Sag Men: Do you guys come back?

Sag guy blocked me off of everything. This is the 2nd time he does this. It's not like I am very clingy. He was the one that was on my ass all the time. Just wanted to know if this is something that most of you tend to do and why?
ScorpKitty21December 10, 2017 9:09pm
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  • ScorpKitty21
    Miami girl ❤ Sun/Moon/Mercury-♏ Venus/Jupiter/Mars-♐ Asc.-♓
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    Soooo.... 😒😒😒 for some reason..... My account got deleted pfffff


    Hatersss. They be hackin yo butter. lol
  • ScorpKitty21
    Miami girl ❤ Sun/Moon/Mercury-♏ Venus/Jupiter/Mars-♐ Asc.-♓
    Posted by PhoenixRising
    Posted by ScorpKitty21
    Posted by Ganon
    Well...not responding to text is one thing, but blocking?
    Girl, what did you do...?
    He blocked you for a reason?


    He started getting mad at me since last Saturday.
    We were together for his bday, the Wednesday of that week, when he mentioned he was going to have a party on Saturday and that he wanted me there so he could show me off to his friends lol.
    Thursday he bombs a final(he's in law school) and was super depressed. I tried cheering him up and go to his place on Friday. He was just very stressed out about it.

    Saturday comes and we barely talked, it seemed like he was being a little distant. I decided to go out with my sister that night and when I go on Snapchat, I see that he posted a pic with some other girl. ?? Okay whateverrr Imma have fun too then. Right?.. Eventually around 3am I ask send him "Sooo?". I couldn't even sleep. He replies at 8am Sunday saying "what?. You didn't even come to my party?"

    Other than that Wednesday, he never mentioned his party again. Obviously I felt bad and he just kept getting mad at me about it. : /... That's when it started, leading to the blocking.

    Looks like your need to be passive aggressive backfired. He was distant because he bombed his final what I would think is a pretty important and he was upset. Rightly so. Thing is, Sags aren't known for crying over what was or what happened. They just....withdraw a bit to reflect and regroup.

    It reads like you decided to get offended by his distance and not show up to his party to prove something---yet you were checking social media. If you couldn't be bothered to attend the man's party, why check his snap chat? Then when he actually enjoys himself, takes his mind off of things at his party (with the people that did show up for him), you tried to make him feel bad about it. I don't know, it seems a bit obvious why he decided to move on.

    I don't agree with the Sag approach, but I still understand it to a degree. If you can't see why this went sideways based on his previous statement to you and how this played out, it's best he doesn't contact you again.

    Try not to get too hung up on the "he was talking about our kids and planning our wedding" stuff or take it to mean more than sharing possible dreams and hopes. Sags move 100 miles/minute, while Scorp are still doing their stretches as they decide if they should even move.
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    He didn't become distant bc of the final, that's actually when he was reaching out more. Unless it was a late reaction, but I doubt that was the reason. Yeah. And I didn't know he was still having his party. I assumed that since he was stressed and never mentioned it again, it was off. I assumed wrong. My fault. And I apologized. I left it at that and then I texted him later the next day. He was actually mad that I had given him space and hadn't contacted him in a while. The first time he blocked me was bc he tried to call me and I didn't answer.
    (Just guessing by the timing.)
    Not because I didn't want to, but because I was asleep.
    It just added on.
  • PhoenixRising
    I'm nothing you think and everything you feel....❤
    Posted by ScorpKitty21

    I get that. I would've been okay if he had just told me that. Instead, he strings me along, asks me to be his gf, flips out the next day and blocks me again.
    That's the part that gets to me. Why call me saying you want to take things to the next step just to be like oops right after?
    If I decided to do something like that, I won't go taking it back in less than 24 hours. Like really?

    Because Sag is a mutable sign. Decisions change like the weather. It's one of their best traits and worst traits. It makes them easy to love, but harder to understand for a fixed sign anyway.

    It isn't right or wrong, just different from your approach.
  • EvatheDiva
    Pisces: Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Saturn
    53 years old female from TX, USA
    Posted by Ganon
    Posted by ScorpKitty21
    Posted by Ganon
    Well...not responding to text is one thing, but blocking?
    Girl, what did you do...?
    He blocked you for a reason?


    He started getting mad at me since last Saturday.
    We were together for his bday, the Wednesday of that week, when he mentioned he was going to have a party on Saturday and that he wanted me there so he could show me off to his friends lol.
    Thursday he bombs a final(he's in law school) and was super depressed. I tried cheering him up and go to his place on Friday. He was just very stressed out about it.

    Saturday comes and we barely talked, it seemed like he was being a little distant. I decided to go out with my sister that night and when I go on Snapchat, I see that he posted a pic with some other girl. ?? Okay whateverrr Imma have fun too then. Right?.. Eventually around 3am I ask send him "Sooo?". I couldn't even sleep. He replies at 8am Sunday saying "what?. You didn't even come to my party?"

    Other than that Wednesday, he never mentioned his party again. Obviously I felt bad and he just kept getting mad at me about it. : /... That's when it started, leading to the blocking.


    Honestly? I would have blocked you as well.

    Cause...he likes you so much he wants to show you off to his friends.
    Then friday he has finals and was stressed about it (not depressed, just occupied)
    Then you (missy) went to his place knowing he has to study and also prepare his birthday party. (Did you offer too help? Sags hate asking for the obvious)
    So he was distant (annoyed asf i think) and i know for sure you felt a certain way about it and gave him an attitude.
    Then comes saturday, his bd party, You didn't go (cause you know damn well you wanted to sting)
    You saw a pic of him and a girl (duh...it was a party...people post pics of themselves with their guests/friends)
    You jumped into whatever conclusion and also posted a pic (cause he needed to know that you were having fun and did not attend his party on purpose

    Then he asked you why you didn't come to his party and you said....what?
    You didn't apoligize, but still had an attitude right?

    AND...then he blocked you...

    So what is unclear about him blocking you?


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  • PhoenixRising
    I'm nothing you think and everything you feel....❤
    Posted by ScorpKitty21
    Posted by PhoenixRising
    Posted by ScorpKitty21
    Posted by Mariah
    Posted by ScorpKitty21
    Sag guy blocked me off of everything. This is the 2nd time he does this. It's not like I am very clingy. He was the one that was on my ass all the time. Just wanted to know if this is something that most of you tend to do and why?


    omg! blocked you?? seriously?

    but what? did he unblock you the first time? and what did he say about that?

    and here i was complaining that sag wasnt texting me first -_-

    hahahahahaha what is it with sag men ......

    and still they keep us fascinated


    I know right? Yeah. He blocked me on everything but messenger.
    So when I saw that he was active, I decided to talk to him.
    He said he didn't want to hurt me and that he's just a broken boy and I deserve better.
    I told him that he was hurting me more by pushing me away and we were okay again. (so i thought)..


    So you thought you could "fix" him. The man ended things and told you straight up what the issue is and you pushed forward anyway. Therefore, anything after that is on you.


    Well yeah. That point has been made clear already. It's not exactly like I was trying to fix him. I just wanted to be with him and wasn't even thinking clearly at the time. Pretty selfish on my behalf.. I'll admit that.
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    Not selfish at all, just....being a Scorp lol. We tend to have a level of determination that make us feel like we can carry ourselves and the people we care about for as long as it's required. If we care. At some point, you'll learn to simply let people be and when they say they are broken, leave them alone. They have to work through their stuff. And have a right to so do on their terms. If they so happen to repair themselves and you're still available, take them on at that time. Life lesson. This won't be the last.

    And I'm late to the party, so I have no idea what was addressed in this thread or not. I post my thoughts based what the OP writes, not other posters.
  • PhoenixRising
    I'm nothing you think and everything you feel....❤
    Posted by ScorpKitty21
    Posted by Ganon
    Well...not responding to text is one thing, but blocking?
    Girl, what did you do...?
    He blocked you for a reason?


    He started getting mad at me since last Saturday.
    We were together for his bday, the Wednesday of that week, when he mentioned he was going to have a party on Saturday and that he wanted me there so he could show me off to his friends lol.
    Thursday he bombs a final(he's in law school) and was super depressed. I tried cheering him up and go to his place on Friday. He was just very stressed out about it.

    Saturday comes and we barely talked, it seemed like he was being a little distant. I decided to go out with my sister that night and when I go on Snapchat, I see that he posted a pic with some other girl. ?? Okay whateverrr Imma have fun too then. Right?.. Eventually around 3am I ask send him "Sooo?". I couldn't even sleep. He replies at 8am Sunday saying "what?. You didn't even come to my party?"

    Other than that Wednesday, he never mentioned his party again. Obviously I felt bad and he just kept getting mad at me about it. : /... That's when it started, leading to the blocking.
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    Looks like your need to be passive aggressive backfired. He was distant because he bombed his final what I would think is a pretty important and he was upset. Rightly so. Thing is, Sags aren't known for crying over what was or what happened. They just....withdraw a bit to reflect and regroup.

    It reads like you decided to get offended by his distance and not show up to his party to prove something---yet you were checking social media. If you couldn't be bothered to attend the man's party, why check his snap chat? Then when he actually enjoys himself, takes his mind off of things at his party (with the people that did show up for him), you tried to make him feel bad about it. I don't know, it seems a bit obvious why he decided to move on.

    I don't agree with the Sag approach, but I still understand it to a degree. If you can't see why this went sideways based on his previous statement to you and how this played out, it's best he doesn't contact you again.

    Try not to get too hung up on the "he was talking about our kids and planning our wedding" stuff or take it to mean more than sharing possible dreams and hopes. Sags move 100 miles/minute, while Scorp are still doing their stretches as they decide if they should even move.
  • ScorpKitty21
    Miami girl ❤ Sun/Moon/Mercury-♏ Venus/Jupiter/Mars-♐ Asc.-♓
    Posted by PhoenixRising
    Posted by ScorpKitty21
    Posted by Mariah
    Posted by ScorpKitty21
    Sag guy blocked me off of everything. This is the 2nd time he does this. It's not like I am very clingy. He was the one that was on my ass all the time. Just wanted to know if this is something that most of you tend to do and why?


    omg! blocked you?? seriously?

    but what? did he unblock you the first time? and what did he say about that?

    and here i was complaining that sag wasnt texting me first -_-

    hahahahahaha what is it with sag men ......

    and still they keep us fascinated


    I know right? Yeah. He blocked me on everything but messenger.
    So when I saw that he was active, I decided to talk to him.
    He said he didn't want to hurt me and that he's just a broken boy and I deserve better.
    I told him that he was hurting me more by pushing me away and we were okay again. (so i thought)..


    So you thought you could "fix" him. The man ended things and told you straight up what the issue is and you pushed forward anyway. Therefore, anything after that is on you.
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    Well yeah. That point has been made clear already. It's not exactly like I was trying to fix him. I just wanted to be with him and wasn't even thinking clearly at the time. Pretty selfish on my behalf.. I'll admit that.
  • PhoenixRising
    I'm nothing you think and everything you feel....❤
    Posted by ScorpKitty21
    Posted by Mariah
    Posted by ScorpKitty21
    Sag guy blocked me off of everything. This is the 2nd time he does this. It's not like I am very clingy. He was the one that was on my ass all the time. Just wanted to know if this is something that most of you tend to do and why?


    omg! blocked you?? seriously?

    but what? did he unblock you the first time? and what did he say about that?

    and here i was complaining that sag wasnt texting me first -_-

    hahahahahaha what is it with sag men ......

    and still they keep us fascinated


    I know right? Yeah. He blocked me on everything but messenger.
    So when I saw that he was active, I decided to talk to him.
    He said he didn't want to hurt me and that he's just a broken boy and I deserve better.
    I told him that he was hurting me more by pushing me away and we were okay again. (so i thought)..

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    So you thought you could "fix" him. The man ended things and told you straight up what the issue is and you pushed forward anyway. Therefore, anything after that is on you.
  • PhoenixRising
    I'm nothing you think and everything you feel....❤
    Posted by ScorpKitty21
    Sag guy blocked me off of everything. This is the 2nd time he does this. It's not like I am very clingy. He was the one that was on my ass all the time. Just wanted to know if this is something that most of you tend to do and why?

    If you're as disposable as a button click, why would you care if he comes back? Going silent is understandable, but to be blocked off of everything...it's a clear message, no? Whether he comes back or not.

    He did it once to let you know let you what's up. Something didn't register, so he did it a second time. And yet you're still waiting.

    Since you want to know the "why" though, I'm sure Sags will tell you did something to offend or annoy him.
  • ScorpKitty21
    Miami girl ❤ Sun/Moon/Mercury-♏ Venus/Jupiter/Mars-♐ Asc.-♓
    Posted by UnicornSag
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    Posted by Ganon
    Posted by ScorpKitty21
    Posted by Ganon
    Well...not responding to text is one thing, but blocking?
    Girl, what did you do...?
    He blocked you for a reason?


    He started getting mad at me since last Saturday.
    We were together for his bday, the Wednesday of that week, when he mentioned he was going to have a party on Saturday and that he wanted me there so he could show me off to his friends lol.
    Thursday he bombs a final(he's in law school) and was super depressed. I tried cheering him up and go to his place on Friday. He was just very stressed out about it.

    Saturday comes and we barely talked, it seemed like he was being a little distant. I decided to go out with my sister that night and when I go on Snapchat, I see that he posted a pic with some other girl. ?? Okay whateverrr Imma have fun too then. Right?.. Eventually around 3am I ask send him "Sooo?". I couldn't even sleep. He replies at 8am Sunday saying "what?. You didn't even come to my party?"

    Other than that Wednesday, he never mentioned his party again. Obviously I felt bad and he just kept getting mad at me about it. : /... That's when it started, leading to the blocking.


    Honestly? I would have blocked you as well.

    Cause...he likes you so much he wants to show you off to his friends.
    Then friday he has finals and was stressed about it (not depressed, just occupied)
    Then you (missy) went to his place knowing he has to study and also prepare his birthday party. (Did you offer too help? Sags hate asking for the obvious)
    So he was distant (annoyed asf i think) and i know for sure you felt a certain way about it and gave him an attitude.
    Then comes saturday, his bd party, You didn't go (cause you know damn well you wanted to sting)
    You saw a pic of him and a girl (duh...it was a party...people post pics of themselves with their guests/friends)
    You jumped into whatever conclusion and also posted a pic (cause he needed to know that you were having fun and did not attend his party on purpose

    Then he asked you why you didn't come to his party and you said....what?
    You didn't apoligize, but still had an attitude right?

    AND...then he blocked you...

    So what is unclear about him blocking you?




    He asked me to go to his place. I was actually very considerate about him having to study. He insisted either way.
    And I didn't know he was having his party still. He never mentioned it again and was never specific with details anyway. I did apologize. At least 3 times.

    To tell the truth I don't tend to repeat invitations to people either lol once I invite you consider yourself invited. If you're not sure you can always ask to check if party is going on or not. But that's probably not the reason for blocking. You said he's not over his ex, so that's more likely to be the reason


    I get that. I would've been okay if he had just told me that. Instead, he strings me along, asks me to be his gf, flips out the next day and blocks me again.
    That's the part that gets to me. Why call me saying you want to take things to the next step just to be like oops right after?
    If I decided to do something like that, I won't go taking it back in less than 24 hours. Like really?

    isn't that you 2 know each other 7 days?how on earth is that stringing along, you just met Big Grin
    sorry I'm not trying to make fun of you in case you may come to think that but I just can't believe anyone can think of anything serious after knowing someone for 7 days. I'm pretty sure no Sag here can either. I mean we do rush in fast but 7 days come on?! That's literally nothing and completely unimportant, I don't even remember people I talked to for months now that I think of it if it wasn't something really important to me...


    Lmao. You're completely right. I agree, but if you're gonna ask someone out, then at least have the decency to dump them too.(well.. properly) lol even if it was a day or 2 minutes later. Do it. That's all I'm saying.

    Well personally I can't do that :/ I never left a guy actually lol I just become mean to them until they leave me lol so that may give some insight too...doesn't necessarily mean he's just like me tho lol


    Really? I mean I get it, but what would happen if the person never dumped you? lol. Wouldn't you have to? It'd just be weird after a while.

    Longest it took with Libra. I just stopped contacting him in that case lol well I don't date dumb guys, they get the point pretty quick so never had much troubles with it. Libra is a nice guy probably though I need more time or something, was rather patient so I couldn't really be mean to him anyway that's why it took longer than usual


    Hahaha. "well I don't date dumb guys"
    That does help.. Yeah, I think some Libras are just too nice and carefree lol.

    Well yeah, that's quite true lol I really can't stand a man with whom I can't have intellectual convo. I had one guy who was best looking of all my exes lol he was a model, Scorpio if I remember well lol but damn guy was so dumb I just couldn't stand it. Those "average" looking guys grew way much more to my heart than he ever could simply cause they're interesting and smart
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    Lmfao. Why can't they be both? Right?.. Yeah. Same for me. I actually end up liking the nerdy types more than just the pretty boy. There's only so far you could go being with a dimwit. No matter what sign they are lol
  • ScorpKitty21
    Miami girl ❤ Sun/Moon/Mercury-♏ Venus/Jupiter/Mars-♐ Asc.-♓
    Posted by hellosaggy
    we come back if and only if we aren't done with you.... regardless of who's at fault....


    Only if you aren't done with us? lmao. How so, exactly?
    Seems like my case is a lost cause anyway. So ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
  • ScorpKitty21
    Miami girl ❤ Sun/Moon/Mercury-♏ Venus/Jupiter/Mars-♐ Asc.-♓
    Posted by UnicornSag
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    Posted by Ganon
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    Posted by Ganon
    Well...not responding to text is one thing, but blocking?
    Girl, what did you do...?
    He blocked you for a reason?


    He started getting mad at me since last Saturday.
    We were together for his bday, the Wednesday of that week, when he mentioned he was going to have a party on Saturday and that he wanted me there so he could show me off to his friends lol.
    Thursday he bombs a final(he's in law school) and was super depressed. I tried cheering him up and go to his place on Friday. He was just very stressed out about it.

    Saturday comes and we barely talked, it seemed like he was being a little distant. I decided to go out with my sister that night and when I go on Snapchat, I see that he posted a pic with some other girl. ?? Okay whateverrr Imma have fun too then. Right?.. Eventually around 3am I ask send him "Sooo?". I couldn't even sleep. He replies at 8am Sunday saying "what?. You didn't even come to my party?"

    Other than that Wednesday, he never mentioned his party again. Obviously I felt bad and he just kept getting mad at me about it. : /... That's when it started, leading to the blocking.


    Honestly? I would have blocked you as well.

    Cause...he likes you so much he wants to show you off to his friends.
    Then friday he has finals and was stressed about it (not depressed, just occupied)
    Then you (missy) went to his place knowing he has to study and also prepare his birthday party. (Did you offer too help? Sags hate asking for the obvious)
    So he was distant (annoyed asf i think) and i know for sure you felt a certain way about it and gave him an attitude.
    Then comes saturday, his bd party, You didn't go (cause you know damn well you wanted to sting)
    You saw a pic of him and a girl (duh...it was a party...people post pics of themselves with their guests/friends)
    You jumped into whatever conclusion and also posted a pic (cause he needed to know that you were having fun and did not attend his party on purpose

    Then he asked you why you didn't come to his party and you said....what?
    You didn't apoligize, but still had an attitude right?

    AND...then he blocked you...

    So what is unclear about him blocking you?




    He asked me to go to his place. I was actually very considerate about him having to study. He insisted either way.
    And I didn't know he was having his party still. He never mentioned it again and was never specific with details anyway. I did apologize. At least 3 times.

    To tell the truth I don't tend to repeat invitations to people either lol once I invite you consider yourself invited. If you're not sure you can always ask to check if party is going on or not. But that's probably not the reason for blocking. You said he's not over his ex, so that's more likely to be the reason


    I get that. I would've been okay if he had just told me that. Instead, he strings me along, asks me to be his gf, flips out the next day and blocks me again.
    That's the part that gets to me. Why call me saying you want to take things to the next step just to be like oops right after?
    If I decided to do something like that, I won't go taking it back in less than 24 hours. Like really?

    isn't that you 2 know each other 7 days?how on earth is that stringing along, you just met Big Grin
    sorry I'm not trying to make fun of you in case you may come to think that but I just can't believe anyone can think of anything serious after knowing someone for 7 days. I'm pretty sure no Sag here can either. I mean we do rush in fast but 7 days come on?! That's literally nothing and completely unimportant, I don't even remember people I talked to for months now that I think of it if it wasn't something really important to me...


    Lmao. You're completely right. I agree, but if you're gonna ask someone out, then at least have the decency to dump them too.(well.. properly) lol even if it was a day or 2 minutes later. Do it. That's all I'm saying.

    Well personally I can't do that :/ I never left a guy actually lol I just become mean to them until they leave me lol so that may give some insight too...doesn't necessarily mean he's just like me tho lol


    Really? I mean I get it, but what would happen if the person never dumped you? lol. Wouldn't you have to? It'd just be weird after a while.

    Longest it took with Libra. I just stopped contacting him in that case lol well I don't date dumb guys, they get the point pretty quick so never had much troubles with it. Libra is a nice guy probably though I need more time or something, was rather patient so I couldn't really be mean to him anyway that's why it took longer than usual
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    Hahaha. "well I don't date dumb guys"
    That does help.. Yeah, I think some Libras are just too nice and carefree lol.
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    we come back if and only if we aren't done with you.... regardless of who's at fault....
  • Posted by nano
    Generally men come back if/when they want their dick wet

    Certainly our lovely playboy opposites.


    Gems see you sags 😝😝


    Ofcourse you do! It's like looking in the mirror!
  • ScorpKitty21
    Miami girl ❤ Sun/Moon/Mercury-♏ Venus/Jupiter/Mars-♐ Asc.-♓
    Posted by nano
    Posted by ScorpKitty21
    Posted by nano
    My best friend are 2 sags, and they go back to old flames when they feel lonely and want sex.


    Lmfao. Well that was more of the answer I was looking for. Good to know. Thanks for the warning XP I'll keep that in mind, just in case.


    Tbh I don’t know your whole story, and no one can know it here either because we are only hearing one side. He has a side too, and the truth is usually somewhere in between.

    Speaking from just what you’ve written.... Blocking like that is very infantile and inexcusable - so if he comes back, which he likely will because it sounds like an ‘emotional block’ to me, then he needs to explain himself and you should let him know that behaivor will not be tolerated.

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    Damn. On point. That's what I was thinking. My sister told me the same thing. She's a gemini too lol

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