I punched him in the face

Well my ex invited me to a party just to flirt with other women. He kissed one girl in my face. He went out of his way to be disrespectful and my family was with me. I can’t believe he actually invited me to do that. His friends said I had no right to car
Capri__unicornJune 24, 2018 12:51pm
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  • Posted by -sierra
    Posted by Capri__unicorn
    So I went on a chris brown and karrueche search because I felt like I remembered chris doing similar things to her and just wanted to see if I was right. God he was awful to her. One of their breakups involved him flaunting women in her face. Well it was right after they broke up. He also threatened her several times and humiliated her at his concerts and on social media. Bragged about getting head from her friends and called her everything under the sun. Only to be under her pics with her new boo, cookiemonstering out and deleting his ig. Stalking her ass and trying his hardest to get her attention. My ex is a less intense version of chris. All the manipulation, all the determination to prove he doesn’t care just to be a treetrunkin Creep. After we broke up I moved into a new apartment. One thing that he said to me after the argument was “I know where u live, play with me if u want to”. Hoooooow u know?


    i totally understand why people do stuff lile this.. but it's such a stupid tactic like how do they expect to get someone back by hurting them? like parading someone else will make you run back to their arms.. lol there's a better chance i'd come back if you were even nicer and single lolz... trap me with honey
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    It is stupid, and immature, and full of drama and stress - I'd have blown him out like a candle - she's lucky she wasn't pressed with charges but hey, lesson learned. I hope she moves on and finds someone more mature. Not sure why she was even there in the first place. It all sounds so "messy" ...

  • Why did you accept the invitation tho? Sad sorry for what happend
  • EvatheDiva52
    Pisces: Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury, Saturn, AND Chiron
    53 years old female
    Posted by Capri__unicorn
    Well my ex invited me to a party just to flirt with other women. He kissed one girl in my face. He went out of his way to be disrespectful and my family was with me. I can’t believe he actually invited me to do that. His friends said I had no right to care. I didn’t care that he moved on I cared that he invited me to watch it after a fairly recent breakup. The argument got heated and he called me out of my name so I punched him. I’m embarrassed by both of our behavior and I could never ever speak to him again. I’m sick to my stomach and I literally feel like I want to die. Why would he do that? Why did his friends think that it was ok to do that? Am I the odd one out. I know I shouldn’t have hit him but being called a cookiemonster is a trigger for me. It’s the only time I’ll do that. I’m so confused


    This is WHY I don't treetrunking stay "friends" with ANY of my exes! treetrunk that butter!!

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    Eva

    PS: NO man should call you out by ANY other name other than your "birth name"
  • Capri__unicorn
    cap sun. cap moon
    So I went on a chris brown and karrueche search because I felt like I remembered chris doing similar things to her and just wanted to see if I was right. God he was awful to her. One of their breakups involved him flaunting women in her face. Well it was right after they broke up. He also threatened her several times and humiliated her at his concerts and on social media. Bragged about getting head from her friends and called her everything under the sun. Only to be under her pics with her new boo, cookiemonstering out and deleting his ig. Stalking her ass and trying his hardest to get her attention. My ex is a less intense version of chris. All the manipulation, all the determination to prove he doesn’t care just to be a treetrunkin Creep. After we broke up I moved into a new apartment. One thing that he said to me after the argument was “I know where u live, play with me if u want to”. Hoooooow u know?
  • Posted by lnana04
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by Capri__unicorn
    Posted by stillstillwater
    I do think it was disrespectful of him to do what he did.

    So I understand your reaction to being disrespected. I think it's one of the most emotional triggers for Caps so I do understand that. You're confused and that's a decent time to evaluate why? Are you confused about why you reacted physically? Are you confused about why he's being disrespectful/trying to trigger you?


    D) all of the above. I feel like as a cap I am naturally less inclined to be demonstrative with how I feel about things. I might strongly dislike something but I will more often than not keep it to myself and walk away or distance myself to avoid confrontation. I always try to be fair. I explain myself too much and I try to adjust to accommodate others. I’m also ridiculously empathic. I’ve always weighed the outcome of most situations and chose the high road for all of my life. I felt like he was secretly trying to pick with me and I lost it. It’s like that person you’ve been bullying for years and you assume will never retailiate and finally they do. The circumstances or situations might change, but I have to be honest. He’s been manipulating me for a long time. He did it more in the beginning. We talked about it and he changed for the time being. He has narcissistic tendencies and he is a hypocrite. Like I said before. He ignored me for weeks one time when he thought I invited him to a place that another guy was in. We weren’t together but he still felt justified to do that. I’m confused about who this man is that I allowed myself to love .


    yes it's like you're letting him set the rules. Just because he got angry/jealous of a dude doesn't mean you have to play his game, you know. Try to channel on your emotions, standards, and expectations of the relationship/yourself? Don't let him dictate what goes.


    This seems impossible with a Taurus for some reason.
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    Why not?
  • Capri__unicorn
    cap sun. cap moon
    Posted by lnana04
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by Capri__unicorn
    Posted by stillstillwater
    I do think it was disrespectful of him to do what he did.

    So I understand your reaction to being disrespected. I think it's one of the most emotional triggers for Caps so I do understand that. You're confused and that's a decent time to evaluate why? Are you confused about why you reacted physically? Are you confused about why he's being disrespectful/trying to trigger you?


    D) all of the above. I feel like as a cap I am naturally less inclined to be demonstrative with how I feel about things. I might strongly dislike something but I will more often than not keep it to myself and walk away or distance myself to avoid confrontation. I always try to be fair. I explain myself too much and I try to adjust to accommodate others. I’m also ridiculously empathic. I’ve always weighed the outcome of most situations and chose the high road for all of my life. I felt like he was secretly trying to pick with me and I lost it. It’s like that person you’ve been bullying for years and you assume will never retailiate and finally they do. The circumstances or situations might change, but I have to be honest. He’s been manipulating me for a long time. He did it more in the beginning. We talked about it and he changed for the time being. He has narcissistic tendencies and he is a hypocrite. Like I said before. He ignored me for weeks one time when he thought I invited him to a place that another guy was in. We weren’t together but he still felt justified to do that. I’m confused about who this man is that I allowed myself to love .


    yes it's like you're letting him set the rules. Just because he got angry/jealous of a dude doesn't mean you have to play his game, you know. Try to channel on your emotions, standards, and expectations of the relationship/yourself? Don't let him dictate what goes.


    This seems impossible with a Taurus for some reason.
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    No other sign bruh. I’m telling u I wouldn’t even let someone get to me like this. What’s with this Taurus cap dynamic
  • Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by Capri__unicorn
    Posted by stillstillwater
    I do think it was disrespectful of him to do what he did.

    So I understand your reaction to being disrespected. I think it's one of the most emotional triggers for Caps so I do understand that. You're confused and that's a decent time to evaluate why? Are you confused about why you reacted physically? Are you confused about why he's being disrespectful/trying to trigger you?


    D) all of the above. I feel like as a cap I am naturally less inclined to be demonstrative with how I feel about things. I might strongly dislike something but I will more often than not keep it to myself and walk away or distance myself to avoid confrontation. I always try to be fair. I explain myself too much and I try to adjust to accommodate others. I’m also ridiculously empathic. I’ve always weighed the outcome of most situations and chose the high road for all of my life. I felt like he was secretly trying to pick with me and I lost it. It’s like that person you’ve been bullying for years and you assume will never retailiate and finally they do. The circumstances or situations might change, but I have to be honest. He’s been manipulating me for a long time. He did it more in the beginning. We talked about it and he changed for the time being. He has narcissistic tendencies and he is a hypocrite. Like I said before. He ignored me for weeks one time when he thought I invited him to a place that another guy was in. We weren’t together but he still felt justified to do that. I’m confused about who this man is that I allowed myself to love .


    yes it's like you're letting him set the rules. Just because he got angry/jealous of a dude doesn't mean you have to play his game, you know. Try to channel on your emotions, standards, and expectations of the relationship/yourself? Don't let him dictate what goes.
    click to expand


    This seems impossible with a Taurus for some reason.
  • Posted by ChuggingA
    Posted by looneymoonmaiden
    Posted by ChuggingA
    Posted by Capri__unicorn
    Posted by -sierra
    Posted by Capri__unicorn
    Posted by -sierra
    but what you hanging out with an ex for OP? were you hoping to get back together?


    Idk I guess because I consider myself to be fairly cool. Dry laid back for the most part and keep to myself. I figured it would be a cool vibe because of the type of event. I also went in with the thought that I would be mindful of my interactions thinking he would do he same.I am very close with most of my ex’s and we hang out often with no major issues. This seemed like it was intentional to take it to this next level


    so uhh.. how'd he react to the punch?
    did a lot of people see you do it?
    if it were me, i'd just pretend nothing happened afterwards.. too embarrassing
    His family and friends saw. He told me to hit him again and called me a cookiemonster

    Lol


    "very close with most of my ex's '

    yea...uhmm....can see how there were issues during your relationship

    i know (just like water signs)....earth signs dont "share"

    even thought there is no cheating.....being close with ex's is not a trait we "accept' in our partners

    really...not...just like food....we cook for our loved ones...but whats on my plate..is mine lol

    You got the wrong guy. I dont share, but I have libra mars. I can be a friendly person to women, men, exes, aliens doesnt matter you can trust me if I say I'm not treetrunking anybody else. If an ex has something cool going on then come along. Idgaf. The way my relationships end are slow and drawn out, not a lot of treetrunking going on sadly so I dont think Ive banged different people within a month of each other ever. I dont think I could pull off physically cheating tbh. It would be written all over me and not just because I'm into kinky stuff like them writing on me.
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    im a libra mars too.....i dont keep ex's in my life

    i see no point in them being there
    and for my partner i find it just weird if they where...
  • Posted by Capri__unicorn
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by lnana04
    What's a normal emotional reaction in this type of situation?


    If I wasn't over the break up? I'd be angry af and definitely feel disrespected. And as many people here said that the dignified thing to do is to leave I wouldn't be able to. I'd just be glued to that scene.

    I'd just simmer in my anger and fantasize about breaking every breakable thing in the room. #angerissues



    Honey do you understand the rage? I was gluuuuued. Once the argument started and it was already embarrassing I was kind of like treetrunk it I’ve already gotten played in front of everyone. Might as well go out with a bang
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    lmao!

  • Posted by Capri__unicorn
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by lnana04
    What's a normal emotional reaction in this type of situation?


    If I wasn't over the break up? I'd be angry af and definitely feel disrespected. And as many people here said that the dignified thing to do is to leave I wouldn't be able to. I'd just be glued to that scene.

    I'd just simmer in my anger and fantasize about breaking every breakable thing in the room. #angerissues



    Honey do you understand the rage? I was gluuuuued. Once the argument started and it was already embarrassing I was kind of like treetrunk it I’ve already gotten played in front of everyone. Might as well go out with a bang
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    absolutely. well guess what, it'll be a funny story to your kids/grandkids/friends soon!
  • Posted by Capri__unicorn
    Posted by stillstillwater
    I do think it was disrespectful of him to do what he did.

    So I understand your reaction to being disrespected. I think it's one of the most emotional triggers for Caps so I do understand that. You're confused and that's a decent time to evaluate why? Are you confused about why you reacted physically? Are you confused about why he's being disrespectful/trying to trigger you?


    D) all of the above. I feel like as a cap I am naturally less inclined to be demonstrative with how I feel about things. I might strongly dislike something but I will more often than not keep it to myself and walk away or distance myself to avoid confrontation. I always try to be fair. I explain myself too much and I try to adjust to accommodate others. I’m also ridiculously empathic. I’ve always weighed the outcome of most situations and chose the high road for all of my life. I felt like he was secretly trying to pick with me and I lost it. It’s like that person you’ve been bullying for years and you assume will never retailiate and finally they do. The circumstances or situations might change, but I have to be honest. He’s been manipulating me for a long time. He did it more in the beginning. We talked about it and he changed for the time being. He has narcissistic tendencies and he is a hypocrite. Like I said before. He ignored me for weeks one time when he thought I invited him to a place that another guy was in. We weren’t together but he still felt justified to do that. I’m confused about who this man is that I allowed myself to love .
    click to expand


    yes it's like you're letting him set the rules. Just because he got angry/jealous of a dude doesn't mean you have to play his game, you know. Try to channel on your emotions, standards, and expectations of the relationship/yourself? Don't let him dictate what goes.
  • Capri__unicorn
    cap sun. cap moon
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by lnana04
    What's a normal emotional reaction in this type of situation?


    If I wasn't over the break up? I'd be angry af and definitely feel disrespected. And as many people here said that the dignified thing to do is to leave I wouldn't be able to. I'd just be glued to that scene.

    I'd just simmer in my anger and fantasize about breaking every breakable thing in the room. #angerissues

    click to expand


    Honey do you understand the rage? I was gluuuuued. Once the argument started and it was already embarrassing I was kind of like treetrunk it I’ve already gotten played in front of everyone. Might as well go out with a bang
  • I punched a guy and I liked it...
    my fist against his plain chap stick

    I punched a guy just to try it
    I hope his lil gfs don't mind it

    It felt so wrong
    It felt so right
    Don't mean I'm proud tonight
    I punched a guy and I liked it
    I liked it
  • Capri__unicorn
    cap sun. cap moon
    Posted by ChuggingA
    I laughed at "hit me again, cookiemonster" after getting decked in the face


    Lmao this isn’t funny but right now it is.
  • Capri__unicorn
    cap sun. cap moon
    Posted by stillstillwater
    I do think it was disrespectful of him to do what he did.

    So I understand your reaction to being disrespected. I think it's one of the most emotional triggers for Caps so I do understand that. You're confused and that's a decent time to evaluate why? Are you confused about why you reacted physically? Are you confused about why he's being disrespectful/trying to trigger you?


    D) all of the above. I feel like as a cap I am naturally less inclined to be demonstrative with how I feel about things. I might strongly dislike something but I will more often than not keep it to myself and walk away or distance myself to avoid confrontation. I always try to be fair. I explain myself too much and I try to adjust to accommodate others. I’m also ridiculously empathic. I’ve always weighed the outcome of most situations and chose the high road for all of my life. I felt like he was secretly trying to pick with me and I lost it. It’s like that person you’ve been bullying for years and you assume will never retailiate and finally they do. The circumstances or situations might change, but I have to be honest. He’s been manipulating me for a long time. He did it more in the beginning. We talked about it and he changed for the time being. He has narcissistic tendencies and he is a hypocrite. Like I said before. He ignored me for weeks one time when he thought I invited him to a place that another guy was in. We weren’t together but he still felt justified to do that. I’m confused about who this man is that I allowed myself to love .

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