Getting a Scorpio to open up with emotional issues

36 years old female from Henderson, Nv
Sun Aquarius Ascendant Scorpio Moon Libra Mercury
I know almost any description you read says that scorpios are slow to open up and trust, but you would think by now he would be a little more relaxed. We have been together three months and he still hasn't let me in fully. We have discussed this on occasion and he always tells me he is trying to let me in, but I can feel he is not. I can look into his eyes and see he is still scared of something or of me.

I know he has been hurt in the past, he has been cheated on, and he has major body image issues. I don't care what he thinks of himself and I am not those other women who hurt him. To me he is Sexy as all hell and one of the best men I have ever met and I never want to do anything to loose him. I have tried to tell him this and to do the ego stroking thing to build up his confidence, but he still won't relax 100% with me. I have told him about my divorce and cheating x husband (a Sag by the way, go figure). He knows how much that hurt me and that I would never inflict that kind of pain on someone els. I have tried to assure him that he has nothing to worry about with me. I don't know what els to do. I want to make him feel comfortable with me and around me.

How can I help ease him out of his shell and make him feel there is nothing to worry about with me? How do I help him get over his body image issues. Everything we do is strictly lights off. He is extremly sexy but won't even go swimming with me because he has to take his shirt off? Any Ideas?
36 years old female from Henderson, Nv
Sun Aquarius Ascendant Scorpio Moon Libra Mercury
I thought that would be the advice I would get.

He is a really good guy and I want so much for him to see it.

I've had my fair share of crap and cheating and it boggles my mind that he can be so hurt by this that he is afraid to open up to me, especially when I have been through similar and can understand.

I will just keep telling him how wonderful he is and hope that he will see it.
male from the left coast
SUN* Gemini
get him highh!!! Scorpios love drugs...
36 years old female from Henderson, Nv
Sun Aquarius Ascendant Scorpio Moon Libra Mercury
LOL !!!!

Somehow I don't think thats an option, although I might be able to get him drunk and take advantage of him, er I mean talk to him. LOL

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