Getting through to the Taurus Man....Slow and steady wins the race...But how?

I am a cancer female dating a taurus male. we've known of each other for almost a decade, were interested in each other back in the day, but never dated, due to both of us being in relationships. recently we have back come in contact and realized we still
Dear Cancer,

I feel there is a lot of potential in your relationship since you already know each other on and off for a decade. You are financially sound and your Taurus has dropped a lot of signs that he is interested in you.

Maybe you can meet up with him more and try to become a part of his routine, since you know each other for so long. Drop hints about things you would like to do with him. Dress feminine and encourage him. I feel he is waiting for you to want him.

Good Luck!!!
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Very valid point...he brought her up bc i asked if there was any other person in the picture....he responded yes, and did say that he once thought he could see himself with her, but that doesn't mean that they are going to be together....he then said that they aren't having sex, "or anything", like there was nothing really going on with her....i didn't pry bc i honestly don't care in the sense of being insecure, but the reason why it crossed my mind is bc i don't compete with females for male attention...just not that desperate....but i do like him and don't wanna throw things away based upon an assumption....

Hi Jean, im more of a talk everyday type...when i am interested in someone i don't like days to go by without hearing from that person...im not saying that i need to be on the phone 24/7...just a call here, a text there...bc you make time for what you want, imo


A typical Taurus may not be for you then. They will become occupied with other things. They are fairly independent and I think from my experience, they expect you to be the same.

I speak to my partner fairly regularly but not everyday. There will be the odd days where he will get on with whatever he needs to deal with. Sometimes I will text and he might not respond for a few hours if he is busy. Its not personal. He's just busy.

Especially while you are only dating and not in a exclusive relationship you might need to change your expectations.


Jeanne
I am always admiring your wits BUT here I must chime in!
There no such thing too busy to text or call!
If he cares, loves you and all - there is no such busy mode!
I once said - I don't want to hear this nonsense! You go to the bathroom? Text me HI I am ok how are you busy will call later...or tomorrow...
And he does!!! Because he cares!!!
Otherwise I would doubt his feelings.
And you know I am talking about Scorpio! Who's mind can be changed...never! Lol


So are you saying that my partner doesn't love me?


For me that would be a huge problem!
Because when I love someone that person is on my mind all the time.
I am never too busy to forget his existence! I can hardly imagine what would I have to be doing to be too busy to not to want to hear his voice and have a few laughs together. 5 min conversation does wonders! WHO doesn't have 5 minutes?
And I am talking about crazy Scorp who makes himself busy if he can relax. Being relaxed is not natural for him. However there is always driving or being at the store or just finishing something and taking a break before starting something new to tell me what happened and what's is going to happen...
Seems just natural!


Hmm, maybe I should break up with him then...


It is just a talk we have here. If something that bothers me doesn't bother you - just do what you feels right for you.
But when advice given to the other person we both have a say. Don't we?
I just can not imagine him doesn't want to say hello. That would make me sad and wondering and paranoid. But it's me.


It really doesn't bother me. If he was calling me to tell me what is happening and what is going to happen, it would drive me up the wall. I don't need and frankly, am not interested in that level of detail. I'm not his mother. We can discuss the big events when we see each other.

And yes, he can get too busy. Juggling kids, businesses, customers and family issues - sometimes it gets to 2 in the morning when he finally stops, I don't want a phone call then to say hi.

I'm busy too sometimes working 16 hour days. I barely have time for the toilet at times, should I call him when he is also busy to discuss our day when deadlines are pursuing me?

It doesn't mean that we aren't thinking of each other, it just means we are focused on other things.

We are not the centre of each others lives. He is not of mine and I don't want to be of his.

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Amen to this ^^^^

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How long have you guys been together? Since I've been coming on here you've been w/ ur Taurus and it seems like it's been awhile.


Friends for nearly 4 years, together for nearly 3.


Are you madly in love?


I love him with my all my being. I would cross shark infested oceans, climb into the deepest volcano and wrestle anacondas for him. Madly, utterly, deeply in love. He is the first thing I think of when I wake, the last thing when I sleep and he is on my mind more times during the day than is reasonably healthy. I can't imagine my life without him in it.
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You sound like a Scorp!! Lol
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Posted by Capri__unicorn

How long have you guys been together? Since I've been coming on here you've been w/ ur Taurus and it seems like it's been awhile.


Friends for nearly 4 years, together for nearly 3.


Are you madly in love?


I love him with my all my being. I would cross shark infested oceans, climb into the deepest volcano and wrestle anacondas for him. Madly, utterly, deeply in love. He is the first thing I think of when I wake, the last thing when I sleep and he is on my mind more times during the day than is reasonably healthy. I can't imagine my life without him in it.


Awwwww...how sweet and romantic!
Wishing you all the happiness!
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Thank you.

How long have you been with your scorp?
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Posted by jeane
Posted by Capri__unicorn

How long have you guys been together? Since I've been coming on here you've been w/ ur Taurus and it seems like it's been awhile.


Friends for nearly 4 years, together for nearly 3.


Are you madly in love?


I love him with my all my being. I would cross shark infested oceans, climb into the deepest volcano and wrestle anacondas for him. Madly, utterly, deeply in love. He is the first thing I think of when I wake, the last thing when I sleep and he is on my mind more times during the day than is reasonably healthy. I can't imagine my life without him in it.
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Awwwww...how sweet and romantic!
Wishing you all the happiness!
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by jeane
Posted by Capri__unicorn

How long have you guys been together? Since I've been coming on here you've been w/ ur Taurus and it seems like it's been awhile.


Friends for nearly 4 years, together for nearly 3.


Are you madly in love?
click to expand


I love him with my all my being. I would cross shark infested oceans, climb into the deepest volcano and wrestle anacondas for him. Madly, utterly, deeply in love. He is the first thing I think of when I wake, the last thing when I sleep and he is on my mind more times during the day than is reasonably healthy. I can't imagine my life without him in it.
Posted by jeane
Posted by Capri__unicorn

How long have you guys been together? Since I've been coming on here you've been w/ ur Taurus and it seems like it's been awhile.


Friends for nearly 4 years, together for nearly 3.
click to expand


Are you madly in love?
cap sun. cap moon
Posted by jeane
Posted by Capri__unicorn

How long have you guys been together? Since I've been coming on here you've been w/ ur Taurus and it seems like it's been awhile.


Friends for nearly 4 years, together for nearly 3.
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Oh ok nice.
Posted by Capri__unicorn

How long have you guys been together? Since I've been coming on here you've been w/ ur Taurus and it seems like it's been awhile.


Friends for nearly 4 years, together for nearly 3.
cap sun. cap moon
Posted by jeane
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by jeane
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by jeane
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by jeane
Posted by countrygirl88
Very valid point...he brought her up bc i asked if there was any other person in the picture....he responded yes, and did say that he once thought he could see himself with her, but that doesn't mean that they are going to be together....he then said that they aren't having sex, "or anything", like there was nothing really going on with her....i didn't pry bc i honestly don't care in the sense of being insecure, but the reason why it crossed my mind is bc i don't compete with females for male attention...just not that desperate....but i do like him and don't wanna throw things away based upon an assumption....

Hi Jean, im more of a talk everyday type...when i am interested in someone i don't like days to go by without hearing from that person...im not saying that i need to be on the phone 24/7...just a call here, a text there...bc you make time for what you want, imo


A typical Taurus may not be for you then. They will become occupied with other things. They are fairly independent and I think from my experience, they expect you to be the same.

I speak to my partner fairly regularly but not everyday. There will be the odd days where he will get on with whatever he needs to deal with. Sometimes I will text and he might not respond for a few hours if he is busy. Its not personal. He's just busy.

Especially while you are only dating and not in a exclusive relationship you might need to change your expectations.


Jeanne
I am always admiring your wits BUT here I must chime in!
There no such thing too busy to text or call!
If he cares, loves you and all - there is no such busy mode!
I once said - I don't want to hear this nonsense! You go to the bathroom? Text me HI I am ok how are you busy will call later...or tomorrow...
And he does!!! Because he cares!!!
Otherwise I would doubt his feelings.
And you know I am talking about Scorpio! Who's mind can be changed...never! Lol


So are you saying that my partner doesn't love me?


For me that would be a huge problem!
Because when I love someone that person is on my mind all the time.
I am never too busy to forget his existence! I can hardly imagine what would I have to be doing to be too busy to not to want to hear his voice and have a few laughs together. 5 min conversation does wonders! WHO doesn't have 5 minutes?
And I am talking about crazy Scorp who makes himself busy if he can relax. Being relaxed is not natural for him. However there is always driving or being at the store or just finishing something and taking a break before starting something new to tell me what happened and what's is going to happen...
Seems just natural!


Hmm, maybe I should break up with him then...


It is just a talk we have here. If something that bothers me doesn't bother you - just do what you feels right for you.
But when advice given to the other person we both have a say. Don't we?
I just can not imagine him doesn't want to say hello. That would make me sad and wondering and paranoid. But it's me.


It really doesn't bother me. If he was calling me to tell me what is happening and what is going to happen, it would drive me up the wall. I don't need and frankly, am not interested in that level of detail. I'm not his mother. We can discuss the big events when we see each other.

And yes, he can get too busy. Juggling kids, businesses, customers and family issues - sometimes it gets to 2 in the morning when he finally stops, I don't want a phone call then to say hi.

I'm busy too sometimes working 16 hour days. I barely have time for the toilet at times, should I call him when he is also busy to discuss our day when deadlines are pursuing me?

It doesn't mean that we aren't thinking of each other, it just means we are focused on other things.

We are not the centre of each others lives. He is not of mine and I don't want to be of his.

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How long have you guys been together? Since I've been coming on here you've been w/ ur Taurus and it seems like it's been awhile.

Posted by Gemitati
Posted by jeane
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by jeane
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by jeane
Posted by countrygirl88
Very valid point...he brought her up bc i asked if there was any other person in the picture....he responded yes, and did say that he once thought he could see himself with her, but that doesn't mean that they are going to be together....he then said that they aren't having sex, "or anything", like there was nothing really going on with her....i didn't pry bc i honestly don't care in the sense of being insecure, but the reason why it crossed my mind is bc i don't compete with females for male attention...just not that desperate....but i do like him and don't wanna throw things away based upon an assumption....

Hi Jean, im more of a talk everyday type...when i am interested in someone i don't like days to go by without hearing from that person...im not saying that i need to be on the phone 24/7...just a call here, a text there...bc you make time for what you want, imo


A typical Taurus may not be for you then. They will become occupied with other things. They are fairly independent and I think from my experience, they expect you to be the same.

I speak to my partner fairly regularly but not everyday. There will be the odd days where he will get on with whatever he needs to deal with. Sometimes I will text and he might not respond for a few hours if he is busy. Its not personal. He's just busy.

Especially while you are only dating and not in a exclusive relationship you might need to change your expectations.


Jeanne
I am always admiring your wits BUT here I must chime in!
There no such thing too busy to text or call!
If he cares, loves you and all - there is no such busy mode!
I once said - I don't want to hear this nonsense! You go to the bathroom? Text me HI I am ok how are you busy will call later...or tomorrow...
And he does!!! Because he cares!!!
Otherwise I would doubt his feelings.
And you know I am talking about Scorpio! Who's mind can be changed...never! Lol


So are you saying that my partner doesn't love me?


For me that would be a huge problem!
Because when I love someone that person is on my mind all the time.
I am never too busy to forget his existence! I can hardly imagine what would I have to be doing to be too busy to not to want to hear his voice and have a few laughs together. 5 min conversation does wonders! WHO doesn't have 5 minutes?
And I am talking about crazy Scorp who makes himself busy if he can relax. Being relaxed is not natural for him. However there is always driving or being at the store or just finishing something and taking a break before starting something new to tell me what happened and what's is going to happen...
Seems just natural!


Hmm, maybe I should break up with him then...


It is just a talk we have here. If something that bothers me doesn't bother you - just do what you feels right for you.
But when advice given to the other person we both have a say. Don't we?
I just can not imagine him doesn't want to say hello. That would make me sad and wondering and paranoid. But it's me.
click to expand


It really doesn't bother me. If he was calling me to tell me what is happening and what is going to happen, it would drive me up the wall. I don't need and frankly, am not interested in that level of detail. I'm not his mother. We can discuss the big events when we see each other.

And yes, he can get too busy. Juggling kids, businesses, customers and family issues - sometimes it gets to 2 in the morning when he finally stops, I don't want a phone call then to say hi.

I'm busy too sometimes working 16 hour days. I barely have time for the toilet at times, should I call him when he is also busy to discuss our day when deadlines are pursuing me?

It doesn't mean that we aren't thinking of each other, it just means we are focused on other things.

We are not the centre of each others lives. He is not of mine and I don't want to be of his.

Posted by Capri__unicorn
I totally get that we subscribe to the idea that effort equals interest but that is not the end all be all for every person. Some of male friends are in constant contact with girls that they only like sleeping with. Others are in long committed relationships and don't speak every single day.


I guess love strength is different for people.
For some love is all consuming and blows their mind away.
For others - it's less tense and more levelheaded.
So I guess if you can live a whole day or 2 without communication - great!
To me however it would mean you can live another day and another day - so just live without me than...
But again - that's me!
Posted by jeane
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by jeane
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by jeane
Posted by countrygirl88
Very valid point...he brought her up bc i asked if there was any other person in the picture....he responded yes, and did say that he once thought he could see himself with her, but that doesn't mean that they are going to be together....he then said that they aren't having sex, "or anything", like there was nothing really going on with her....i didn't pry bc i honestly don't care in the sense of being insecure, but the reason why it crossed my mind is bc i don't compete with females for male attention...just not that desperate....but i do like him and don't wanna throw things away based upon an assumption....

Hi Jean, im more of a talk everyday type...when i am interested in someone i don't like days to go by without hearing from that person...im not saying that i need to be on the phone 24/7...just a call here, a text there...bc you make time for what you want, imo


A typical Taurus may not be for you then. They will become occupied with other things. They are fairly independent and I think from my experience, they expect you to be the same.

I speak to my partner fairly regularly but not everyday. There will be the odd days where he will get on with whatever he needs to deal with. Sometimes I will text and he might not respond for a few hours if he is busy. Its not personal. He's just busy.

Especially while you are only dating and not in a exclusive relationship you might need to change your expectations.


Jeanne
I am always admiring your wits BUT here I must chime in!
There no such thing too busy to text or call!
If he cares, loves you and all - there is no such busy mode!
I once said - I don't want to hear this nonsense! You go to the bathroom? Text me HI I am ok how are you busy will call later...or tomorrow...
And he does!!! Because he cares!!!
Otherwise I would doubt his feelings.
And you know I am talking about Scorpio! Who's mind can be changed...never! Lol


So are you saying that my partner doesn't love me?


For me that would be a huge problem!
Because when I love someone that person is on my mind all the time.
I am never too busy to forget his existence! I can hardly imagine what would I have to be doing to be too busy to not to want to hear his voice and have a few laughs together. 5 min conversation does wonders! WHO doesn't have 5 minutes?
And I am talking about crazy Scorp who makes himself busy if he can relax. Being relaxed is not natural for him. However there is always driving or being at the store or just finishing something and taking a break before starting something new to tell me what happened and what's is going to happen...
Seems just natural!


Hmm, maybe I should break up with him then...
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It is just a talk we have here. If something that bothers me doesn't bother you - just do what you feels right for you.
But when advice given to the other person we both have a say. Don't we?
I just can not imagine him doesn't want to say hello. That would make me sad and wondering and paranoid. But it's me.
cap sun. cap moon
I totally get that we subscribe to the idea that effort equals interest but that is not the end all be all for every person. Some of male friends are in constant contact with girls that they only like sleeping with. Others are in long committed relationships and don't speak every single day.
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