Should I chase a scorpio male?

I see conflicting views on this topic.

I like this guy at work who is a scorpio. I am a capricorn and clueless when someone flirts with me. I just think he's funny or nice. I finally picked up on this, god only knows how long he's been sending signals. The minute I entertained the thought of liking him, he goes and runs off(not literally,lol). I find myself acting so out of character (I am shy and would never be so forward). Now I feel like I am trying to hunt down this man. And its beginning to piss me off. I first it was fun but now I'm totally annoyed. I feel like he did this on purpose and is secretly enjoying my misery, lol.

My Ego refuses to continue entertaining the idea and action of chasing him. I chase no one! (lol, until now)

Ironically, I'm losing my patience and its driving me nuts. In a strange way, I feel like I'm being tested.

Should I continue this "chase" (I feel like a stalker) or fall back?

32 years old female from CO, USA
Sun Scorpio 28.05 Ascendant Taurus 6.41 Moon Gemini 3.47 II Gemini 6.5
What in your behavior changed?
57 years old female

::: shakes head :::
57 years old female
Because Blingy ..... you know, people learn how to cope with feelings from day one.

You don't know how to talk, walk, or butter on the toilet .... but, from the day you are born you know that you feel. And your very first lessons in life are knowing that things make you happy, make you mad, sad, excited.

so, what the treetrunk?

By the time a person makes it to 20 years old they should be treetrunking expert on knowing how to process how they feel .. and yet, these people come in here saying such crap as, "what does it mean", or "I'm so confused"


It's not this lady, it's all of these threads in here .... you know what to treetrunking do, you've been experiencing how you feel from the day you were treetrunking born

Try using some brain cells ... maybe that will shed some light
57 years old female
Posted by notcool

I see conflicting views on this topic.

What conflicting views?

::: looks around :::

The only thing conflicting is you, in what you want versus what you should do.

If a person or two tells you to chase, then they are very few, while the majority tells you never to chase a man.

It's elementary ... why does simple things escape the mind?

female from the road
Sun:Cancer Moon: Sagittarius Mercury: Leo Venus: Cancer Mars: Scorpio Risi
LOL! I remember my world turned upside down when I was interested in a Scorpio. I'm not going to offer any advise because I'm a Cancer/Rat and he's a Scorpio/Dragon. The attraction is just inevitable. I curse and bless the day I met him.

Ok. I'll offer you 1 advice. Start praying to God...
"Oxytocin, when it??s got you hooked on the wrong partner, can be tougher to qu
I think you're thinking about this too much. Relax, you are creating so much bad energy around the situation that he'll SENSE your anxiety and keep his distance.

If he want you he'll come and get you and if he's not coming to get you then he doesn't want anything least not enough to make it happen, it's really simple when you break it down to the bare bones.

If you feel toyed and tested then that's not a good way to start off with a guy.

The old saying don't butter where you eat.

41 years old female from A place called Happy
"Fairly Even-3 Fire, 3 Earth, 3 Water, 2 Air."
Might go straight to hell but I agree with P on this one. Are you going to let a bunch of strangers on the Internet decide for you? Doubts it.

If you are chasing that means he is running yes/no? Men don't usually run IMO from something they want. A Scorpio Man running away from a woman he likes...never in all my years....they just might be the most aggressive men on the planet. Maybe he has a Cancer Moon..I digress

Instead of chasing try talking.
Posted by Skykomish
What in your behavior changed?

Before he was popping up everywhere I was. Now its the opposite.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
How do you know he knows your misery/unhappy?
Everyone has their own take and idea on the chase thing anyways, and everyone does it, takes part in such things or puts something forward that creates an attraction past the more fleeting moments, the key word you mentioned here was 'ego'!
Everyone has one and I think just asking people outright quashes it and any fears of the situation present.
It's not 'ego death' as there's no such thing I reckon, as much as countless others would like to theorise or debate otherwise, imeho.

I am happy just tormented by the look he gives me. Like I'm playing into his hand. Lol. As for ego, I mean no control of situation.
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by notcool

I see conflicting views on this topic.

What conflicting views?

I mean some say yes some say no.
Just keeping it fun. Wanted some opinions. I'm waiting for his move. He's clearly trying to figure stuff out. Just wanted to know how much interest is too much. Just don't want to leave any doubts in his mind. I decided to let it be. Just wanted to see if anyone agreed.

Thanks for the advice. Everyone.
from EspaƱa
words fail me
should i breathe right now or should i hold my breath. i see conflicting views on this topic. i mean i know that breathing is probably the best way forward but if i hold my breath would i perhaps be saving myself from inhaling greenhouse gases and thereby prolong my life? should i perhaps limit my respiratory function to breathing through my nose? i see conflicting views EVERYWHERE and i NEED SOMEONE TO TELL ME!!!!!

female from July 11
Notcool, never chase men. They are lazy enough as it is. There are ways to entice them or get their attention without coming off desperate. My advice would be to look attractive, feminine, remain friendly, polite and distant enough for him to think perhaps he should approach you more to see what's going on with you. If he isn't pursuing you, I wouldn't give it much thought.
Just to update, he asked me out for after work. It was fun and we laughed about everything that happened this week. He actually said it was interesting to see a different side of me. He wanted to see if i'd actually ask him out. (
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