Happy Birthday Hello Saggy!!!!!

Happy Birthday to my BFF, My numero UNO!!!!!! I hope you have a great day with whatever girl gets graced with your fabulous presence today!!! XD 🎶 Cause you're my right hand, you my go to!!! 🎶 @hellosaggy https://media.giphy.com/media/qFNcv6c05EPO8
hellosaggy
34 years old male
Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
@lnana04

Yea. She’s set in her ways with no reason.

Why do people want their way when they have no reason or evidence why it should be their way???

saggurl88
female from anytown, Anywhere, United States
SunSagittarius MoonCancer MercurySagittarius VenusScorpio MarsLeo Jup
Posted by MiZLeo
Posted by saggurl88
I liked @RooSagicorn comment and must have hit hide on accident after! Sorry!


Thank you lmao
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I read that and was like.



MiZLeo
female
♌☀️/❤/Merc/Jup♓🌜♋Mars♐Rising ♍Sat
@hellosaggy Happy Birthday!
Sucks you didn't get bday sex but sounds like it all worked out for the best. She sounds like if she had sex with you she would have gotten attached and clingy and really since your leaving anyway for Cali....
MiZLeo
female
♌☀️/❤/Merc/Jup♓🌜♋Mars♐Rising ♍Sat
Posted by saggurl88
I liked @RooSagicorn comment and must have hit hide on accident after! Sorry!


Thank you lmao
saggurl88
female from anytown, Anywhere, United States
SunSagittarius MoonCancer MercurySagittarius VenusScorpio MarsLeo Jup
I liked @RooSagicorn comment and must have hit hide on accident after! Sorry!
Posted by hellosaggy
Posted by RooSagicorn
Lmao December is being quite tough on you! Cap’s are stubborn btw. Very! I found that me just turning around and leaving worked the best. I wasn’t putting up with the trying to make your mind up stuff. I tend to be more let’s see if it evolves type & if it’s heading somewhere than alright then. Funny I was planning on a move too.. but then the Cap happened. It took me a long time to decide to cancel the move - almost a year. But it was my decision & a break up too. See he fell for me, but couldn’t handle my planning to move & thought of i’d just leave him.

Don’t think the Cap would be a good one to be hanging out in the meantime before your move unless your open to possible change.


This was supposed to be a great month for me astrologically! In all areas!

It’s not! Last month sucked too!
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I’m sorry! Hope it starts improving!!
I'd say just move on.

I'm a Cap and waisted years of a guys time being just like this Cap here. I didn't understand a guy saying "I want to have sex with you" instead of "I want to have a relationship." Even if it was said , the "right" way, honestly speaking many of us DO want things our way, and whether we are qualified to be so controlling or make such demands does not matter...it doesn't even cross our minds.

Not to say she isn't a good girl. Just saying the red flags you may see now as why it will not work will always be there. We are people that rarely ever change, and we are easily spoiled by attention.

I don't like the Scorpio friend either. That was wrong, HOWEVER, in every situation where a guy has been interested in me and a friend or associate was around, the same thing has happened...as in the friend/associate has subliminally warned the guy or let him know to move on. I think that's what the Scorpio was doing here.

Happy belated birthday though. Although no sex, still seems that you had a decent time.
hellosaggy
34 years old male
Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
Posted by RooSagicorn
Lmao December is being quite tough on you! Cap’s are stubborn btw. Very! I found that me just turning around and leaving worked the best. I wasn’t putting up with the trying to make your mind up stuff. I tend to be more let’s see if it evolves type & if it’s heading somewhere than alright then. Funny I was planning on a move too.. but then the Cap happened. It took me a long time to decide to cancel the move - almost a year. But it was my decision & a break up too. See he fell for me, but couldn’t handle my planning to move & thought of i’d just leave him.

Don’t think the Cap would be a good one to be hanging out in the meantime before your move unless your open to possible change.


This was supposed to be a great month for me astrologically! In all areas!

It’s not! Last month sucked too!
Lmao December is being quite tough on you! Cap’s are stubborn btw. Very! I found that me just turning around and leaving worked the best. I wasn’t putting up with the trying to make your mind up stuff. I tend to be more let’s see if it evolves type & if it’s heading somewhere than alright then. Funny I was planning on a move too.. but then the Cap happened. It took me a long time to decide to cancel the move - almost a year. But it was my decision & a break up too. See he fell for me, but couldn’t handle my planning to move & thought of i’d just leave him.

Don’t think the Cap would be a good one to be hanging out in the meantime before your move unless your open to possible change.
hellosaggy
34 years old male
Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
@saggurl88

No mercury retrograde is kicking my arse! I haven’t had sex in two weeks but I got women all around me and on top of that no birthday sex. Grrrrr.

Aqua in sex shop last night trying vibrators over her clothes at midnight like she’s trying to get off. After she brought it(I chipped in a little as I wasn’t thinking clearly at that point) I told her make sure she comes once for me. She said she’d send me something for proof. She had asked me to come over but I relented to show I’m classy 😎.

I probably should have because I paid for dinner and that was supposed to be her taking me out for my birthday. Smh. We ended up going to Costco for gas, then Victoria secret, yard house for dinner, and then the sex toy shop.

I figured really it’s a first date 🤷🏾‍♂️ I’ll put soft press on her later on for neglecting my birthday.

Smh. I still ain’t got video. I texted her as I just woke up and she ain’t hit me back yet. Show me the tape!
hellosaggy
34 years old male
Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
@mariah18

I think scorps point was more engrained in the fact that Cap always talks about how much she likes me, then isn’t actually doing anything about it.

Star Wars reference “do it do not there is no try”

I don’t know how Cap saying kissing and dancing is a show of her really liking me. I was tickled at that. Random drunk people do that.

I am moving end of next year anyway to California from east coast so I’m not looking for anything serious anyway. Just good friends or one friend that I can pass time with. If something develops it does, but it’s not on my wish list at moment.
saggurl88
female from anytown, Anywhere, United States
SunSagittarius MoonCancer MercurySagittarius VenusScorpio MarsLeo Jup
@hellosaggy

You ok boo??? You seem a little hostile. treetrunk these cookiemonsteres!!!

hellosaggy
34 years old male
Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
Scorp didn’t drunkly say anything in front of a bunch of people. There was an alcove they were in.

I’m fine with cap being cautious. For the record I won her over months ago. She just at a confusing point in her life. Not mad at all. I’ve already come to conclusion she’s going to want to run things with little compromise and that’s not me. Everything seems to need to be her way.
A) I’m older and more experienced
B) I’m more accomplished
And
C) we enjoy each other’s Company
Fact is... you don’t know everything and just bc it’s your perception doesn’t make it right.

She’s too stubborn and without qualifications to be so.

In terms of sex or whatever y’all want to call it “intimacy” I don’t find sex at it’s basis to be anything more than a physical act that if you like the person makes it better.

Truth of the matter is. You can’t pressure someone to have sex, just like you can’t pressure the other person to abstain from sex. So either you compromise or keep it friendly.

She said she didn’t want to waste my time. But she wants my attention which is wasting my time.


UnicornSag
30 years old female
Sun, Venus, Mercury ♐Moon♈Mars♏ASC♓-inside 🦄/outside🐲
Posted by RooSagicorn
Posted by hellosaggy
@Mariah18

Ok... had a fun time with Aqua tonight very open and different from Cap... hit up a sex store on way from dinner. maybe it was the martinis but she was pretty open about sex. she brought a vibrator... but made it clear she would send me a video of her using it. its fine. had a good time.

back to my birthday night.

I pick Cap up. she's deck out and looking good in a sweater dress and thigh high suede boots for the party at the club. We do a birthday dinner alone. laugh joke kiss some touching. its going great. had pretty nice expectations.

we get to the club, a bunch of her modeling girlfriends are there. no dudes. Her cousin owns the club so we have bottles comped and a section in VIPs. (she promised him eye candy for men in club) so we are doing shots and drinking. guys are coming up trying to talk to girls and trying to get me to give them an introduction. not your wing man brah

so anyway her Scorp girlfriend shows up with her boyfriend and they start immediately taking advantage of alcohol. I'm like yo take it easy which one of yall driving. She said oh we took an uber from his place and was complaining about how expensive it was., but she wanted to party with me for my birthday. didn't think nothing of it.

Me and Cap having a good time. good dancing kissing. I'm sobering up, she's partying with me and taking shots with scorp gf and hitting the hookah. getting ready for last call. scorp girl comes up and goes "hey you mind dropping me and my bf off at his place before you and cap go and bang the rest of the night." I ask where he lives. its like about 10 min from my house so I said cool.

Cap came and scorp said. hey he said he'd drop us off before ya'll have sex tonight.

cap shoots back. we aren't planning on having sex tonight. so scorp looks at me and says why aren't you fking her tonight. I shrug and said its the first I heard of it.

then cap tells her, we haven't had sex yet. scorp went off on her in VIP. omg you are such a prude. how you all over him and talk about him last two months and not f him on his birthday.

I go back to the hookah, thanking the fact that its coming from her Gf and not her.

fast forward the four of us are in the car and cap is being all affectionate rubbing my arm, kissing me and all this. so i'm thinking im going to get some tonight finally.

drop the scorp and her boyfriend off. scorp is smoking cigarette outside my car and tells cap to join her. I crack the window slightly lol

cap tells scorp she doesn't want to escalate our friendship and hurt my feelings because she's not sure what she wants to be in state much longer much less start a relationship

scorp tells her its just sex and she aint had none in 6 months and it might get her head together. she told her "i just have to be sure, its only been about 2 months and it hasn't been on her mind."

scorp tells her. "If you don't f him someone else will and you will be hurt that he's gone...and it would be her fault because she is shocked I've stayed around this long without it, because she wouldn't"

they hug and she gets back in car. I can tell she's thinking so I just cut the silence and say look I'll just take you home no worries.

Cap turns and says you know I like you a lot right. We kiss and dance together, you've met all my friends and my sister, I just need to be sure before I get deeply involved with someone.

I laugh and say I like you and would like to have sex with you, I haven't acted or treated you different over the last 2 months, but its frustrating.

then cap says "PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE" lmfao....it brought me back to you dxp people.

I had a mini internal melt down and regained my composure...and said believe me I have been patient. I don't talk to someone for 2 months like this.

she goes. 2 months isn't a long time. you know me I like to plan everything. I'm working two jobs trying to figure things out. I really like you. I'm just not sure if i'm staying here much less trying to waste your time in a relationship

so... yeah I drop her off she kisses me for a good 30 seconds and asked me to come up to her job tonight, wished me happy birthday again and said bye.

yeah back burner on this one... I'm glad her girlfriend said something to start it because I've been holding my tongue.




Well yep not surprising! She’s a true Cap. They take awhile to decide what they want & before they enter a relationship. So she’s not having sex til she decides & you want sex to decide on a relationship. Sure enough a war unless one or both of you compromise a little. Honestly, if neither of you are willing it isn’t going to work now or ever.

Problem is if she decides to have sex, she’s choosing you for a relationship. If she doesn’t pass your sex test, then your gone & you hurt her. It’s just not a good situation unless there is compromise because you really care about each other.

So tread carefully here. If you are unwilling to budge, go play with the aqua, maybe she’s more your speed.

Btw I don’t think this makes her a prude, it makes her careful & taking care of herself & she’s a relationship girl not jumping into bed with just anyone. It’s a different type of girl & probably marriage material I’m guessing.

Your choice of the direction you’d like to go in. No wrong answers here. Just choices.
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This is exactly what I've been telling him before regarding that girl. Two of them are simply not match and nothing can change them. Situation is exactly how I saw it, now you wrote it in more words and it's just true. They're better off with someone else than each other since they have different views on relationships, neither one is wrong and they have right to it but since their views don't match they should look for someone else who's view do match theirs. I agree Cap is wise and cautious. I like her from all this description and her way is a good way 100% . That doesn't mean he has to like her way, but another man sure will like it. Scorp girl I won't even comment, I'd definitely not be a fan of such friend in my life.
Cap isn't a prude, she's smart girl and I'm happy to hear when people think like she does. Someone who values her perspective will be very happy with such girl in their life.
Posted by hellosaggy
@Mariah18

Ok... had a fun time with Aqua tonight very open and different from Cap... hit up a sex store on way from dinner. maybe it was the martinis but she was pretty open about sex. she brought a vibrator... but made it clear she would send me a video of her using it. its fine. had a good time.

back to my birthday night.

I pick Cap up. she's deck out and looking good in a sweater dress and thigh high suede boots for the party at the club. We do a birthday dinner alone. laugh joke kiss some touching. its going great. had pretty nice expectations.

we get to the club, a bunch of her modeling girlfriends are there. no dudes. Her cousin owns the club so we have bottles comped and a section in VIPs. (she promised him eye candy for men in club) so we are doing shots and drinking. guys are coming up trying to talk to girls and trying to get me to give them an introduction. not your wing man brah

so anyway her Scorp girlfriend shows up with her boyfriend and they start immediately taking advantage of alcohol. I'm like yo take it easy which one of yall driving. She said oh we took an uber from his place and was complaining about how expensive it was., but she wanted to party with me for my birthday. didn't think nothing of it.

Me and Cap having a good time. good dancing kissing. I'm sobering up, she's partying with me and taking shots with scorp gf and hitting the hookah. getting ready for last call. scorp girl comes up and goes "hey you mind dropping me and my bf off at his place before you and cap go and bang the rest of the night." I ask where he lives. its like about 10 min from my house so I said cool.

Cap came and scorp said. hey he said he'd drop us off before ya'll have sex tonight.

cap shoots back. we aren't planning on having sex tonight. so scorp looks at me and says why aren't you fking her tonight. I shrug and said its the first I heard of it.

then cap tells her, we haven't had sex yet. scorp went off on her in VIP. omg you are such a prude. how you all over him and talk about him last two months and not f him on his birthday.

I go back to the hookah, thanking the fact that its coming from her Gf and not her.

fast forward the four of us are in the car and cap is being all affectionate rubbing my arm, kissing me and all this. so i'm thinking im going to get some tonight finally.

drop the scorp and her boyfriend off. scorp is smoking cigarette outside my car and tells cap to join her. I crack the window slightly lol

cap tells scorp she doesn't want to escalate our friendship and hurt my feelings because she's not sure what she wants to be in state much longer much less start a relationship

scorp tells her its just sex and she aint had none in 6 months and it might get her head together. she told her "i just have to be sure, its only been about 2 months and it hasn't been on her mind."

scorp tells her. "If you don't f him someone else will and you will be hurt that he's gone...and it would be her fault because she is shocked I've stayed around this long without it, because she wouldn't"

they hug and she gets back in car. I can tell she's thinking so I just cut the silence and say look I'll just take you home no worries.

Cap turns and says you know I like you a lot right. We kiss and dance together, you've met all my friends and my sister, I just need to be sure before I get deeply involved with someone.

I laugh and say I like you and would like to have sex with you, I haven't acted or treated you different over the last 2 months, but its frustrating.

then cap says "PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE" lmfao....it brought me back to you dxp people.

I had a mini internal melt down and regained my composure...and said believe me I have been patient. I don't talk to someone for 2 months like this.

she goes. 2 months isn't a long time. you know me I like to plan everything. I'm working two jobs trying to figure things out. I really like you. I'm just not sure if i'm staying here much less trying to waste your time in a relationship

so... yeah I drop her off she kisses me for a good 30 seconds and asked me to come up to her job tonight, wished me happy birthday again and said bye.

yeah back burner on this one... I'm glad her girlfriend said something to start it because I've been holding my tongue.




Well yep not surprising! She’s a true Cap. They take awhile to decide what they want & before they enter a relationship. So she’s not having sex til she decides & you want sex to decide on a relationship. Sure enough a war unless one or both of you compromise a little. Honestly, if neither of you are willing it isn’t going to work now or ever.

Problem is if she decides to have sex, she’s choosing you for a relationship. If she doesn’t pass your sex test, then your gone & you hurt her. It’s just not a good situation unless there is compromise because you really care about each other.

So tread carefully here. If you are unwilling to budge, go play with the aqua, maybe she’s more your speed.

Btw I don’t think this makes her a prude, it makes her careful & taking care of herself & she’s a relationship girl not jumping into bed with just anyone. It’s a different type of girl & probably marriage material I’m guessing.

Your choice of the direction you’d like to go in. No wrong answers here. Just choices.
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