Avoiding calls

My ex and I have been broken up for awhile now and we have maintained a pretty good friendship. We talk often, but it's usually over text. I recently noticed a pattern. Whenever I tell him to call me he won't. It's like he avoids it like I'm not even sayi
Capri__unicornOctober 21, 2017 10:23am
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  • Capri__unicorn
    cap sun. cap moon
    Posted by TaurusBull1977
    @Capri-Unicorn....

    It's a mixture of laziness, complacency, and doing things on his 'terms' only.

    I'm a Bull, I should know.

    My advice,

    Don't provide him with a pillow to lean on.
    He's not going to give you an answer, because there are no penalties involved with 'non responses.'
    Either way, you will continue to text.

    The worst thing you could do with a Bull?
    Is allowing us to get comfortable with a routine.
    A volcano will erupt before he comes out of this pattern.

    If he sends a text,
    Don't respond.
    You're not obligated to.
    Your response is a courtesy.
    Not an obligation.
    The both of you are no longer committed.

    Be sure to tell him this.


    This is exactly what I need to do and for some odd reason it feels like the most difficult thing to do. I value my old relationships because they have always started off as deep friendships first. It's always easy to say "just forget them". I wouldn't just forget my best female friend. I tried to communicate how he does things on his terms and he went on a tangent about something totally unrelated. I'm not sure if I should care enough to correct him or just accept that this is who he will always be. Almost every Taurus I've ever dated has been like this. I could tell them something that they're doing that I don't like and they will not change. It took my other ex years to understand what I was saying. I just left the other Taurus over 7 years ago and now he realizes what he did back then 🙄 I'm so drained and I feel like I'm going to have to cut him off cold turkey. His stubborn ass won't even care

  • DeadInside
    they'll bend the knee
    Posted by Breezeybusy
    Posted by DeadInside
    it's your ex, just move the treetrunk out.


    burn all the picture, block, erase everything. its time to start a new game.



    Well, well, well, at least we agree on something...
    click to expand


    leave me alone
  • DeadInside
    they'll bend the knee
    it's your ex, just move the treetrunk out.


    burn all the picture, block, erase everything. its time to start a new game.

  • TaurusBull1977
    Sun:01?? 46' in Taurus Moon:10?? 31' in Gemini Mercury:14?? 21' in Taurus
    female from New York City Baby!
    @Capri-Unicorn....

    It's a mixture of laziness, complacency, and doing things on his 'terms' only.

    I'm a Bull, I should know.

    My advice,

    Don't provide him with a pillow to lean on.
    He's not going to give you an answer, because there are no penalties involved with 'non responses.'
    Either way, you will continue to text.

    The worst thing you could do with a Bull?
    Is allowing us to get comfortable with a routine.
    A volcano will erupt before he comes out of this pattern.

    If he sends a text,
    Don't respond.
    You're not obligated to.
    Your response is a courtesy.
    Not an obligation.
    The both of you are no longer committed.

    Be sure to tell him this.
  • lisabethur8
    Married, middleaged parttime housewife, Aqua-sun/Cap/Pisces/Taurus,married to,S
    female
    Posted by Arielle83
    No he's still trying to move on.


    this.


    get yourself busy,OP,

    do other stuff in your life that makes you fulfilled. Dont wait around for a man. You want them to want you.

    unless you got scorpio venus,aries mars (heehee) then you go and stalk them where they hang out, and hope they catch bait. TongueLaughing


    edit -- like this,


    *ohh he hangs out there?* *goes to dress up prettily*

    "waits* heehee...

    *perks up when sees who she desires*


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  • Yea, what they said above ^.

    Don't force it, or force him, if you really want him back that is.
  • pinkbird03
    Cancer đź’•
    He isn’t ready to let go of you completely, yet he doesn’t want you to get too attached to him because he doesn’t want a serious relationship with you.
  • Arielle83
    Good c.u.n.t.
    No he's still trying to move on.
  • Capri__unicorn
    cap sun. cap moon
    Posted by lnana04
    Taurus males are weird lol. You never know with them. It could be something crazy like thinking phone calls are for girlfriends.

    If yall are already texting a lot, talking on the phone a lot too may seem like yall are still together. Maybe it's him drawing the line somewhere. Who knows.


    Yo I just called him that the other day. I specifically said "you're weird" because he does some of the craziest nonsense I've ever seen.

  • Taurus males are weird lol. You never know with them. It could be something crazy like thinking phone calls are for girlfriends.

    If yall are already texting a lot, talking on the phone a lot too may seem like yall are still together. Maybe it's him drawing the line somewhere. Who knows.
  • Capri__unicorn
    cap sun. cap moon
    My ex and I have been broken up for awhile now and we have maintained a pretty good friendship. We talk often, but it's usually over text. I recently noticed a pattern. Whenever I tell him to call me he won't. It's like he avoids it like I'm not even saying it at all. Most times I would brush it off. Figure maybe he's dating someone and doesn't want it to be an issue or he's busy but he won't even say what it is. He knows I'm a very easy person to explain almost anything to. Tonight I asked why does he avoid calling and he just stopped texting. I'd understand if the conversation would be about the relationship or I nagged him about something, but most times it's because we're having a good convo or text and my circumstances are about to change so it would be more feasible for me to speak. Idk what else to do about it at this point. Maybe he doesn't like talking to me or hates my voice lol. But he will text all day so I'm butter out of luck. What do you guys think

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