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would any of you try to maintain a close friendship with someone who is only there when it suits them? like they are there when they need you. but if you need them and they're not in the mood they're not there for you? i have a couple of those people i
would any of you try to maintain a close friendship with someone who is only there when it suits them? like they are there when they need you. but if you need them and they're not in the mood they're not there for you?

i have a couple of those people in my life. and i've become progressively more snarky with them. i'm afraid it's gonna eventually end with a huge blow up.

i'm not sure if i should just detach a bit and be less close. or kick them to the curb.

i've spent a lot of time and energy into these friendships though and don't really feel like giving up completely.
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Only if they realized they are dicks at times then buy me stuff to make up for it.

I blow people off from time to time, but try to make up for it anyway I can.
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Posted by rekt
would any of you try to maintain a close friendship with someone who is only there when it suits them? like they are there when they need you. but if you need them and they're not in the mood they're not there for you?

i have a couple of those people in my life. and i've become progressively more snarky with them. i'm afraid it's gonna eventually end with a huge blow up.

i'm not sure if i should just detach a bit and be less close. or kick them to the curb.

i've spent a lot of time and energy into these friendships though and don't really feel like giving up completely.


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Those are not friends.

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21 years old female
Leo sun. Aries moon. Leo venus. Taurus rising. Virgo mercury. Libra mars.
No, I wouldn't maintain a friendship with someone like that. I believe that it is very selfish of that friend to behave that way. There are two sides to a functioning friendship/relationship and you can constantly give while the other side takes, it's not fair. I once had a friend like that and I had to cut if off, I told her about her behavior and she wasn't listening so I just stopped giving so much of myself and the friendship ended itself. Just because you put time and energy into a friendship doesn't mean that you should continue it, if you have let the other person know about their behavior and they still haven't changed it. Let me know what happens!
Posted by yupvirgoo
what is your sun sign?


i'm a taurus.
31 years old female
Gemini Sun Virgo Moon Libra Ascending
I'm in the same boat as is another one of my friends with one of her girlfriends.

I do have friendships I maintain even when it seems a bit unbalanced, but only because I know those individuals are just more independent and distracted, they don't intend to be selfish.

HOWEVER, my very close Aquarius girlfriend has become notorious for BBDing (bigger better deal)...she will make "loose plans" with you, so that if something better comes up, she'll ditch you and say "we didn't have set in stone plans." Or she will say she can't hangout because she has to help her mom or something and then will post pictures of her out with other friends. Forget Geminis being fibbers, I find Aquarius women to flat out LIE. This particular Aquarius friend of mine is known amongst her colleagues as "the excluder" because she will purposely exclude certain people from social things after work for no reason. People who are ordinarily included in happy hour or whatever else, will be left off the group e-mail or group text on purpose. She never has an explanation, she's just a bully.

I've been friends with her for 10+ years and I've finally had enough.

If someone isn't bringing positivity into your life and helping you grow and you're mutually influential on each other, no thank you.

Surround yourself with people who WANT to spend time with you, who are happy to go out of their way for you and who you actually enjoy being around and learning from.
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Posted by rekt
Posted by yupvirgoo
what is your sun sign?


i'm a taurus.


do you have a Leo moon?
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i'm an aries moon. the only leo i have in my chart at all is my descendant.

and hell most of that house is in virgo. so.
Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus
Posted by Montgomery


Those are not friends.



No they aren't Monty
lol I don't surround myself with butter like that.

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Cut em loose love. Real friends don't make you question your friendship.
Taurus Sun/Rising - Cap Moon - Aries Venus/Mercury - Pisces Mars
Posted by ashley1734
I'm in the same boat as is another one of my friends with one of her girlfriends.

I do have friendships I maintain even when it seems a bit unbalanced, but only because I know those individuals are just more independent and distracted, they don't intend to be selfish.

HOWEVER, my very close Aquarius girlfriend has become notorious for BBDing (bigger better deal)...she will make "loose plans" with you, so that if something better comes up, she'll ditch you and say "we didn't have set in stone plans." Or she will say she can't hangout because she has to help her mom or something and then will post pictures of her out with other friends. Forget Geminis being fibbers, I find Aquarius women to flat out LIE. This particular Aquarius friend of mine is known amongst her colleagues as "the excluder" because she will purposely exclude certain people from social things after work for no reason. People who are ordinarily included in happy hour or whatever else, will be left off the group e-mail or group text on purpose. She never has an explanation, she's just a bully.

I've been friends with her for 10+ years and I've finally had enough.

If someone isn't bringing positivity into your life and helping you grow and you're mutually influential on each other, no thank you.

Surround yourself with people who WANT to spend time with you, who are happy to go out of their way for you and who you actually enjoy being around and learning from.


good for you for finally getting away from the Aqua ... and yes, some people are more independent and distracted but if they are being selfish and they don't know it - tell them and then you will find out what kind of person they really are
Pisces sun, Aries moon, Leo rising
I had a few people in my life like that. Most notably a cancer female whom I had know for over a decade. I though we had one of those friendships that transcends into sisterhood. However she never made an effort at the end and over some really butterty moves she made I finally cut her out of my life.

Then everything started to fall into place for me, personal and career wise. It may not be related, but I think it certainly contributed.
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I personally find myself too busy to entertain my friends but I try my best to make time for them. I don't use them to my convinence but I'm not there as much as I should be, and that's okay it doesn't make me a bad friend!

I only come around if I have free time which is every blue moon! πŸŒ™ πŸ’™
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