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I met this new Scorpio girl really nice and sweetheart. We've got chemistry and lots of passion and she appreciates my masculininity and gentleness. The other night I saw her for the second time and we kissed passionately I mean passionately!!!



I've noticed one thing, she will go days for not replying to me. Like just like that.

She's a Scorpio sun and moon, her Venus is in libra and mars in Virgo. I'm an Aries sun/moon/mars and my Venus is in Capricorn.

She and I.... I feel she's the one, gimmi a hand here folks lol
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I met this new Scorpio girl really nice and sweetheart. We've got chemistry and lots of passion and she appreciates my masculininity and gentleness. The other night I saw her for the second time and we kissed passionately I mean passionately!!!

I've noticed one thing, she will go days for not replying to me. Like just like that.

She's a Scorpio sun and moon, her Venus is in libra and mars in Virgo. I'm an Aries sun/moon/mars and my Venus is in Capricorn.

She and I.... I feel she's the one, gimmi a hand here folks lol
i dont think u can have venus capricorn for aries sun.

maybe u are aquarius venus?

i think only aries sun can have aries venus, pisces venus aqua venus, and on the other side, taurus venus and gemini venus?
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I met this new Scorpio girl really nice and sweetheart. We've got chemistry and lots of passion and she appreciates my masculininity and gentleness. The other night I saw her for the second time and we kissed passionately I mean passionately!!!

I've noticed one thing, she will go days for not replying to me. Like just like that.

She's a Scorpio sun and moon, her Venus is in libra and mars in Virgo. I'm an Aries sun/moon/mars and my Venus is in Capricorn.

She and I.... I feel she's the one, gimmi a hand here folks lol

i dont think u can have venus capricorn for aries sun.

maybe u are aquarius venus?

i think only aries sun can have aries venus, pisces venus aqua venus, and on the other side, taurus venus and gemini venus? click to expand
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Yes yes sorry I meant gemini, my bad.
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As far as I'm concerned I'm a Scorpio with Mars in virgo. When I like someone I never disappear if I like him. If I don't like him I tell him that I don't see this going anywhere and we part our ways.
Disappearing is a bit childish. That fidgety Libra Venus.
I'm thinking of confronting her next time I see her, that I don't wanna play games and have no time to be played with. But first I'd like to know what all you Scorpios have to say.

I texted her yesterday morning for Mother's Day and still haven't heard back from her. Like wtf.
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You've seen her twice and you're declaring she's 'the one...'

Based on what exactly?



That's a typical aries thing to say no offense but you guys can be pretty reckless and impulsive click to expand


I am actually quiet busy full time school and full time work ect. My only free time is the gym. click to expand
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I am talking about the fact you falling in love aries can fall in and out of love very quick it doesn't matter how busy you are you can meet people at different places
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You've seen her twice and you're declaring she's 'the one...'

Based on what exactly?



That's a typical aries thing to say no offense but you guys can be pretty reckless and impulsive click to expand
I am actually quiet busy full time school and full time work ect. My only free time is the gym. click to expand

I am talking about the fact you falling in love aries can fall in and out of love very quick it doesn't matter how busy you are you can meet people at different places click to expand
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I'm gonna have to disagree with you, every Aries is different. I haven't been in love in over 2 year since my Leo ex. Please keep that in mind.
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As far as I'm concerned I'm a Scorpio with Mars in virgo. When I like someone I never disappear if I like him. If I don't like him I tell him that I don't see this going anywhere and we part our ways.
Disappearing is a bit childish. That fidgety Libra Venus.



I'm thinking of confronting her next time I see her, that I don't wanna play games and have no time to be played with. But first I'd like to know what all you Scorpios have to say.

I texted her yesterday morning for Mother's Day and still haven't heard back from her. Like wtf. click to expand
Don't overthink it. But definitely confront her. That libra Venus could cry though and defend the innocent her by saying you are too harsh. People with strong Libra placements are generally not a relationship material (in my opinion). I think the same of pisces. I have a Pisces moon and I'm trying hard not to let it control me. I feel like aries moon more though.
Anyhow, talk to her directly and say what you want. She should appreciate that. If she doesn't, well bye bye.
But, embrace the idea she might have someone on side and is just using you to massage her ego. I truly hope that's not the case. Keep us updated! All the best. click to expand
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- I did not know that about folks with strong libra placements. I'm not trying to control her or anything but I told her I value 3 things,

Communication, honesty and respect. Always. So her disappearing like this after kissing me and telling me she loves me or someshit and that we are official isn't right. She did say specifically she is not talking to anyone. And she asked me, to which I replied no I am not. But something tells me she's either seeing someone here or most likely has a man back home in turkey.
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You've seen her twice and you're declaring she's 'the one...'

Based on what exactly?



That's a typical aries thing to say no offense but you guys can be pretty reckless and impulsive click to expand




I am actually quiet busy full time school and full time work ect. My only free time is the gym. click to expand



I am talking about the fact you falling in love aries can fall in and out of love very quick it doesn't matter how busy you are you can meet people at different places click to expand

I'm gonna have to disagree with you, every Aries is different. I haven't been in love in over 2 year since my Leo ex. Please keep that in mind. click to expand
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But that is because you haven't been over your ex once over someone you can fall in love again i am talking out of experience i have a lot of aries friends who either married too fast or got into relationships then quickly left the relationship
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Posted by AgentP911
You've seen her twice and you're declaring she's 'the one...'

Based on what exactly?



That's a typical aries thing to say no offense but you guys can be pretty reckless and impulsive click to expand




I am actually quiet busy full time school and full time work ect. My only free time is the gym. click to expand



I am talking about the fact you falling in love aries can fall in and out of love very quick it doesn't matter how busy you are you can meet people at different places click to expand



I'm gonna have to disagree with you, every Aries is different. I haven't been in love in over 2 year since my Leo ex. Please keep that in mind. click to expand

But that is because you haven't been over your ex once over someone you can fall in love again i am talking out of experience i have a lot of aries friends who either married too fast or got into relationships then quickly left the relationship click to expand
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I don't mean she's the one but I mean i feel I can go long term with her. So any advice?
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I met this new Scorpio girl really nice and sweetheart. We've got chemistry and lots of passion and she appreciates my masculininity and gentleness. The other night I saw her for the second time and we kissed passionately I mean passionately!!!

I've noticed one thing, she will go days for not replying to me. Like just like that.

She's a Scorpio sun and moon, her Venus is in libra and mars in Virgo. I'm an Aries sun/moon/mars and my Venus is in Capricorn.

She and I.... I feel she's the one, gimmi a hand here folks lol


I do that to guys I'm not that into. I'll keep responding though from time to time.... Just to keep em on the side in cases of hard times. click to expand
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She was like that when I met her, we were just friends. But she barely texted me or replied. Then the second time we hung out which was Friday evening, we kissed and got a bit physical. I was supposed to meet her Saturday evening and she waited for me till 1130 but I didn't get home till 1215 and she sent me a bunch of texts and phone calls asking me where I'm at but I don't reply when I'm driving. I was supposed to meet her Saturday evening and she waited for me till 1130 but I didn't get home till 1215 and she sent me a bunch of texts and phone calls asking me where I'm at but I don't reply when I'm driving. So I texted her saying that I'm home and that we can hang out now but I haven't heard from her since then.



A few of my buddies were telling me that it's too soon and that I should feel things out as they go along.
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Posted by AgentP911
You've seen her twice and you're declaring she's 'the one...'

Based on what exactly?



That's a typical aries thing to say no offense but you guys can be pretty reckless and impulsive click to expand




I am actually quiet busy full time school and full time work ect. My only free time is the gym. click to expand



I am talking about the fact you falling in love aries can fall in and out of love very quick it doesn't matter how busy you are you can meet people at different places click to expand



I'm gonna have to disagree with you, every Aries is different. I haven't been in love in over 2 year since my Leo ex. Please keep that in mind. click to expand

But that is because you haven't been over your ex once over someone you can fall in love again i am talking out of experience i have a lot of aries friends who either married too fast or got into relationships then quickly left the relationship click to expand

I don't mean she's the one but I mean i feel I can go long term with her. So any advice? click to expand
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Well for a woman mars means for what type of man she falls for in this case someone who looks clean and well dressed she wants someone who is intellectual and before before sex happens she needs to feel mentally connected. Her venus in libra is her flirting style she might like you but venus in libra tend to keep men on an armlenght when they are not sure or just using you, They don't like someone who is too rude and too straighforward same for the mars in virgo unless she already trusts you enough ofcourse.

Rudeness is a turn off depending in what houses the planets are placed this will not be very easy.

It will take a lot of patience so be cautious since she has a scorpio moon she likes depth so the best thing to do is to make her feel comfortable scorpio moons like to dig deep and want to know your weaknesses and dark sides so best is to be vunerable first at least something.

Not the amount of women but more like dark parts of yourself or things about your life
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Ok dude, stop. Do not confront her. You need confidence, don’t go whining at her cos she didn’t reply. Behind closed doors cry your eyes out of you want, but never confront a girl on this. Plus why waste time on negative things, make he most of your time with her and keep it positive.

But listen, why do you want to text her? To get a date right? Nobody builds a relationship over texting. Always focus on getting a date. Sure, you can’t just jump in and ask straight away, but that should be your goal.

And if I’m reading this right, you made her wait around for you? Don’t be a jerk. What’s wrong with calling her if you were late?
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As far as I'm concerned I'm a Scorpio with Mars in virgo. When I like someone I never disappear if I like him. If I don't like him I tell him that I don't see this going anywhere and we part our ways.
Disappearing is a bit childish. That fidgety Libra Venus.



I'm thinking of confronting her next time I see her, that I don't wanna play games and have no time to be played with. But first I'd like to know what all you Scorpios have to say.

I texted her yesterday morning for Mother's Day and still haven't heard back from her. Like wtf. click to expand
Don't overthink it. But definitely confront her. That libra Venus could cry though and defend the innocent her by saying you are too harsh. People with strong Libra placements are generally not a relationship material (in my opinion). I think the same of pisces. I have a Pisces moon and I'm trying hard not to let it control me. I feel like aries moon more though.
Anyhow, talk to her directly and say what you want. She should appreciate that. If she doesn't, well bye bye.
But, embrace the idea she might have someone on side and is just using you to massage her ego. I truly hope that's not the case. Keep us updated! All the best. click to expand
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Oh I'm ready for the worst haha. I've got a few women I'm talking to just incase this doesn't fall through lol.
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Ok dude, stop. Do not confront her. You need confidence, don’t go whining at her cos she didn’t reply. Behind closed doors cry your eyes out of you want, but never confront a girl on this. Plus why waste time on negative things, make he most of your time with her and keep it positive.
But listen, why do you want to text her? To get a date right? Nobody builds a relationship over texting. Always focus on getting a date. Sure, you can’t just jump in and ask straight away, but that should be your goal.
And if I’m reading this right, you made her wait around for you? Don’t be a jerk. What’s wrong with calling her if you were late?
Ya I made her wait but not on purpose. That being said I won't confront her like face to face and all that.... I'm gonna discreetly ask her what she's trying to accomplish with her and I cause honestly I won't wait around forever and I don't playing games.
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As far as I'm concerned I'm a Scorpio with Mars in virgo. When I like someone I never disappear if I like him. If I don't like him I tell him that I don't see this going anywhere and we part our ways.
Disappearing is a bit childish. That fidgety Libra Venus.



I'm thinking of confronting her next time I see her, that I don't wanna play games and have no time to be played with. But first I'd like to know what all you Scorpios have to say.

I texted her yesterday morning for Mother's Day and still haven't heard back from her. Like wtf. click to expand


Don't overthink it. But definitely confront her. That libra Venus could cry though and defend the innocent her by saying you are too harsh. People with strong Libra placements are generally not a relationship material (in my opinion). I think the same of pisces. I have a Pisces moon and I'm trying hard not to let it control me. I feel like aries moon more though.
Anyhow, talk to her directly and say what you want. She should appreciate that. If she doesn't, well bye bye.
But, embrace the idea she might have someone on side and is just using you to massage her ego. I truly hope that's not the case. Keep us updated! All the best. click to expand



- I did not know that about folks with strong libra placements. I'm not trying to control her or anything but I told her I value 3 things,
Communication, honesty and respect. Always. So her disappearing like this after kissing me and telling me she loves me or somebutter and that we are official isn't right. She did say specifically she is not talking to anyone. And she asked me, to which I replied no I am not. But something tells me she's either seeing someone here or most likely has a man back home in turkey. click to expand
Don't let her play with you. You can find that type of girls everywhere. click to expand
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Oh haha hell no she ain't gonna play me. I ain't really stressing over her I'm just confused.
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When you said you didn’t answer because you was driving was the reason why she was mad. She’s ignoring you because to her that is games watching me call you and you’re not answering. Although you said you don’t have time for games that’s what it looked like. We are very analytical and when we sense any odd behavior or game playing we will ghost you.

Did you apologize for not answering? We are very patient and that is what she is waiting on.

The disappearing act is subjective because if I like someone too much I would ghost to calm down my feelings. Trust me still water runs deep so it is a case by case scenario.
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You met barely a month ago, met twice....she disappears for days.

Could your Aries moon be exaggerating just a little bit?

Slow down and chew.



You've got a point. I just really like this girl, she seems really cool. But my point is she tends to go days without even texting hello or anything. click to expand

Barely a month is three weeks.

Perhaps she has a life? click to expand
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I apologized for coming home late because i was busy studying for finals. She understood, my apology was sent 2 days ago and i still havent heard back from her is my point. A confirmation text doesnt hurt. I dont think your getting my point so i suggest you to stop commenting if you cant help with my situation.
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As far as I'm concerned I'm a Scorpio with Mars in virgo. When I like someone I never disappear if I like him. If I don't like him I tell him that I don't see this going anywhere and we part our ways.
Disappearing is a bit childish. That fidgety Libra Venus.



I'm thinking of confronting her next time I see her, that I don't wanna play games and have no time to be played with. But first I'd like to know what all you Scorpios have to say.

I texted her yesterday morning for Mother's Day and still haven't heard back from her. Like wtf. click to expand


Don't overthink it. But definitely confront her. That libra Venus could cry though and defend the innocent her by saying you are too harsh. People with strong Libra placements are generally not a relationship material (in my opinion). I think the same of pisces. I have a Pisces moon and I'm trying hard not to let it control me. I feel like aries moon more though.
Anyhow, talk to her directly and say what you want. She should appreciate that. If she doesn't, well bye bye.
But, embrace the idea she might have someone on side and is just using you to massage her ego. I truly hope that's not the case. Keep us updated! All the best. click to expand



- I did not know that about folks with strong libra placements. I'm not trying to control her or anything but I told her I value 3 things,
Communication, honesty and respect. Always. So her disappearing like this after kissing me and telling me she loves me or somebutter and that we are official isn't right. She did say specifically she is not talking to anyone. And she asked me, to which I replied no I am not. But something tells me she's either seeing someone here or most likely has a man back home in turkey. click to expand

So, she's a mother....you said happy mother's day
She is from another country.

What does she do?
Where did you meet?

Perhaps instead of attacking her with ultimatums make your communication needs clear.....

Personally, I hate texting. It could be hours before I return a text from my cap and days for others. If I am working or tending to something important...I'm focused and expect my partner to respect that.

You know little to nothing about this woman and you have already planned on branding her.

How would you feel if the tables were turned and someone was coming at you this strongly?

Me? I would run. That has nothing to do with Venus in Libra and everything to do with your pace and irrational expectations of someone you just met. You probably have food in your fridge older than this relationship.

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First off she has no kids but I wished her a happy mothers day because she did tell me she wants many kids. She is 21 and has no kids. She doesnt work sherlock she is on a student visa, hello!!! She is not at school at the moment because we are both on break. We met by her cousins place as her cousin lives in my community. Look for you to act like im a bum and i got no life shows your just a troll. And what in the world are you talking about, "ultimatums"—? ya Friggin kidding me? your psycho in the head.

"You probably have food in your fridge older than this relationship", whaddafuk? I go to school and work full time and i bodybuild so i have to meal prep almost everyday. I barely come here aside from trying to get some insight on a basic question. Get a life, stop trolling and go get a career, my tax money probably goes to your food stamps.
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I met this new Scorpio girl really nice and sweetheart. We've got chemistry and lots of passion and she appreciates my masculininity and gentleness. The other night I saw her for the second time and we kissed passionately I mean passionately!!!

I've noticed one thing, she will go days for not replying to me. Like just like that.

She's a Scorpio sun and moon, her Venus is in libra and mars in Virgo. I'm an Aries sun/moon/mars and my Venus is in Capricorn.

She and I.... I feel she's the one, gimmi a hand here folks lol


I do that to guys I'm not that into. I'll keep responding though from time to time.... Just to keep em on the side in cases of hard times. click to expand
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I wouldn’t really listen to some fat black rude ugly French girl. If you have chemistry tell her you’re feelin the vibe and go for it(:
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I met this new Scorpio girl really nice and sweetheart. We've got chemistry and lots of passion and she appreciates my masculininity and gentleness. The other night I saw her for the second time and we kissed passionately I mean passionately!!!

I've noticed one thing, she will go days for not replying to me. Like just like that.

She's a Scorpio sun and moon, her Venus is in libra and mars in Virgo. I'm an Aries sun/moon/mars and my Venus is in Capricorn.

She and I.... I feel she's the one, gimmi a hand here folks lol
I do that to guys I'm not that into. I'll keep responding though from time to time.... Just to keep em on the side in cases of hard times. click to expand

I wouldn’t really listen to some fat black rude ugly French girl. If you have chemistry tell her you’re feelin the vibe and go for it(: click to expand
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Ya we both have chemistry, very sexual and passionate I should say. Thanks for the support fellow Aries!
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...The other night I saw her for the second time...I feel she's the one, gimmi a hand here folks lol

This is why she's probably disappearing. She may be feeling you, but your energy is more than likely giving off "suffocation". Too many people think that just because you are more accessible due an electronic device means you must be accessible. It doesn't. It's actually quite annoying when someone thinks it does.

Simmer down Ram Moon.
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As far as I'm concerned I'm a Scorpio with Mars in virgo. When I like someone I never disappear if I like him. If I don't like him I tell him that I don't see this going anywhere and we part our ways.
Disappearing is a bit childish. That fidgety Libra Venus.

I'm thinking of confronting her next time I see her, that I don't wanna play games and have no time to be played with. But first I'd like to know what all you Scorpios have to say.

I texted her yesterday morning for Mother's Day and still haven't heard back from her. Like wtf. click to expand
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I really hope someone talked you out of doing this..."confront her" about what? Lol oh Jesus....



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Posted by Mark-23 I was supposed to meet her Saturday evening and she waited for me till 1130 but I didn't get home till 1215 and she sent me a bunch of texts and phone calls asking me where I'm at but I don't reply when I'm driving. So I texted her saying that I'm home and that we can hang out now but I haven't heard from her since then....

Hmph. Here we go. You should have included this in the OP. I'm guessing this has a lot to do with her lack of attention.

I'm gonna assume someone addressed this already, but is there some reason you couldn't call her to let her know you'd be running late?
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She has Venus in libra. She can never decide on "the one". There is always someone better (and it's never the guy she is currently with). She can never decide what she wants. If she is emotionally attracted to a man, her sexual needs aren't satisfied. If she is sexually satisfied, she feels emotional void. I have a couple of friends with Venus in libra. It's a hell for them.

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LOL I was wondering if you would counter this.
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As far as I'm concerned I'm a Scorpio with Mars in virgo. When I like someone I never disappear if I like him. If I don't like him I tell him that I don't see this going anywhere and we part our ways.
Disappearing is a bit childish. That fidgety Libra Venus.

Maybe it's not disappearing at all and she is just busy. click to expand
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Right? She doesn't respond for 2 days after dude stands her up and she "disappeared" lol smh...as if her life was empty and she had nothing going on before he showed up.

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As far as I'm concerned I'm a Scorpio with Mars in virgo. When I like someone I never disappear if I like him. If I don't like him I tell him that I don't see this going anywhere and we part our ways.
Disappearing is a bit childish. That fidgety Libra Venus.



I'm thinking of confronting her next time I see her, that I don't wanna play games and have no time to be played with. But first I'd like to know what all you Scorpios have to say.

I texted her yesterday morning for Mother's Day and still haven't heard back from her. Like wtf. click to expand
I really hope someone talked you out of doing this..."confront her" about what? Lol oh Jesus....



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No no I decided it wasn't a good idea.
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You've seen her twice and you're declaring she's 'the one...'

Based on what exactly?

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Typical fire sign behavior. Lol this is what scares Scorpios away, because they come on strong in the beginning, which makes a Scorpio feel desired and secure, then when the challenge is gone the Aries attraction to the Scorpio fizzles and the aries gets lazy.

I’ve felt extreme attraction to aries before, but this behavior is what kept me from ever pursuing anything because I knew he wasn’t serious about me. He just liked the fact that I was a challenge. click to expand
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I've actually stuck around even when the challenge and the flame is out because that's how I am I'm quite faithful contrary to my chart.
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As far as I'm concerned I'm a Scorpio with Mars in virgo. When I like someone I never disappear if I like him. If I don't like him I tell him that I don't see this going anywhere and we part our ways.
Disappearing is a bit childish. That fidgety Libra Venus.



I'm thinking of confronting her next time I see her, that I don't wanna play games and have no time to be played with. But first I'd like to know what all you Scorpios have to say.

I texted her yesterday morning for Mother's Day and still haven't heard back from her. Like wtf. click to expand


I really hope someone talked you out of doing this..."confront her" about what? Lol oh Jesus....



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No no I decided it wasn't a good idea.
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Good, so have things improved? Did you perhaps pick up the phone and call her?
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As far as I'm concerned I'm a Scorpio with Mars in virgo. When I like someone I never disappear if I like him. If I don't like him I tell him that I don't see this going anywhere and we part our ways.
Disappearing is a bit childish. That fidgety Libra Venus.



I'm thinking of confronting her next time I see her, that I don't wanna play games and have no time to be played with. But first I'd like to know what all you Scorpios have to say.

I texted her yesterday morning for Mother's Day and still haven't heard back from her. Like wtf. click to expand

Maybe she doesn’t like texting. Try calling instead. click to expand
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Ya I don't like to chase or anything instead I'd like to get feedback from others when I'm in this kinda situation. I mean I haven't heard from her since Saturday night so I don't know and it's not like she's a Firesign where I'd know how to handle the situation.

If she's over it then she's over it I ain't gonna stress over it. I apologize to her that night for being late and she understood that this week is my finals and that I was studying with the students from my class which is why I was running late
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...The other night I saw her for the second time...I feel she's the one, gimmi a hand here folks lol
This is why she's probably disappearing. She may be feeling you, but your energy is more than likely giving off "suffocation". Too many people think that just because you are more accessible due an electronic device means you must be accessible. It doesn't. It's actually quite annoying when someone thinks it does.

Simmer down Ram Moon. click to expand
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1.) i'm just very open and very confident and very social and a lot of people see that as a problem and they get offended because not a lot of people open the way I am but it's a double edge sword because I also get easily hurt

2.) I guess I could agree with you because I do give a lot of affection of the too much and many times I've felt in relationships and in dating wise that I've gotten very little in return
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Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Toti
As far as I'm concerned I'm a Scorpio with Mars in virgo. When I like someone I never disappear if I like him. If I don't like him I tell him that I don't see this going anywhere and we part our ways.
Disappearing is a bit childish. That fidgety Libra Venus.



I'm thinking of confronting her next time I see her, that I don't wanna play games and have no time to be played with. But first I'd like to know what all you Scorpios have to say.

I texted her yesterday morning for Mother's Day and still haven't heard back from her. Like wtf. click to expand


I really hope someone talked you out of doing this..."confront her" about what? Lol oh Jesus....



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No no I decided it wasn't a good idea.
Good, so have things improved? Did you perhaps pick up the phone and call her? click to expand
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I haven't called or texted since Saturday evening since I saw her texts and phone calls, when I apologized to her I just want to give her spac, at the moment and let her.
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Posted by Mark-23
Posted by Toti
As far as I'm concerned I'm a Scorpio with Mars in virgo. When I like someone I never disappear if I like him. If I don't like him I tell him that I don't see this going anywhere and we part our ways.
Disappearing is a bit childish. That fidgety Libra Venus.



I'm thinking of confronting her next time I see her, that I don't wanna play games and have no time to be played with. But first I'd like to know what all you Scorpios have to say.

I texted her yesterday morning for Mother's Day and still haven't heard back from her. Like wtf. click to expand


I really hope someone talked you out of doing this..."confront her" about what? Lol oh Jesus....



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No no I decided it wasn't a good idea.
Good, so have things improved? Did you perhaps pick up the phone and call her? click to expand
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I haven't called or texted since Saturday evening since I saw her texts and phone calls, when I apologized to her I just want to give her space at moment. I was thinking she was going to call me or text me later but it's been 3-4 days now. Lol thats why im here askin what's up with all ya scorpios haha you guys are cool folks btw
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lol damn maybe I need an Aries lol kidding but ya I think she definitely took it the wrong way when you were late and didn't give her a proper heads up. A notice is better than an apology. I would stress of her anymore at this point, unfortunately, we think the words revolve around us so being late/ flaking translates to us feeling a lack of interest even though you had a very real and honest reason. If she can't understand that and wont give you another chance to make it up, she wasn't that into you to start. Scorps, we put up with more than we need to when we're really into someone
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Posted by Mark-23 I was supposed to meet her Saturday evening and she waited for me till 1130 but I didn't get home till 1215 and she sent me a bunch of texts and phone calls asking me where I'm at but I don't reply when I'm driving. So I texted her saying that I'm home and that we can hang out now but I haven't heard from her since then....
Hmph. Here we go. You should have included this in the OP. I'm guessing this has a lot to do with her lack of attention.

I'm gonna assume someone addressed this already, but is there some reason you couldn't call her to let her know you'd be running late? click to expand
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You know thing is I'm changing my cell service cause these guys are charging me too much and I'm either at work or school or gym or home. I got wifi all over through that I use iMessage and whatsapp. She's an international student so she uses whatsapp to call everyone basically. I couldn't call her when I was driving because I had no wifi 😢 or else I wouldn't be posting here I'd be taking her out on a date
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