Deciding between 2 guys (Could someone help me interpret this? Thanks a lot!)

Hello there, I am deciding between 2 guys. Option 1 is my ex, who contacted me a few weeks ago but is MIA right now. Option 2 is a new guy whom I have been chatting with for the past couple of weeks. I want to know if I should wait for my ex or if I shoul
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  • Posted by bostongigi
    Neither, the ex is over and the new is not a good choice either. How did you pull the knight of swords twice? Do you read a double deck? If you did a reading and the knight of swords is already laid down how did you lay it again twice In the same spread? Could it have been knight of swords and king of swords?


    Thank you. I finally am finding some strength to move on from the ex, taking baby steps. I think I will just keep my options open.
    I used an online tarot site (http://www.freetarotcardreadingsonline.com/free-tarot-card-readings/) to draw the cards. The system generated the cards (and that's why the same card appeared twice).
  • Neither, the ex is over and the new is not a good choice either. How did you pull the knight of swords twice? Do you read a double deck? If you did a reading and the knight of swords is already laid down how did you lay it again twice In the same spread? Could it have been knight of swords and king of swords?
  • Posted by LunarMaiden
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by LunarMaiden
    Don't choose, date them both.
    One is MIA
    The other you have only been chatting with for a few weeks.
    It's too soon to go soft on anyone.
    Enjoy the attention and decided when it gets serious.


    I like the way you think lol
    I guess it's too early to make a decision.
    I feel if I choose the new person, I shoud try to start from a clean slate and block my ex on everything.
    But maybe that's not necessary at this point yet since things are not getting serious yet.


    Unless you and the new guy have discussed being exclusive and it's what you both want then yes block the ex.

    But if you are just dating there is no slate to clean.
    You are not obligated to end all of your other dates.
    Ex is not your boyfriend, he is just a guy who is flirting, coming and going.
    Unless you really don't want to be bothered with him then I would say block the ex.
    I would just phase him toward the background. Not make him a priority.


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    Thank you for the advice!
    You are right--The new guy and I have not discussed being exclusive. I guess I tend to take everything too seriously. Silly me.
    I will just see how it goes with the new guy while keep my options open smile
  • Posted by sagsagsag
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    @sagsagsag
    I am not sure if the cards below will help clarify the situation or if you have a website that I can go to to just draw 3 cards. Thank you!

    card 1: situation: Tarot Cards - The Nine of Pentacles
    card 2: you in the partnership: Tarot Cards - The Ten of Swords
    card 3: your partner: Tarot Cards - The Page of Wands
    card 4: history: Tarot Cards - The Knight of Pentacles
    card 5: future: Tarot Cards - The Page of Pentacles
    card 6: your expectations: Tarot Cards - The Nine of Pentacles
    card 7: your fears: Tarot Card - The Magician
    card 8: your contributions: Tarot Cards - The Six of Swords
    card 9: where you could improve: Tarot Card - The Fool
    card 10: your partner's expectations: Tarot Cards - The Seven of Wands
    card 11: your partner's fears: Tarot Cards - The King of Pentacles
    card 12: your partner's contributions: Tarot Card - The Emperor
    card 13: where your partner can improve: Tarot Cards - The Three of Swords


    So, you feel good and happy about life but the only thing you're missing right now is love.

    You need closure dont you?

    You are not even sure you want this person back and solve the issue and charm his way out so that you two could experience what you had in the past.


    Yes, the unwavering devotion is there for you both in the past and in the future if it's still going like this both of you will enter a period where you will examine the situation intently.

    The advise is to open up your heart, trying new things, to be able to trust love again even if it's not with your ex. You're moving on right now but with baby steps and everytime you get one foot out of the door and look back and feel sad and victimised.

    I'm not saying your ex is the right one i mean he's a page, still immature and is afraid of being tied down/controlled. He wants to do things his own way. And, no he wont reach out for now, there's something that he's defending. Something that he feels he's in the right. He wants you to persist.

    Look up the meaning of the fool card. That's always the best advise ?


    advise is the game of tarot, it never commands ?
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    Thank you So Much, sagsagsag! You are wonderful! Your analysis of my situation is spot on!
    I looked up the fool card. I think I will just keep my ex blocked, keep an open mind, and explore new opportunities. ???
  • LunarMaiden
    female from July 11
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by LunarMaiden
    Don't choose, date them both.
    One is MIA
    The other you have only been chatting with for a few weeks.
    It's too soon to go soft on anyone.
    Enjoy the attention and decided when it gets serious.


    I like the way you think lol
    I guess it's too early to make a decision.
    I feel if I choose the new person, I shoud try to start from a clean slate and block my ex on everything.
    But maybe that's not necessary at this point yet since things are not getting serious yet.
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    Unless you and the new guy have discussed being exclusive and it's what you both want then yes block the ex.

    But if you are just dating there is no slate to clean.
    You are not obligated to end all of your other dates.
    Ex is not your boyfriend, he is just a guy who is flirting, coming and going.
    Unless you really don't want to be bothered with him then I would say block the ex.
    I would just phase him toward the background. Not make him a priority.


  • Posted by SofiaV87
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by SofiaV87
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by SofiaV87
    Why did u & the ex break up ?


    He had not cheated when we were together, but he did show some usual interests towards my roommate at a time, so that was a red flag right there. He had a temper and I felt mistreated when he was impatient with me or got mad over minor things (e.g. me telling him I wanted to sleep for 10 more minutes when he got to my place to pick me up to go to his place while we did not really need to get to his place within a certain time.)

    The last straw was that he was not very respectful around my family (e.g. he would leave his trash everywhere in the living room of my parents' house instead of throwing it away himself. I did not feel it's ok for him to not respect my parents' living space.).

    I still love him and I think he still has feelings for me still. When he's not impatient with me, he's caring and sweet. However, I am not sure if these things I mentioned above could be resolved or if it's worth it for us to even try again.


    How old is he & how long were u guys together ?


    He is 27. We dated for 7 months. We broke up in late July/early August 2016.
    We didn't end things well...


    New guy
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    Thanks!
  • SofiaV87
    aries sun*piscesmoon*virgo rising*LeebMars*AquaVenus
    female
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by SofiaV87
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by SofiaV87
    Why did u & the ex break up ?


    He had not cheated when we were together, but he did show some usual interests towards my roommate at a time, so that was a red flag right there. He had a temper and I felt mistreated when he was impatient with me or got mad over minor things (e.g. me telling him I wanted to sleep for 10 more minutes when he got to my place to pick me up to go to his place while we did not really need to get to his place within a certain time.)

    The last straw was that he was not very respectful around my family (e.g. he would leave his trash everywhere in the living room of my parents' house instead of throwing it away himself. I did not feel it's ok for him to not respect my parents' living space.).

    I still love him and I think he still has feelings for me still. When he's not impatient with me, he's caring and sweet. However, I am not sure if these things I mentioned above could be resolved or if it's worth it for us to even try again.


    How old is he & how long were u guys together ?


    He is 27. We dated for 7 months. We broke up in late July/early August 2016.
    We didn't end things well...
    click to expand


    New guy
  • I think it's strange that when I begin to feel excited about the new person, I begin to feel sadder about my ex at the same time.
  • Posted by SofiaV87
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by SofiaV87
    Why did u & the ex break up ?


    He had not cheated when we were together, but he did show some usual interests towards my roommate at a time, so that was a red flag right there. He had a temper and I felt mistreated when he was impatient with me or got mad over minor things (e.g. me telling him I wanted to sleep for 10 more minutes when he got to my place to pick me up to go to his place while we did not really need to get to his place within a certain time.)

    The last straw was that he was not very respectful around my family (e.g. he would leave his trash everywhere in the living room of my parents' house instead of throwing it away himself. I did not feel it's ok for him to not respect my parents' living space.).

    I still love him and I think he still has feelings for me still. When he's not impatient with me, he's caring and sweet. However, I am not sure if these things I mentioned above could be resolved or if it's worth it for us to even try again.


    How old is he & how long were u guys together ?
    click to expand


    He is 27. We dated for 7 months. We broke up in late July/early August 2016.
    We didn't end things well...
  • Posted by LunarMaiden
    Don't choose, date them both.
    One is MIA
    The other you have only been chatting with for a few weeks.
    It's too soon to go soft on anyone.
    Enjoy the attention and decided when it gets serious.


    I like the way you think lol
    I guess it's too early to make a decision.
    I feel if I choose the new person, I shoud try to start from a clean slate and block my ex on everything.
    But maybe that's not necessary at this point yet since things are not getting serious yet.
  • SofiaV87
    aries sun*piscesmoon*virgo rising*LeebMars*AquaVenus
    female
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by SofiaV87
    Why did u & the ex break up ?


    He had not cheated when we were together, but he did show some usual interests towards my roommate at a time, so that was a red flag right there. He had a temper and I felt mistreated when he was impatient with me or got mad over minor things (e.g. me telling him I wanted to sleep for 10 more minutes when he got to my place to pick me up to go to his place while we did not really need to get to his place within a certain time.)

    The last straw was that he was not very respectful around my family (e.g. he would leave his trash everywhere in the living room of my parents' house instead of throwing it away himself. I did not feel it's ok for him to not respect my parents' living space.).

    I still love him and I think he still has feelings for me still. When he's not impatient with me, he's caring and sweet. However, I am not sure if these things I mentioned above could be resolved or if it's worth it for us to even try again.
    click to expand


    How old is he & how long were u guys together ?
  • LunarMaiden
    female from July 11
    Don't choose, date them both.
    One is MIA
    The other you have only been chatting with for a few weeks.
    It's too soon to go soft on anyone.
    Enjoy the attention and decided when it gets serious.
  • I think I mainly need to decide if I should consider another go with my ex or I should move on. I have been blocking and unblocking him for the past couple of days Sad
    Part of me really really really want to move on from him, but my emotions do not agree.
  • Posted by SofiaV87
    Why did u & the ex break up ?


    He had not cheated when we were together, but he did show some usual interests towards my roommate at a time, so that was a red flag right there. He had a temper and I felt mistreated when he was impatient with me or got mad over minor things (e.g. me telling him I wanted to sleep for 10 more minutes when he got to my place to pick me up to go to his place while we did not really need to get to his place within a certain time.)

    The last straw was that he was not very respectful around my family (e.g. he would leave his trash everywhere in the living room of my parents' house instead of throwing it away himself. I did not feel it's ok for him to not respect my parents' living space.).

    I still love him and I think he still has feelings for me still. When he's not impatient with me, he's caring and sweet. However, I am not sure if these things I mentioned above could be resolved or if it's worth it for us to even try again.
  • Posted by sagsagsag
    Any fire sign or earth sign in the relationship?


    the new guy is leo.
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