Talking ish

Okay this is a general thread about how a sagg men or woman like their partner of the opposite sex to talk to them. I know I love to talk ish I can be very sacrastic and basically I just say what's on mind most of the time and that's is why I have to be careful at work. My guy who is sagg as you guys know I think we get along so good becuase he is the only men so far who can hang with me and talk ish right back and this is sometimes how we communicate and it's not a problem so question how do you all communication with your partner or just people in general and how do you prefer your love interest or partner to talk to you.

Hi Scorpdiva --

I'm no Sag. I'm Scorpio who attracts Sags. I LOVE Sagittarius, except for one Sag lady I know in real life. She is impressive but too agressive. She irritates me.

Aside from that, I found male Sags can differ on how you can reach out to them (I think) by their year of birth. That is their Chinese Astro placement. It is said that inuendos are part of attracting Sagittarius conversation interest. For some it may work, but the once who match with OX, which is me... I observed that I can just as well have deep conversation as a Scorp with another OX/SAG, PIG/SAG, MONKEY/SAG, or SNAKE/SAG. I tried the less serious way of communication by just joking around with a SNAKE/SAG who ends up asking *huh?*. So I talk to him my normal way.. just the way I feel like talking. I'm serious with him. He asks me one thing. I tell him 10 things. I just write what's in my heart. I'm open and honest with him. Deep convos don't scare or bore him. If I'm pissed, I tell him i'm pissed.

It is said that Sagittarius male doesn't read everything you write to them. It has be short. But this guy reads EVERYTHING. He is a blabber mouth in person. He is super-short as a writer. The most you get are 5 words in a row.

So I guess it depends.

Am glad to read your accounts with Mr. Sagittarius.

I meant I'm *happy* for you that you can make it work with Mr. Sagittarius.

A Sag male can lift my spirits in no time. He can walk through the door.. look disappointed, worried, tired, whatever.. but we will quickly click and hop around conversations.

Well.. also hop around other things, but this thread is on 'ish' and I assume also on general communication with each other. So will stay with that. 😉

my scorp is not big on communication. he's too scared or hesitant sometimes to talk and it makes me withhold back from communicating with him. its very frustrating.

i like inuendos 2 but i like to talk period. and laugh.

@Fumr I find that true when I first met my sagg we talk for hours about life,work, kids and etc but then after we got to know eachother he would txt me somthing I would say something slick and he would respond right back with something slick and we would end up cracking up saying from one smartazz to another. I also agree with you have to keep it short when he txt me it normally short and too the point.

@DMV I love to talk a communicate I dont know why your scorp doesnt but when on the phone with my sagg I will just find question to ask him and it's normally me doing all the talking asking question and him answering if he wants then he will ask me ? type of thing

no, he does not talk. i could ask him question after question and get no real answer. sometimes i swear im around more for his entertainment than anything.

right now i think im being ignored for goodness knows what reason. i have seen or spoken to him in 2 weeks because i was on vacation with my family out of the country. so i got back today and i texted him. no response. 2 more texts, no response. i called, no response. you would think that he misses me after being gone. nope, right back to game playing.

so im not getting upset, im going to have some fun with it too. so i start having a conversation with his phone and not him. like a one-sided conversation. he wants a reaction out of me sooooo bad and almost a year and i havent given him a real outburts. i dont feel like it.

the shyt is sooooo boring to me. endless push/pull. endless silent treatments. he does one, i do a bigger one, he does an even bigger one, then i get pissd and do another one.

ugh. i just want to have a normal conversation for once. like a sit down convo where he asks questions and i answer or vice versa. like normal people.

i want to be more open with him, but he is just so closed off and its not some mysterious shit either. i dont buy that for a minute. hes scared of opening up and gets off on his silent treatments.

the relationship never progresses. never. we are still at the same point where we were a year ago. i need something MORE! the astrologers say that this is the year of the sag. love and money. hopefully, either this progresses or i find someone new and leave this behind.

@DMV I see actually what you mean sometimes when it something I do want to talk about and my sagg ask me questions about It I will turn around a ask him a question to avoid the question and this makes him very upset. So I know what you mean when you say no real answers scorps are good at that answering but not really answering your questions so it's like what the point but I dont think he means any harm by doing it.

also did you tell him you were going out of town with your family for your vacation? he could be upset maybe if you didnt let him know so he might feel like he wants to so call make you suffer and ignore u but what he has to realize and hopefully he realize that doesnt work with you all we ignore and you all can ignore even longer.

This does get boring the constant push/pull of the relationship between scorp/sagg and it's like for what reason can we just communicate solve the problem and get along but both parties have to be willing to communicate sometimes I will talk to my sagg about our issues and I will say ok we talk about it and this is how we are going to solve it and I will ask him do you agree with what I said sometimes he will ge silent(that could be a men thing)but what else can you do if you want it to work.

Depends on the conversation. If its casual Im fooling around tryna make people laugh, putting my 2 sarcastic cents in, talk shit if it gets competitive,etc.
If its serious then Im serious......which rarely happens cause I tend to turn serious conversations into bullshit.

DMV,

Where you talking to each other before you went to that trip? It doesn't make sense that he would be so quiet unless he is hurt or something else is going on.

Posted by scorpdiva

This does get boring the constant push/pull of the relationship between scorp/sagg and it's like for what reason can we just communicate solve the problem and get along but both parties have to be willing to communicate sometimes I will talk to my sagg about our issues and I will say ok we talk about it and this is how we are going to solve it and I will ask him do you agree with what I said sometimes he will ge silent(that could be a men thing)but what else can you do if you want it to work.

I got a Sag friend and you can tell when somethings on his mind...so when I try to explore it he always tell me "it aint none of my business, you wanna know too much". So Scorpdiva maybe your Sag feels that way at times, or maybe I could be wrong.

yesh he knew that i was going to be gone. he knew my parents were coming down and he kept begging to meet my dad and i told his ass NO, yeah right. so he can play his games on my father? fuck off. in fact, i even sent his ungrateful ass a text before i got on the boat to have a good xmas and new year. i even was sweet and sent him a love letter while i was gone. this is the thanks i get? i even smuggled LOBSTER over from the Bahamas for his ungrateful ass. he can kiss that shit goodbye.

im not asking him questions for the hell of it. im asking because i really want to know. hell, if i didnt, i wouldnt bother wasting my breathe. if i hear something in the street, i ask him about it. instead of a real answer, i get some bs story that has nothing to do with the question i originally asked.

it took me a year to tell him that i loved him and this is why. i recently made a list of why i love him. and its pretty pitiful. very superficial.

Posted by FebruaryFish

Posted by scorpdiva

This does get boring the constant push/pull of the relationship between scorp/sagg and it's like for what reason can we just communicate solve the problem and get along but both parties have to be willing to communicate sometimes I will talk to my sagg about our issues and I will say ok we talk about it and this is how we are going to solve it and I will ask him do you agree with what I said sometimes he will ge silent(that could be a men thing)but what else can you do if you want it to work.

I got a Sag friend and you can tell when somethings on his mind...so when I try to explore it he always tell me "it aint none of my business, you wanna know too much". So Scorpdiva maybe your Sag feels that way at times, or maybe I could be wrong.

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"it aint none of my business, you wanna know too much"

i feel this way 2. its a trust thing

@DMV yes it has to progress or I am sure you won't be able to take it anymore and just leave him alone although I hope it does work out. I read that also about this being your year for love so I hope he realize what he has and improved that's one thing I hate when you try to talk to someone and they just don't get it........

Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
DMV,

Where you talking to each other before you went to that trip? It doesn't make sense that he would be so quiet unless he is hurt or something else is going on.

yeah, we were talking. i called, he answered. we saw each other. but it just feels so superficial. i cant open up unless he opens up (im a scorpio moon).

in fact, i called him a few days b4 christmas because someting was laying really heavy on my chest. he told me that he loved me but i didnt return the term of endearment. it felt fake to me. i dont know even why he does love me. days went on by and i was just watching his behavior and there were things that i didnt like. but for the most part. i do love him. so i told him b4 i went away and his response "that is so wonderful". so i was like great. its all out there.

and now i come back to this shit.

@scorp diva. see you get it. i have talked to him about my kind of love and what happens when i am in love and its like why the hell did i even have that conversation with you, if you dont listen.

so spinning my wheels with him. he makes me second guess him as even a "friend."

im honest with him, i tell him that im scared, etc but its frustrating when he doesnt share his feelings. what the blood clot.

i think that he is sooo used to girls going gaga and giving him anything that he wants. im not like that. im GOOD with me. i cant holla and scream and throw fits. maybe this is what he needs for reassurance. i cant give him this type of a reaction.

@FebFish yes maybe that is it that he feels it none of my business but if we are building a relationship those things I ask you must be important to me for a reason but I notice with him he just get kinda quiet.

@DMV he might be upset beause you didn't let him meet your father, so he might think you are not as serious as you say you are and he might feel like am I not good enough to meet your father. I think this is how I would feel if my sagg parents came to town and he wouldn't let me meet them.

hmm, their is some logic to that. we are not official. he is not my boyfriend. i cant bring just any ol tom dick and harpo around my dad.

exactly DMV you can't take any old body to meet your father, poor baby his feelings probably got hurt a little bit and you know he will not admit it. Also about the status of the relationship do you need for him to say we are together before you believe it is offical or would you like him to ask you can you all be offical or should you all just know when it is? you know me and my sagg haven't offical said it yet either.

@DMV something you said reminds me of my sagg when I first told him I really like him or more like love him he ask why? and he also ask when was the last time I was in love? I told him the last time was about 6 years ago when I was really in love I also told him I love him cause every since we had our time apart I couldn't stop thinkin about him and I get this intense good feeling when I think about him. I am good with expression my feelings when I inital told him he only responded the feeling is mutual I accepted that like you I dont want it to be phony just cause I said it first.

Like you said he is use to other girls doing all this extra ish he has to realize that is not you.

Posted by scorpdiva
exactly DMV you can't take any old body to meet your father, poor baby his feelings probably got hurt a little bit and you know he will not admit it. Also about the status of the relationship do you need for him to say we are together before you believe it is offical or would you like him to ask you can you all be offical or should you all just know when it is? you know me and my sagg haven't offical said it yet either.

i know as a Sag, i need boundaries. so yes, i think that conversation needs to happen.

Posted by scorpdiva
@DMV something you said reminds me of my sagg when I first told him I really like him or more like love him he ask why? and he also ask when was the last time I was in love? I told him the last time was about 6 years ago when I was really in love I also told him I love him cause every since we had our time apart I couldn't stop thinkin about him and I get this intense good feeling when I think about him. I am good with expression my feelings when I inital told him he only responded the feeling is mutual I accepted that like you I dont want it to be phony just cause I said it first.

Like you said he is use to other girls doing all this extra ish he has to realize that is not you.

Yes, i would love to ask him that question as well. i wanna know how many times he's uttered that word. ive only said it once. this would be my second time in 30 years. a sag may say I Love You maybe 2x in their whole lifetime.

about the father thing. it was love at first sight for me (havent told him that yet). when i saw him, it hit me. and then it hit me again that he is my father reincarnated. but i said NAW...thinking to much. then he started telling me how good he and my father would get along and hes right(i didnt say that though). maybe your right, he could be a little hurt. so i asked him out to dinner with my folks tonight....no response. when i was out of the country, i sent him a love letter and it stated that in the love letter....that he reminded me of the best man that i know, my dad. thats a major compliment.

i just feel like sometimes he is a bit ungrateful.

how was it for you?

@DMV I must admit with my sagg it was attraction at first sight when we meet, him and his friends and me and mine had all went out to a club I notice him right away cause he was attractive and tall standing across the room very laid back and me being all wild on the dance floor dancing the whole night Lol. So after the club my friend knew his friend and we all went to breakfast and that's when I started talking to him and I like him immediately cuase it must have been his pisces moon but as I talk he just figure out things about me right away just reading the hell out of me then he seal the deal on our first date he went all out and I knew he had me and that was back in Jan when we first met had our first date in feb so here we are at almost a yr. It has not been easy like I have said before it's like a communciation issue but when you love someone you try to have patience and hopes it work out. Today I told him if all else fails we are always going to be cool he replied it won't fail cause you are going to get your act together. I hope he is right that it wont fail but I need him to meet me halfway and get his act together also.

DMV, I can totally empathize with you. Your relationship is almost a mirror image of mine w/my scorpio. I was seeing my scorpio for a year and he broke up with me abruptly. We just recently got back a few months ago. One would think the second time around would be much better but I'm still hitting that brick wall with him. The moment I think he's going to open up he clams up.

It's funny he's told me his loved me once which was over a year ago and texted me he loved me twice. I feel the same way you do.. I made a list myself to justify why do I bother to put myself in this predicament again.. sad part is.. the negatives outweigh the positives.. I know there is a good side to him somewhere or maybe I'm just too helplessly in love... He's definitely like a drug to me..

As a sag I enjoy talking to people who tells me all there is to know about them. I'm a digger so I pry a lot into peoples personal life. I enjoy deep conversations, but I also like people who can take my goofy humor and throw it right back at me. I'm also very sarcastic and I enjoy the sarcasm I get from the scorpio I like.
As long as you're truthful when you talk to me it's all good tho 🙂 I can't stand people who tell me one thing and then later I realize they're lying because I'm so trusting and I tell the truth so I expect others to do the same

Posted by DMV
yesh he knew that i was going to be gone. he knew my parents were coming down and he kept begging to meet my dad and i told his ass NO, yeah right. so he can play his games on my father? fuck off. in fact, i even sent his ungrateful ass a text before i got on the boat to have a good xmas and new year. i even was sweet and sent him a love letter while i was gone. this is the thanks i get? i even smuggled LOBSTER over from the Bahamas for his ungrateful ass. he can kiss that shit goodbye.

im not asking him questions for the hell of it. im asking because i really want to know. hell, if i didnt, i wouldnt bother wasting my breathe. if i hear something in the street, i ask him about it. instead of a real answer, i get some bs story that has nothing to do with the question i originally asked.

it took me a year to tell him that i loved him and this is why. i recently made a list of why i love him. and its pretty pitiful. very superficial.

DMV -- the 'DAD' issue upset him. I also upset my guy when he invited my parents for dinner when they came visiting me. He insisted, but I declined. He didn't talk to me for a month.

Posted by happykitsune
As a sag I enjoy talking to people who tells me all there is to know about them. I'm a digger so I pry a lot into peoples personal life. I enjoy deep conversations, but I also like people who can take my goofy humor and throw it right back at me. I'm also very sarcastic and I enjoy the sarcasm I get from the scorpio I like.
As long as you're truthful when you talk to me it's all good tho 🙂 I can't stand people who tell me one thing and then later I realize they're lying because I'm so trusting and I tell the truth so I expect others to do the same

i agree, i love to talk!

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Posted by DMV
yesh he knew that i was going to be gone. he knew my parents were coming down and he kept begging to meet my dad and i told his ass NO, yeah right. so he can play his games on my father? fuck off. in fact, i even sent his ungrateful ass a text before i got on the boat to have a good xmas and new year. i even was sweet and sent him a love letter while i was gone. this is the thanks i get? i even smuggled LOBSTER over from the Bahamas for his ungrateful ass. he can kiss that shit goodbye.

im not asking him questions for the hell of it. im asking because i really want to know. hell, if i didnt, i wouldnt bother wasting my breathe. if i hear something in the street, i ask him about it. instead of a real answer, i get some bs story that has nothing to do with the question i originally asked.

it took me a year to tell him that i loved him and this is why. i recently made a list of why i love him. and its pretty pitiful. very superficial.

DMV -- the 'DAD' issue upset him. I also upset my guy when he invited my parents for dinner when they came visiting me. He insisted, but I declined. He didn't talk to me for a month.

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hmmm...i invited him out twice last night and no response. my parents were here for 2 days. 1 day b4 i went out the country and 1 day when we came back.

months ago i asked him if he wanted to meet my twin sister. he declined. only to come back around this time and ask me if my sister is coming to town because he would like to meet her. come on now.

i just feel like its always about him. what doesnt he get? he has won my heart! and he has the upper hand. i pay for everything. drinks, food, i show him the good life. this saggie right here feels unappreciated and a bit regretful.

Posted by sag1026
DMV, I can totally empathize with you. Your relationship is almost a mirror image of mine w/my scorpio. I was seeing my scorpio for a year and he broke up with me abruptly. We just recently got back a few months ago. One would think the second time around would be much better but I'm still hitting that brick wall with him. The moment I think he's going to open up he clams up.

It's funny he's told me his loved me once which was over a year ago and texted me he loved me twice. I feel the same way you do.. I made a list myself to justify why do I bother to put myself in this predicament again.. sad part is.. the negatives outweigh the positives.. I know there is a good side to him somewhere or maybe I'm just too helplessly in love... He's definitely like a drug to me..

what have you decided to do?

my list sounds like your list...and you dont even have to tell me whats on it

Posted by scorpdiva
@DMV I must admit with my sagg it was attraction at first sight when we meet, him and his friends and me and mine had all went out to a club I notice him right away cause he was attractive and tall standing across the room very laid back and me being all wild on the dance floor dancing the whole night Lol. So after the club my friend knew his friend and we all went to breakfast and that's when I started talking to him and I like him immediately cuase it must have been his pisces moon but as I talk he just figure out things about me right away just reading the hell out of me then he seal the deal on our first date he went all out and I knew he had me and that was back in Jan when we first met had our first date in feb so here we are at almost a yr. It has not been easy like I have said before it's like a communciation issue but when you love someone you try to have patience and hopes it work out. Today I told him if all else fails we are always going to be cool he replied it won't fail cause you are going to get your act together. I hope he is right that it wont fail but I need him to meet me halfway and get his act together also.

i see alot of promise in your relationship....meet him halfway...talk to him. he wont always be able to read your mind.

If I remember correctly in Scorpdiva's meeting Mr. Sagittarius, he was very assuring to her.

MY first ever meeting with Mr. Sag was MAGICAL. I hoped he stayed, but he didn't. He used to hush back into my life and see if I was still available. Today he is on my Facebook and always keeps in touch since summer 2009. For a year now he asks me once a week if we can meet again. I like him. I had great chemistry with him. Still when he writes, he makes my day... he makes me feel happy.

The point here is, you have to be consistent with Scorpio. We love you much when we do, but you have to make sure that you get the message over be it with words and actions that you are here to stay. Otherwise, we don't take you seriously and we go on hide a lot because we think, when we give our heart to you, you will throw it away again. Or at least that is how it feels. I know I was very special to Mr. Sag. He was too young to realize then. We don't make up a regular couple. I might be making up an Alice in Wonderland story in my head, but obviously, after years he admitted it. In the meantime, my heart belongs to someone else, but once cleared up, I may give Mr. Sag another chance. I look forward to that day.

I can't know your Mr. Scorp, DMV. To me it sounded there is something off in your relationship. I think you affect him at a level that can hurt him. He cares, but he is cautious. Give him a constant. Make sure he knows you will always want him. And let him pay once in a while so he owns you.

I think guys somewhat like the *weak* woman... who is in puppy love with them, who has no money, who sits at home and dreams about his man 😛

I put that face on once in a while. It seems to make them feel more confident.

No harm in trying.

Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
In the meantime, my heart belongs to someone else, but once cleared up, I may give Mr. Sag another chance. I look forward to that day.

I can't know your Mr. Scorp, DMV. To me it sounded there is something off in your relationship. I think you affect him at a level that can hurt him. He cares, but he is cautious. Give him a constant. Make sure he knows you will always want him. And let him pay once in a while so he owns you.

I think guys somewhat like the *weak* woman... who is in puppy love with them, who has no money, who sits at home and dreams about his man 😛

I put that face on once in a while. It seems to make them feel more confident.

No harm in trying.

I almost want you to break off what you have and go after that Sag....im just that selfish.

Interesting that you say that about the "weak" woman. guys do like that sometimes. oh man, thats a stretch. i wonder if i could play that role.

@happykitsune your conversation with your scorp mirror mines with my sagg with the scaraism it can be fun.

@FumRed you are so right we scorps need constant attention and espically when we are trying very hard to show our love if not we shut down and give our selves time to think.

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Posted by sag1026

what have you decided to do?

my list sounds like your list...and you dont even have to tell me whats on it

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DMV-I am considering cutting him off. If you look over your list there is possibly nothing in there that will make you happier in the long run if you decide to stick with him. I was really heartbroken when he cut me off. But the whole year without him as I reflect back was less complicated and I was much more happier.

This time around I feel more taken for granted then the first time. I am waiting for him to return from his business trip to end things. It's not fair that I am always the one making a compromise to please him. He cannot begin to comprehend what it takes to be in a relationship. He commands full trust, loyalty, respect and honesty when he himself can't trust enough to open up to me. Mind you, he and I been friends two years prior to becoming intimate. When we were just friends he was much more open with me after the intimacy he became overly critical and admitted to putting me under a microscope. When I do something he doesn't agree with like something as simple as what to eat for dinner he uses that to retract from opening up.

He told me the reason why he broke it off with me was because he felt like he was getting too close. He admitted to me that he pushes all those who get too close to protect himself. This time around it much more worse. Mind you he was the one who initiated to get back with me after a full year of no contact. I always feel like im going through a test of emotional endurance with him. For the most part I feel like he's trying to see how much more I can take before he breaks me again... I love him deeply but he's not willing to meet me half way. I deserve better.

Its funny when I read the generalization of our sign, they make us sound like we jump around and that we??re not capable to love deeply or considerate about others??_ I feel there is some truth to it??_ However, regarding this relationship??_ I??ve put my heart and soul to try and make this work and all I am left with is tears and unanswered questions??_
My list in a nutshell is 90 negative/20 positive = move on??_ I'm going to wish him well and it is up to him whether or not we can remain friends.

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yesh i kinda feel taken for granted and i feel like he is out of line sometimes. Um, the tests are a requirment for them. they need to know how strong you are and what you can handle. somehow, he suspects that you may be the one. scorps need a strong person in their lives.

what i can say to you Sag1026, at least your off the emotional roller coaster.

dont wait around for him. live your sag life and if he really loves you HE will make HIMSELF be apart of it.

there is something so peculiar about a sag/scorp relationship

Sag/scorps are definitely peculiar.. If you look at the celebrity couples: Ted turner / Jane fonda, Ike /tina and Ryan Reynolds / scarlet johansson.. All eventually failed... I wonder if there wasever a successful pairing of the two signs that went over a decade? 🙂

Mine is definitely the true essence of the most introverted, cautious scorpio known to man.. Whatever jaded him in the past keeps his true inner beauty from coming out..

Btw, sags as boyfriends are the worst in my experience 🙂. Have you dated a Leo? They say theyre ideal for us. 🙂

DMV I wish for you a happy ending! I'm all for beating the odds of our pairing... I have yet to know anyone personally who has even passed the 3 year mark.

Those are some interesting couples you selected. lol i think those couples are also jaded by hollywood. but i do strongly believe that mere mortals like ourselves can go the distance. its the perfect relationship if they can both understand each other. there is so much to be learned from one another. but like all good things, they take time.

ive never had a sag boyfriend. i do have a sag hookup for over a year and hes fantastic. i never have a problem with him and the sex is consistent.

my one and only BF was a leo. and we had and still have good chemistry. he truly loves me and hes earned my respect and loyalty. i am currently crushing on another leo who caught my eye DAY ONE. hes a comedian...perfect.

a friend of mine who is a sag, her parents is a scorp male and a sag female. they been married for over 30 years and have 3 kids together.

another is an aries, her parents are also a sag and a scorp.

i think the relationship is successful with a older sag, once weve matured and a older scorp after his 1st marriage. i dont know where i read that, but the 1st marriage for a male scorp almost always ends. the 2nd is the lasting one.

i am not optimistic about my future with my scorp. he has alot of issues that he needs to work out on his end. as much as i hate having him have the upper hand, at least i am emotionally available for a relationship. he isnt physcially or emotionally available.

im 100% single....he isnt even close.

please dont think for a minute that leaving this man alone is easy for me.

its tough and heart wrenching.

i cry alot.

BUT, i know that theres something better for me out there.

DMV,

Well thats great to hear that there is at least one successful sag/scorp pairing somewhere our there... wish it was ours 😉

Reading your reply about his issues and hate having him have the upper hand etc... sounds definitely what I am feeling at this moment. My scorpio is neither physically or emotionally available as well (always on HIS time).

Trust me, it wont be easy for either one of us. He made see the true definition of "heartwrenching". I've cried at least twice a month since we've been back.

There is someone out there who will be better for us..

These quotes have been lingering in my mind these past few weeks thought I'd share it with you...

—A sad thing in life is that sometimes you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go.??

—Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.?? -Oprah

@sag1026...

ooo i like the quote from Oprah...heres one for you

"when people show you who they are, believe them"

think about that shit!

lol, i dont like to talk about the negatives with my scorp, i find i get over things more quickly and easier if i focus on the slim positives of him and i . and i think of him as on vacation for a very long time.

@sag1026, what is your venus sign by the way?

Posted by bassace
innuendos are good. we also talk in "waves". like we might start small then end up going deep into a bunch of topics, then going back to small talk, only to go deep again. you dont have to be knowledgeable or anything like that, you just have to be honest and at least partially open. we actually like being more "intelligent" on occasion because we get to feel smart by teaching you things. flirting is good, but not necessary (too much will make us lose respect for you). really, as long as youre yourself youll be fine. honesty is the most important thing so just be who you are and well probably be into you. plus you may have to keep the convo goin when it dies down. this is when we get flighty and wanna leave, we dont want you to think were boring so well leave as soon as the convo heads in that direction as a self-defense mechanism

i agree, just be your honest self. the things that you are saying, we are absorbing. sometimes we may not absorb it all..focusing on the big picture.

i wonder if some saggis feel more intellectual but prevent ourselves from having these types of convos because we dont think the other person can handle it?

i am really turned on by people who are open and honest with themselves.

I just had to post this conversation I had with my sagg today is this normal.

I call him Fri on my lunch break he didn't answer I left a message saying " I was calling you on my break but once again you don't know how to use your phone"

the next day I got a text from him saying-" can you swim, how long can you hold your breathe"
me-"not that good so probably not that long"

Hours pass
me-"I miss you and I dont't know why, you don't give me any loving and you can be an azz"
Him- "I miss you to baby, and I am only a azz when u push me and you can a pusy motherfucka

Posted by scorpdiva
@happykitsune your conversation with your scorp mirror mines with my sagg with the scaraism it can be fun.

Oh that's good. For a sec there I thought I was weird o.o

Posted by scorpdiva
Hours pass
me-"I miss you and I dont't know why, you don't give me any loving and you can be an azz"
Him- "I miss you to baby, and I am only a azz when u push me and you can a pusy motherfucka

Him, sounds like he was just retaliating. There's no hard feelings tho or otherwise he wouldn't have said "I miss you too"

Posted by scorpdiva
I just had to post this conversation I had with my sagg today is this normal.

I call him Fri on my lunch break he didn't answer I left a message saying " I was calling you on my break but once again you don't know how to use your phone"

the next day I got a text from him saying-" can you swim, how long can you hold your breathe"
me-"not that good so probably not that long"

Hours pass
me-"I miss you and I dont't know why, you don't give me any loving and you can be an azz"
Him- "I miss you to baby, and I am only a azz when u push me and you can a pusy motherfucka

yo scorps are so antsy. i get the need for constant and consistant reassurance. but sometimes, the test are just tooooo much. we love you but we cant but help to lick our wounds at the same time when we want to be around you. i agree with him, im a bitch because you push me. and i really dont want to show you that said of me.

saggis are not used to the constant struggle for power. its a change.

do we let some of our ego go, only to have it stepped on by you repeatedly?

we loves you, but sometimes...."straight to the moon Alice!"

Like I told him I would work on that I am not trying to be pushy or make him upset it just seem to happen but it's like me and him and go back and forth like that sometimes when it like let's just have sex and get it over it...

Also sometimes when he goes silent and I know it something probably something on my part I will try to say something sweet like I miss you or when am I going to see you and sometimes he is probably like damn one min she is pressing my buttons and the next she can't live without me, well I guess we will get it right on day or just be friends but he tell always says we will get it right.