Taurus Males - What you say and how you act

Just curious how male bulls (probably with air/fire placements) act and communicate while falling in love.. is it possible that there's some kind of difference? The bull I'm dealing with is very straight in showing emotions physically, but when it comes t
  • I am a cancer female dating a taurus male. we've known of each other for almost a decade, were interested in each other back in the day, but never dated, due to both of us being in relationships. recently we have back come in contact and realized we still liked each other. He has told me that he can see himself being with me, but when I asked if there was anyone else in the picture, he told me that he was considering someone else as well. He downplayed her and said they were not having sex, and made it seem like nothing was really there, just a casual re-connection, but he also is not the best with communicating with me. I sometimes feel as though i have to reach out to him in order to hear from him. If I go a while w/o talking to him, he will reach out but sometimes it takes a day or so to notice that im gone....when we are around each other, he is always touching me, trying to tickle me, and i caught a couple of gazes from him...but then he will leave, text me a few hours later, and then i won't hear anything from him the next day, unless i reach out...i know he wants to take it slow, and i have no issues being patient, knowing i have a reason to...how can i communicate that i am interested in him, and ask how he feels without adding too much pressure?
  • Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Posted by jeane
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Posted by jeane
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Posted by jeane
    i'm not a bull but my partner is.

    at the beginning when he was trying to get on my good side he was filled to the brim with flowery and poetic words. he has a mercury in gem.

    then as we became closer, he became very tight lipped. i would get a bit here and there but on the whole, it seemed really hard for him to communicate his feelings. even now, a few years on, he is still fairly silent.

    he does show his emotions physically but he also shows his love through acts of service. if i'm in trouble he is there. if i need his help with anything, he won't let me down. he will go above and beyond to do kind things for me and ensure that my life is made easier. he has a fire moon.


    Yes, I've experienced the same in the beginning: lots of compliments, charming to the core and coquettish behaviour. The more serious it gets between us, the more he remains silent. We both have air moons so communicating about everything and anything is no problem at all, he's actually quite talkative when we're together. I'm a very verbal person so it's hard for me to read him at times, teasing him just makes him more evasive.. and I don't wanna force him to pay lip service as long as he treats me like he does.

    How did you know eventually you two were in for the long term?


    i am an air sign and we both share the same fire moon so yes, i know what you mean about having lots to say but veering far from all things feelings. i am not always comfortable talking about my feelings either so i have a lot of tolerance for his behaviour.

    im the same where i don't want to beg for the words either. i think i knew when got further down the road and starting having some major rows. lol! after those major fights you know you can get through almost anything.

    good luck! sounds like you might have a good guy on your hands.


    I'm definitively not comfortable talking about my feelings, I'm great at talking myself out out of them. Winking

    Thank you! I really adore this guy. When we have some quality face time he's so caring, respectful and lighthearted he could melt the Arctic! But I guess we've got some miles to go before it will be happily ever after. We had no idea we could stumble over each other when we first met, so we're both struggeling with falling in love and that's a stupid thing to try in the first place.


    Sounds very similar to my situation with my fella. Sometimes the best things come when you least expect it.


    Aww, thank you. I'm not patient and I'm not calm, but I can be persistent and sincere (thanks to my earth placements) and he might be worth it. smile

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    I wasn't patient either but he taught me that skill. Now I can't imagine a life without him. Just be kind to one another. It goes a long way. smile
  • waterbearer_fem
    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by jeane
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Posted by jeane
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Posted by jeane
    i'm not a bull but my partner is.

    at the beginning when he was trying to get on my good side he was filled to the brim with flowery and poetic words. he has a mercury in gem.

    then as we became closer, he became very tight lipped. i would get a bit here and there but on the whole, it seemed really hard for him to communicate his feelings. even now, a few years on, he is still fairly silent.

    he does show his emotions physically but he also shows his love through acts of service. if i'm in trouble he is there. if i need his help with anything, he won't let me down. he will go above and beyond to do kind things for me and ensure that my life is made easier. he has a fire moon.


    Yes, I've experienced the same in the beginning: lots of compliments, charming to the core and coquettish behaviour. The more serious it gets between us, the more he remains silent. We both have air moons so communicating about everything and anything is no problem at all, he's actually quite talkative when we're together. I'm a very verbal person so it's hard for me to read him at times, teasing him just makes him more evasive.. and I don't wanna force him to pay lip service as long as he treats me like he does.

    How did you know eventually you two were in for the long term?


    i am an air sign and we both share the same fire moon so yes, i know what you mean about having lots to say but veering far from all things feelings. i am not always comfortable talking about my feelings either so i have a lot of tolerance for his behaviour.

    im the same where i don't want to beg for the words either. i think i knew when got further down the road and starting having some major rows. lol! after those major fights you know you can get through almost anything.

    good luck! sounds like you might have a good guy on your hands.


    I'm definitively not comfortable talking about my feelings, I'm great at talking myself out out of them. Winking

    Thank you! I really adore this guy. When we have some quality face time he's so caring, respectful and lighthearted he could melt the Arctic! But I guess we've got some miles to go before it will be happily ever after. We had no idea we could stumble over each other when we first met, so we're both struggeling with falling in love and that's a stupid thing to try in the first place.


    Sounds very similar to my situation with my fella. Sometimes the best things come when you least expect it.
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    Aww, thank you. I'm not patient and I'm not calm, but I can be persistent and sincere (thanks to my earth placements) and he might be worth it. smile

  • Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Posted by jeane
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Posted by jeane
    i'm not a bull but my partner is.

    at the beginning when he was trying to get on my good side he was filled to the brim with flowery and poetic words. he has a mercury in gem.

    then as we became closer, he became very tight lipped. i would get a bit here and there but on the whole, it seemed really hard for him to communicate his feelings. even now, a few years on, he is still fairly silent.

    he does show his emotions physically but he also shows his love through acts of service. if i'm in trouble he is there. if i need his help with anything, he won't let me down. he will go above and beyond to do kind things for me and ensure that my life is made easier. he has a fire moon.


    Yes, I've experienced the same in the beginning: lots of compliments, charming to the core and coquettish behaviour. The more serious it gets between us, the more he remains silent. We both have air moons so communicating about everything and anything is no problem at all, he's actually quite talkative when we're together. I'm a very verbal person so it's hard for me to read him at times, teasing him just makes him more evasive.. and I don't wanna force him to pay lip service as long as he treats me like he does.

    How did you know eventually you two were in for the long term?


    i am an air sign and we both share the same fire moon so yes, i know what you mean about having lots to say but veering far from all things feelings. i am not always comfortable talking about my feelings either so i have a lot of tolerance for his behaviour.

    im the same where i don't want to beg for the words either. i think i knew when got further down the road and starting having some major rows. lol! after those major fights you know you can get through almost anything.

    good luck! sounds like you might have a good guy on your hands.


    I'm definitively not comfortable talking about my feelings, I'm great at talking myself out out of them. Winking

    Thank you! I really adore this guy. When we have some quality face time he's so caring, respectful and lighthearted he could melt the Arctic! But I guess we've got some miles to go before it will be happily ever after. We had no idea we could stumble over each other when we first met, so we're both struggeling with falling in love and that's a stupid thing to try in the first place.
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    Sounds very similar to my situation with my fella. Sometimes the best things come when you least expect it.
  • waterbearer_fem
    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by jeane
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Posted by jeane
    i'm not a bull but my partner is.

    at the beginning when he was trying to get on my good side he was filled to the brim with flowery and poetic words. he has a mercury in gem.

    then as we became closer, he became very tight lipped. i would get a bit here and there but on the whole, it seemed really hard for him to communicate his feelings. even now, a few years on, he is still fairly silent.

    he does show his emotions physically but he also shows his love through acts of service. if i'm in trouble he is there. if i need his help with anything, he won't let me down. he will go above and beyond to do kind things for me and ensure that my life is made easier. he has a fire moon.


    Yes, I've experienced the same in the beginning: lots of compliments, charming to the core and coquettish behaviour. The more serious it gets between us, the more he remains silent. We both have air moons so communicating about everything and anything is no problem at all, he's actually quite talkative when we're together. I'm a very verbal person so it's hard for me to read him at times, teasing him just makes him more evasive.. and I don't wanna force him to pay lip service as long as he treats me like he does.

    How did you know eventually you two were in for the long term?


    i am an air sign and we both share the same fire moon so yes, i know what you mean about having lots to say but veering far from all things feelings. i am not always comfortable talking about my feelings either so i have a lot of tolerance for his behaviour.

    im the same where i don't want to beg for the words either. i think i knew when got further down the road and starting having some major rows. lol! after those major fights you know you can get through almost anything.

    good luck! sounds like you might have a good guy on your hands.
    click to expand


    I'm definitively not comfortable talking about my feelings, I'm great at talking myself out out of them. Winking

    Thank you! I really adore this guy. When we have some quality face time he's so caring, respectful and lighthearted he could melt the Arctic! But I guess we've got some miles to go before it will be happily ever after. We had no idea we could stumble over each other when we first met, so we're both struggeling with falling in love and that's a stupid thing to try in the first place.
  • waterbearer_fem
    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by Bricks195
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Just curious how male bulls (probably with air/fire placements) act and communicate while falling in love.. is it possible that there's some kind of difference? The bull I'm dealing with is very straight in showing emotions physically, but when it comes to communicating feelings, he can be cool as treetrunk, even elusive. That's confusing at times, but shouldn't sound like a complaint. Winking

    Probably an air moon thing? What's your experience/self-perception, Taureans?


    I have a water Moon and air Venus. Talkative and flirtatious when I'm attracted to someone, but I've never been a great communicator of feelings. More of a doer.

    It really isn't until a relationship is established that emotions get a little easier for me to deal with. Never crazy about saying how I feel, but it gets easier at that point.

    Always prefer showing to telling.
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    You don't have Venus in Libra, do you? Winking
  • Bricks195
    Sun in Bull, Moon in Fish, etc. ENTJ
    male from USA
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Just curious how male bulls (probably with air/fire placements) act and communicate while falling in love.. is it possible that there's some kind of difference? The bull I'm dealing with is very straight in showing emotions physically, but when it comes to communicating feelings, he can be cool as treetrunk, even elusive. That's confusing at times, but shouldn't sound like a complaint. Winking

    Probably an air moon thing? What's your experience/self-perception, Taureans?


    I have a water Moon and air Venus. Talkative and flirtatious when I'm attracted to someone, but I've never been a great communicator of feelings. More of a doer.

    It really isn't until a relationship is established that emotions get a little easier for me to deal with. Never crazy about saying how I feel, but it gets easier at that point.

    Always prefer showing to telling.
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  • Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Posted by jeane
    i'm not a bull but my partner is.

    at the beginning when he was trying to get on my good side he was filled to the brim with flowery and poetic words. he has a mercury in gem.

    then as we became closer, he became very tight lipped. i would get a bit here and there but on the whole, it seemed really hard for him to communicate his feelings. even now, a few years on, he is still fairly silent.

    he does show his emotions physically but he also shows his love through acts of service. if i'm in trouble he is there. if i need his help with anything, he won't let me down. he will go above and beyond to do kind things for me and ensure that my life is made easier. he has a fire moon.


    Yes, I've experienced the same in the beginning: lots of compliments, charming to the core and coquettish behaviour. The more serious it gets between us, the more he remains silent. We both have air moons so communicating about everything and anything is no problem at all, he's actually quite talkative when we're together. I'm a very verbal person so it's hard for me to read him at times, teasing him just makes him more evasive.. and I don't wanna force him to pay lip service as long as he treats me like he does.

    How did you know eventually you two were in for the long term?

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    i am an air sign and we both share the same fire moon so yes, i know what you mean about having lots to say but veering far from all things feelings. i am not always comfortable talking about my feelings either so i have a lot of tolerance for his behaviour.

    im the same where i don't want to beg for the words either. i think i knew when got further down the road and starting having some major rows. lol! after those major fights you know you can get through almost anything.

    good luck! sounds like you might have a good guy on your hands.
  • waterbearer_fem
    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by jeane
    i'm not a bull but my partner is.

    at the beginning when he was trying to get on my good side he was filled to the brim with flowery and poetic words. he has a mercury in gem.

    then as we became closer, he became very tight lipped. i would get a bit here and there but on the whole, it seemed really hard for him to communicate his feelings. even now, a few years on, he is still fairly silent.

    he does show his emotions physically but he also shows his love through acts of service. if i'm in trouble he is there. if i need his help with anything, he won't let me down. he will go above and beyond to do kind things for me and ensure that my life is made easier. he has a fire moon.


    Yes, I've experienced the same in the beginning: lots of compliments, charming to the core and coquettish behaviour. The more serious it gets between us, the more he remains silent. We both have air moons so communicating about everything and anything is no problem at all, he's actually quite talkative when we're together. I'm a very verbal person so it's hard for me to read him at times, teasing him just makes him more evasive.. and I don't wanna force him to pay lip service as long as he treats me like he does.

    How did you know eventually you two were in for the long term?

  • i'm not a bull but my partner is.

    at the beginning when he was trying to get on my good side he was filled to the brim with flowery and poetic words. he has his mercury in gem.

    then as we became closer, he became very tight lipped. i would get a bit here and there but on the whole, it seemed really hard for him to communicate his feelings. even now, a few years on, he is still fairly silent.

    he does show his emotions physically but he also shows his love through acts of service. if i'm in trouble he is there. if i need his help with anything, he won't let me down. he will go above and beyond to do kind things for me and ensure that my life is made easier. he has a fire moon.
  • waterbearer_fem
    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Just curious how male bulls (probably with air/fire placements) act and communicate while falling in love.. is it possible that there's some kind of difference? The bull I'm dealing with is very straight in showing emotions physically, but when it comes to communicating feelings, he can be cool as treetrunk, even elusive. That's confusing at times, but shouldn't sound like a complaint. Winking

    Probably an air moon thing? What's your experience/self-perception, Taureans?

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