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Mostly everyone knows i been dealing with a Taurus man for over an year? We known each other for 3 years. We were hooking up but last week i found out i was pregnant. Our relationship was rocky he ended a week ago. Now he contacts me everyday checking on me. Theres no intimacy. He admitted his feelings for me he somewhat seems to confuse me because we talked bout the issues we had going on between us. We are now friends because im pregnant. He took me out to eat we talked he said he wanted an abortion but im confused if that what he truly wants. I feel like he wanted a relationship due to me being pregnant and i told him i didnt want one due to the fact my life bout to change. He took me to couple places he only touched my belly once. We been laughing and joking around. He said it be weird to have sex but he was slapping my butt and touching my boobs rubbing my leg. What is up with my Taurus guy?
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I don't believe in abortions. He been telling me what he gor going on. He said im a part of him now he wants to take care of me. He wants to go to the doc appointment with me. He apologize for all he did to me. I told him i just wanted to move on. Why would he care if i find someone else if we were drifting apart. I bought him a pair of shoes before we broke it off. I seen him out last week at this restuarant. He told me to come over where he is and ask who i was with why i didn't tell him i was there. He introduce to his friend. I introduce to my co worker. My co worker said he was checking me out all night. My brother and his friend showed up he seem jealous. He got mad for not paying his tab. He ended it. I don't know what hes deal is now? Just keeps asking i got someone but im pregnant by him.
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I don't believe in abortions. He been telling me what he gor going on. He said im a part of him now he wants to take care of me. He wants to go to the doc appointment with me. He apologize for all he did to me. I told him i just wanted to move on. Why would he care if i find someone else if we were drifting apart. I bought him a pair of shoes before we broke it off. I seen him out last week at this restuarant. He told me to come over where he is and ask who i was with why i didn't tell him i was there. He introduce me to his friend. I introduce him to my co worker. My co worker said he was checking me out all night. My brother and his friend showed up he seem jealous. He got mad for not paying his tab. He ended it. I don't know what hes deal is now? Just keeps asking i got someone but im pregnant by him. I wasn't seeing anyone else. I work alot. And i understand hes curious if its his but only guy i been with. Ill have a Libra baby. It will be my first. Now he haven't said much bout an abortion. He said he didn't care who kid it is i don't need one due to our future. Im confused as hell.
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Posted by Mr_Pinchy
he wants you to do the abortion....cuz lul, you got dumped one week before, using a bit of yet to be evolved sperm as relationship glue is kinda icky....no pun intended.

he wants to have sex a bit more, while he still can....gonna go out on a limb here and say he ain't a fan of the prego category on pornhub

2 cents



I was shocked i was pregnant. It was this week i found out and he dumped me last Saturday.
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Posted by Diamondnurse
I don't believe in abortions. He been telling me what he gor going on. He said im a part of him now he wants to take care of me. He wants to go to the doc appointment with me. He apologize for all he did to me. I told him i just wanted to move on. Why would he care if i find someone else if we were drifting apart. I bought him a pair of shoes before we broke it off. I seen him out last week at this restuarant. He told me to come over where he is and ask who i was with why i didn't tell him i was there. He introduce to his friend. I introduce to my co worker. My co worker said he was checking me out all night. My brother and his friend showed up he seem jealous. He got mad for not paying his tab. He ended it. I don't know what hes deal is now? Just keeps asking i got someone but im pregnant by him.
“Just keeps asking I got someone”

He’s trying to find out if ya’ll need to go Maury.

“You are not the father” as he does back flips on the stage.

Smh
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He wants an abortion? Wow that’s really sad.
Im a leo too. Sometimes i feel bullheaded like a Taurus. I didnt fw no one no lie he can believe what he wants. He said maybe there could be something for us in the future whatever that means. I told him im moving along i can't be stuck on a years worth of bs.
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No you can’t you need to move on from him. You have some tough descisions to make.
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He wants an abortion? Wow that’s really sad.
Im a leo too. Sometimes i feel bullheaded like a Taurus. I didnt fw no one no lie he can believe what he wants. He said maybe there could be something for us in the future whatever that means. I told him im moving along i can't be stuck on a years worth of bs.
No you can’t you need to move on from him. You have some tough descisions to make.
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I been moved on from him. He thinking i trapping him nope. I just want to be civil.
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Posted by Diamondnurse
Mostly everyone knows i been dealing with a Taurus man for over an year? We known each other for 3 years. We were hooking up but last week i found out i was pregnant. Our relationship was rocky he ended a week ago. Now he contacts me everyday checking on me. Theres no intimacy. He admitted his feelings for me he somewhat seems to confuse me because we talked bout the issues we had going on between us. We are now friends because im pregnant. He took me out to eat we talked he said he wanted an abortion but im confused if that what he truly wants. I feel like he wanted a relationship due to me being pregnant and i told him i didnt want one due to the fact my life bout to change. He took me to couple places he only touched my belly once. We been laughing and joking around. He said it be weird to have sex but he was slapping my butt and touching my boobs rubbing my leg. What is up with my Taurus guy?
If he asked you to have an abortion it's because he didn't see longevity or a future with you.

Bulls are practical, mind games require too much mental gymnastics, we would rather just get straight to the point.

Emotions fleet, Bulls require something a little more tangible, for some reason he doesn't see anything concrete with you...nor does he want a stable relationship with you.

Emotions are one thing.

Practicality is another.

Don't attempt to confuse the two.

If he's being nice, it's out of duty and obligation for an unborn child.

Stop being a melodramatic Leo by getting your hopes up and your panties wet.

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I think his girlfriend or wife would be upset if you kept the baby. 😄

You need to do whats best for you. Depending on if your biological clock is ticking or not. The baby decision will be yours but your relationship is already damaged. It will be worse when a kid is involved. This man told you to abort his baby. I wouldn't count on him if you plan on keeping it.
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Oh no it's her! What is it with all the idiots coming back all of the sudden? Is there something in the water? Are the new perks of DXP subscription that hard to resist?

Sorry, honey, you're responsible for your own stupidity. It's not our fault you're not smart enough to take good timely advice while you still could. It's your problem now.
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Mostly everyone knows i been dealing with a Taurus man for over an year? We known each other for 3 years. We were hooking up but last week i found out i was pregnant. Our relationship was rocky he ended a week ago. Now he contacts me everyday checking on me. Theres no intimacy. He admitted his feelings for me he somewhat seems to confuse me because we talked bout the issues we had going on between us. We are now friends because im pregnant. He took me out to eat we talked he said he wanted an abortion but im confused if that what he truly wants. I feel like he wanted a relationship due to me being pregnant and i told him i didnt want one due to the fact my life bout to change. He took me to couple places he only touched my belly once. We been laughing and joking around. He said it be weird to have sex but he was slapping my butt and touching my boobs rubbing my leg. What is up with my Taurus guy?
If he asked you to have an abortion it's because he didn't see longevity or a future with you.

Bulls are practical, mind games require too much mental gymnastics, we would rather just get straight to the point.

Emotions fleet, Bulls require something a little more tangible, for some reason he doesn't see anything concrete with you...nor does he want a stable relationship with you.

Emotions are one thing.

Practicality is another.

Don't attempt to confuse the two.

If he's being nice, it's out of duty and obligation for an unborn child.

Stop being a melodramatic Leo by getting your hopes up and your panties wet.

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First of all. I haven’t had sex with him lately and two I can careless about him. I’m not getting an abortion so that’s final. And he can move on with his life I can careless. He can have his hoes And whatever else he thinks he wants out of life. I told him I didn’t want a relationship period. He’s trying to manipulate me and I’m not dumb. I’m going along with it so he can be caught redhand. I got love and care for him but I’m not in love with him. I can careless really what he got going on.
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Posted by queenaries_
Your Taurus guy just wants sex

Is it that hard to tell

He doesn’t love you, because if he did he wouldn’t tell you to adopt a baby


I agree. We both wanted sex but he’s an immature asshole that’s trying to destroy me for no reason. He can move on cause I won’t let him get me down. And he thinks he has so much power it’s so sad that’s why he’s not no where near where he wants to be in his life. He’s 36 so sad. He contacts me and I ignore him. I don’t want shit to do with him. He’s a narcissistic person
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Posted by Cvurkoo
Congrats on being pregnant!

You are not in the best spot, i can see that, but a life is forming in you and thats magical.

The guy seems inadequate.

My advice, without knowing your situation, is to make everyrhing possible to create a stable and secure environment for yourself and the baby. How you interpret that and what it means to you is for you to find out. Just make that a priority.
I’m doing what’s best for me and my baby. He told me he didn’t care whose baby is I need an abortion I don’t need a child. Like who says things like that. And I’m not dramatic I know what’s going on and I don’t need advice. I’m just curious why he’s wasting time to play himself. Straight dummy man. I’m far from dumb. You can’t fool a strong minded person with a weak minded wanting control and power that they can’t have for themselves.
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Mostly everyone knows i been dealing with a Taurus man for over an year? We known each other for 3 years. We were hooking up but last week i found out i was pregnant. Our relationship was rocky he ended a week ago. Now he contacts me everyday checking on me. Theres no intimacy. He admitted his feelings for me he somewhat seems to confuse me because we talked bout the issues we had going on between us. We are now friends because im pregnant. He took me out to eat we talked he said he wanted an abortion but im confused if that what he truly wants. I feel like he wanted a relationship due to me being pregnant and i told him i didnt want one due to the fact my life bout to change. He took me to couple places he only touched my belly once. We been laughing and joking around. He said it be weird to have sex but he was slapping my butt and touching my boobs rubbing my leg. What is up with my Taurus guy?
what is up with YOU? what do you want?

do you love him? sorry, I dont remember the backstory

are these your sentences from the opening posts usual for you and your relationship and would be understandable, if I knew your backstory?

like:

"we are now friends becuase im pregnant"

"i told him i didnt want one (a relationship) due to the fact my life bout to change" —

"we been laughing and joking around" - I am not sure there is anything to laugh and joke about, if you are pregnant and he wants an abortion

you got dumped a week ago and you found out just a week ago that you are pregnant.....did he dump you because of your pregnancy, or he dumped you and THEN you discovered you are pregnant? I am just confused and not convinced, what is going on

Edit: PS. Are you prepared to be a single mother? do you have the finances, loving and supporting family and friends, good prospects for the baby, mental and emotional stability, if you rise this child alone? (again, sorry, I dont know the backstory)



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He said he wants us to think of our futures. He says maybe few years there could be something for us he says he got a lot going In his life he’s not stable. It will be my first child. I’m stronger than I give myself credit if I’m a single parent I’ll do what’s best for my child. We had ups n downs in our relationship we ended it couple times. He admit he liked me but Taurus take forever to commit. I guess he was unsure I liked him. He doesn’t talk much bout feelings I don’t either we both introverts. I don’t date all I do is work. A guy isn’t my priority we always been friends but we got physical we went on dates. I’m confused we had a talk the other day but I don’t like drama or bs. So don’t say I’m a dramatic Leo cause far from it. I stay to myself.
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Mostly everyone knows i been dealing with a Taurus man for over an year? We known each other for 3 years. We were hooking up but last week i found out i was pregnant. Our relationship was rocky he ended a week ago. Now he contacts me everyday checking on me. Theres no intimacy. He admitted his feelings for me he somewhat seems to confuse me because we talked bout the issues we had going on between us. We are now friends because im pregnant. He took me out to eat we talked he said he wanted an abortion but im confused if that what he truly wants. I feel like he wanted a relationship due to me being pregnant and i told him i didnt want one due to the fact my life bout to change. He took me to couple places he only touched my belly once. We been laughing and joking around. He said it be weird to have sex but he was slapping my butt and touching my boobs rubbing my leg. What is up with my Taurus guy?
what is up with YOU? what do you want?

do you love him? sorry, I dont remember the backstory

are these your sentences from the opening posts usual for you and your relationship and would be understandable, if I knew your backstory?

like:

"we are now friends becuase im pregnant"

"i told him i didnt want one (a relationship) due to the fact my life bout to change" —

"we been laughing and joking around" - I am not sure there is anything to laugh and joke about, if you are pregnant and he wants an abortion

you got dumped a week ago and you found out just a week ago that you are pregnant.....did he dump you because of your pregnancy, or he dumped you and THEN you discovered you are pregnant? I am just confused and not convinced, what is going on

Edit: PS. Are you prepared to be a single mother? do you have the finances, loving and supporting family and friends, good prospects for the baby, mental and emotional stability, if you rise this child alone? (again, sorry, I dont know the backstory)



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We both confused on what we were doing the situation was confusing and we both hurt each other. I decided to move on I can’t dwell on the past. He contacts me everyday and I told him I don’t believe in abortions. So he going to have to deal with it’s my body my decision. People try to force relationships now days and I don’t do that. I just wanted understanding on the situation but I got his side. Very miscommunication at the end of the day it’s not bout me or him I got a child to think bout now
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Posted by Diamondnurse
He thought I had someone else and I didn’t. It was my brother he was jealous of and he needs to focus on his life and I’m focusing on mine. I’ll take my own responsibility I don’t need advice cause I’m gonna do what I need to do. So thank you to the nonsense comments that’s irrelevant. I got my answers from him now so I’m fine.
okey, now its clearer

but the "I’ll take my own responsibility I don’t need advice cause I’m gonna do what I need to do. " hm....... " I dont need advice" ?

the good thing is, that it seems you have a good relationship with your brother, so he can be a father figure for the child

but you have to consider also, if you can be forgiving enough to let the father, if he comes along, into the life of your child, and you will not use the: "he didnt want you, he wanted to abort you" card

he may be a flaky user, or whatever, but you just know decided, to have his child, so you think his genes are good enough







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Mostly everyone knows i been dealing with a Taurus man for over an year? We known each other for 3 years. We were hooking up but last week i found out i was pregnant. Our relationship was rocky he ended a week ago. Now he contacts me everyday checking on me. Theres no intimacy. He admitted his feelings for me he somewhat seems to confuse me because we talked bout the issues we had going on between us. We are now friends because im pregnant. He took me out to eat we talked he said he wanted an abortion but im confused if that what he truly wants. I feel like he wanted a relationship due to me being pregnant and i told him i didnt want one due to the fact my life bout to change. He took me to couple places he only touched my belly once. We been laughing and joking around. He said it be weird to have sex but he was slapping my butt and touching my boobs rubbing my leg. What is up with my Taurus guy?
what is up with YOU? what do you want?

do you love him? sorry, I dont remember the backstory

are these your sentences from the opening posts usual for you and your relationship and would be understandable, if I knew your backstory?

like:

"we are now friends becuase im pregnant"

"i told him i didnt want one (a relationship) due to the fact my life bout to change" —

"we been laughing and joking around" - I am not sure there is anything to laugh and joke about, if you are pregnant and he wants an abortion

you got dumped a week ago and you found out just a week ago that you are pregnant.....did he dump you because of your pregnancy, or he dumped you and THEN you discovered you are pregnant? I am just confused and not convinced, what is going on

Edit: PS. Are you prepared to be a single mother? do you have the finances, loving and supporting family and friends, good prospects for the baby, mental and emotional stability, if you rise this child alone? (again, sorry, I dont know the backstory)




We both confused on what we were doing the situation was confusing and we both hurt each other. I decided to move on I can’t dwell on the past. He contacts me everyday and I told him I don’t believe in abortions. So he going to have to deal with it’s my body my decision. People try to force relationships now days and I don’t do that. I just wanted understanding on the situation but I got his side. Very miscommunication at the end of the day it’s not bout me or him I got a child to think bout now
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"at the end of the day it’s not bout me or him I got a child to think bout now"

exactly

so now I see in a different light, that you are friends with him, and joking around, its a good thing, your child have to know his father.... think about it like this: you have the child in your body, you feel it, you can "connect" during your pregnancy......... for him, its a very fresh information, and at the same time he discovered you are pregnant, you told him also, that you are keeping the baby.... he needs the time to adjust as well..... he has 9 months at least to adjust to the thought, and maybe he will step up...

one week is hardly enough to adjust to the thought, even more if you had or still have a rocky relationship...

he will come around, be calm and focus, what is best for your child

even if he doesnt love you, he may be a good father, so being in a relationship is not equal to being a good father, eventually.... which we dont know, after a week

but its very good, that you remain friendly with him

its not about only you two anymore, as you said
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Mostly everyone knows i been dealing with a Taurus man for over an year? We known each other for 3 years. We were hooking up but last week i found out i was pregnant. Our relationship was rocky he ended a week ago. Now he contacts me everyday checking on me. Theres no intimacy. He admitted his feelings for me he somewhat seems to confuse me because we talked bout the issues we had going on between us. We are now friends because im pregnant. He took me out to eat we talked he said he wanted an abortion but im confused if that what he truly wants. I feel like he wanted a relationship due to me being pregnant and i told him i didnt want one due to the fact my life bout to change. He took me to couple places he only touched my belly once. We been laughing and joking around. He said it be weird to have sex but he was slapping my butt and touching my boobs rubbing my leg. What is up with my Taurus guy?
what is up with YOU? what do you want?

do you love him? sorry, I dont remember the backstory

are these your sentences from the opening posts usual for you and your relationship and would be understandable, if I knew your backstory?

like:

"we are now friends becuase im pregnant"

"i told him i didnt want one (a relationship) due to the fact my life bout to change" —

"we been laughing and joking around" - I am not sure there is anything to laugh and joke about, if you are pregnant and he wants an abortion

you got dumped a week ago and you found out just a week ago that you are pregnant.....did he dump you because of your pregnancy, or he dumped you and THEN you discovered you are pregnant? I am just confused and not convinced, what is going on

Edit: PS. Are you prepared to be a single mother? do you have the finances, loving and supporting family and friends, good prospects for the baby, mental and emotional stability, if you rise this child alone? (again, sorry, I dont know the backstory)




We both confused on what we were doing the situation was confusing and we both hurt each other. I decided to move on I can’t dwell on the past. He contacts me everyday and I told him I don’t believe in abortions. So he going to have to deal with it’s my body my decision. People try to force relationships now days and I don’t do that. I just wanted understanding on the situation but I got his side. Very miscommunication at the end of the day it’s not bout me or him I got a child to think bout now
"at the end of the day it’s not bout me or him I got a child to think bout now"

exactly

so now I see in a different light, that you are friends with him, and joking around, its a good thing, your child have to know his father.... think about it like this: you have the child in your body, you feel it, you can "connect" during your pregnancy......... for him, its a very fresh information, and at the same time he discovered you are pregnant, you told him also, that you are keeping the baby.... he needs the time to adjust as well..... he has 9 months at least to adjust to the thought, and maybe he will step up...

one week is hardly enough to adjust to the thought, even more if you had or still have a rocky relationship...

he will come around, be calm and focus, what is best for your child

even if he doesnt love you, he may be a good father, so being in a relationship is not equal to being a good father, eventually.... which we dont know, after a week

but its very good, that you remain friendly with him

its not about only you two anymore, as you said
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He says give him time. He has a lot going on. He has two deaths and I get it. He says he wants to be there for the appointment but it’s hard to adjust. It’s been over a week now it takes time.
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Posted by wiseblood
Pretty sure this poster is a troll guys.. Or I sort of hope so.

I figured as much when she was posting on the Libra board about 2 different Libras.. yet apparently has been with this Taurus the whole time? She's a fake or a hoe.. Definitely should consider an abortion if this shit is real.
First not a hoe. I been with my Taurus for a year and Libra is two years old. So grow up what’s that got to do with anything. And no I haven’t. I know who I been with. I work two jobs so please.
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And it’s sad how people think now days. I hope you guys have kids and see how someone says mean things to you like that. You sound miserable what’s my post now got to do with my post two years ago ? Holding on the past gets you no where judging some one off a post tells me people are simple minded and quick to judge others without knowing exactly what’s said or done. Have a good day.
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What’s the Libra got to do with anything. I been with my Taurus with an year. Dec 2016. And I don’t post my whole life on here. and Libra was the guy I was dealing with before. I had broken it off with him may 2016. I known my Taurus for 3 years. Libra kept trying to talk to me at that time and I was done. And idc bout the Libra. I’m pregnant now what’s that got to do with anything you are miserable as hell. A hoe is a female that fucks with multiple men. And I been dealing with the same guy for a year now nobody else so idc bout all that irrelevant bs you trying to say bout me. I know what I do at the end of the day and I know who I’m pregnant by.
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I was dealing with him for 3 months by that time so what’s my previous post got to do what I’m going thru right now ? I’m pregnant by the guy I been dealing with and you sound miserable asf and not judging by zodiac cause it depends on the person. You really don’t know me like I don’t know you. I told you what I wanted you to know I get straight to the point. Who wants to read a novel on a post.
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You want my texts messages my posts my pregnancy info like you frfr have no life cause you got an issue with someone online you don’t even know that’s funny as hell. People need a life. A hater always got something to say and always judging someone before someone points out there flaws. I know me then anyone everyday. And you judging others by a post is sad. I don’t comment on no ones post. It’s called venting I don’t need advice. I’m done giving people energy or explaining myself to someone I never meet ever in my life. Not everyone deserves to know you. Only person can judge is god. Stay blessed not stressed boo.
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Posted by queenaries_
Your Taurus guy just wants sex

Is it that hard to tell

He doesn’t love you, because if he did he wouldn’t tell you to adopt a baby


I agree. We both wanted sex but he’s an immature asshole that’s trying to destroy me for no reason. He can move on cause I won’t let him get me down. And he thinks he has so much power it’s so sad that’s why he’s not no where near where he wants to be in his life. He’s 36 so sad. He contacts me and I ignore him. I don’t want shit to do with him. He’s a narcissistic person
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He’s paying for the crime so he figures he might as well get his pound of flesh. Aka he impregnates you so he wants the casual sex to continue so he can nut inside you cause you know...already pregnant.

What exactly do you want from him in regards to your kid?

Child support?

Involvement?

Coparenting?

How will you feel if he goes after his parental rights and gets partial custody?

What if he’s dealing with another female you don’t like and who is gonna be around your child?

I’d think about all these things and talk to him about his expectations.

Don’t burn bridges with harsh words. This man is going to be a part of your life for the next 18 years minimum...could be for the rest of your life.

Maintaining civility and respect towards each other is paramount.
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i think that you should take him by his word. even if it seems to change day to day always take him for his word. we are all guilty of feeling one way one minute and then grasping reality onto things and changing our minds to think another. in my experience with Taurus, they can really question themselves a lot and it takes them time and a lot of processing to really understand what they want.

the thing is you might bring a life into this world.

this very over populated and fragile world.

and you will be the mother. usually the mother is always the one that takes on all the bs when the dad doesn't.

your life will change, you wont be able to get up and go. or change you life when things are messy like the men can when your a mother.

plus its really hard and sad when you have a child but no father for support.

im a mother, I have a "friend" type relationship with my sons dad for the sake of my son. but I take on all the responsibility. for the sake of my child I rather my son have a dad rather then fighting the dad for the the things I think he should be. I pay for everything, I am the bad cop all the time, I have to be responsible for raising and teaching, doctors, sickness, school, homework, projects, child care, after school activities, grades, parent teacher conferences, grounding, Christmas, birthday events, clothes, shoes, laundry, making lunch, making breakfast, making dinner, providing snack, make sure he eats right, grounding, I have to repeat myself over and over and the list goes on.... his dad gets home on the weekends, all he does is let him on the compute all day sometimes takes him places and then I get him back on sunday for us to go through it again. and sometimes my sons dad just goes missing and my son misses out and the philological and emotions of a child when they are hurt is just terrible. im not trying to talk you out of having you baby.

but im say be careful and make sure you do whats best for you. timing is everything and you have a long life to live
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Diamondnurse
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8 Years

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Thanks. I know what I need to do what’s best for me and my child. I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt but I’m still going to do what’s best for me n my child regardless whose around or not. I can’t worry bout that. People don’t see how words can make a person hate life. People need to watch their words cause god doesn’t like ugly. You can judge me all you want but if you haven’t walked in my shoes of course you going to have a lot of input saying I’m dumb I’m stupid or whatever. But I’m way past all that. Only opinion going to matter to me is my baby nobody else.
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Diamondnurse
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Posted by queenaries_
Your Taurus guy just wants sex

Is it that hard to tell

He doesn’t love you, because if he did he wouldn’t tell you to adopt a baby


I agree. We both wanted sex but he’s an immature asshole that’s trying to destroy me for no reason. He can move on cause I won’t let him get me down. And he thinks he has so much power it’s so sad that’s why he’s not no where near where he wants to be in his life. He’s 36 so sad. He contacts me and I ignore him. I don’t want shit to do with him. He’s a narcissistic person
He’s paying for the crime so he figures he might as well get his pound of flesh. Aka he impregnates you so he wants the casual sex to continue so he can nut inside you cause you know...already pregnant.

What exactly do you want from him in regards to your kid?

Child support?

Involvement?

Coparenting?

How will you feel if he goes after his parental rights and gets partial custody?

What if he’s dealing with another female you don’t like and who is gonna be around your child?

I’d think about all these things and talk to him about his expectations.

Don’t burn bridges with harsh words. This man is going to be a part of your life for the next 18 years minimum...could be for the rest of your life.

Maintaining civility and respect towards each other is paramount.

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We haven’t had sex and no lie we been causal due to this child. And if it’s sex well we way past that. He looks like he going thru hell. He has family issues going on everything isn’t bout us it’s bout an unborn child. I don’t believe in abortions. I feel sorry for the people that has kids and says that. That sounds like you regret your child because who the father is. That’s sad to me. He’ll have to live with that the rest of the life not me cause I’m taking my responsibility as in making sure I get my child wants n needs established.
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Diamondnurse
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8 Years

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I was in love with him. I had to let him go so I have I just find out I was pregnant and no lie I never knew he felt the same. It eats at me every day to hide my emotions and feelings. He cut me off I guess I pushed him away and he admit he liked me I’m a great girl he hopes I find someone for me. He says I’ll make a good wife to someone someday. He told me he loved me but not in love with me. It’s sad that I’m pregnant and been going thru emotions alone. He hasn’t seen me since he dropped food off to me. He somewhat opened up but I think he’s scared of the love word. Now I got to deal with him when I was trying to move on and process that I had to move on. He said there could be something for us in the future. He has been telling me his future plans and he says he doesn’t want me to feel alone thru my pregnancy. I just emotionally and mentally drained so all the rude comments is unnecessary to me right now. I told him a week ago I needed him in my life he’s a good person to talk to and I don’t want to lose him in my life. Then I find out I’m pregnant. He told me he’s trying to figure things out give him time. It’s all fresh and new with him.
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