to get over on you, and that is your reason for being cheated ... when in reality, the average person probably doesn't even know they've cheated because they can't read your mind to know what you consider cheating.


The OP here asks a question that has no boundaries ... but, then expects a specific answer that coincides with what she wants to hear. And that's because she lacks the brain cells to actually think about what she said.


Still, I'd wager, she sits and wonders about it .... she even asked the question in here, so that's proof that she wonders about it. When it's a very easy thing to reason out.

Obviously, it's not easy for her ... because she lacks the ability.


It's equivalent to asking ....... what color is clear.

People don't walk around thinking about what they can do to get over on you.

People don't walk around thinking about what they can do to get away with.


I'd wager that 99% , the person doesn't even realize they are cheating you out of something ... most likely because people don't clarify to the other person.


to say, "cheat" could mean a million different things ... there's no cut and dry answer to it. But, then the question gets asked as if one interpretation is set in cement across the board for everyone.


How irrational .. and quite immature. the words of an insecure little girl. and it goes further in her saying she ONLY wants to hear from certain people.


how close minded is that? she ONLY wants to hear certain things, from certain people.


What a fucking moron.

The immaturity of the people in dxp is staggering.


The most of you actually believe that what you think is gospel, and everyone around you is suppose to live up to this invisible, non-verbalized standard.


And then you turn around and talk out of the other side of your mouth to state that you believe in unconditional love.

Posted by P-Angel

People don't walk around thinking about what they can do to get over on you.

People don't walk around thinking about what they can do to get away with.


I'd wager that 99% , the person doesn't even realize they are cheating you out of something ... most likely because people don't clarify to the other person.


to say, "cheat" could mean a million different things ... there's no cut and dry answer to it. But, then the question gets asked as if one interpretation is set in cement across the board for everyone.


How irrational .. and quite immature. the words of an insecure little girl. and it goes further in her saying she ONLY wants to hear from certain people.


how close minded is that? she ONLY wants to hear certain things, from certain people.


What a fucking moron.

Number one, I'm retired Air Force, published author and have 2 bachelor's, working on my master. I'm asking for a reason stupid. If you can't answer, then stfu!

And people do think about what they can get away with, wtf do murderers and rapists comes from!